I have a best friend, total alpha guy...good looking, masculine, athletic and a real ladies man, but when we drink he becomes "flirty"...hugs me more, will come over and skinny dip in my pool...has no problems peeing in front of me or coming in the bathroom when I'm peeing. He will tell me to bring my drink into the bathroom while he showers so we can "talk". Nothing overtly sexual, but totally different than when he is sober. We've traveled together for business before. If he's sober he sleeps in t-shirt/underwear, if we've been drinking he gets naked and has even fallen asleep naked in my bed in a hotel room. When he thinks I'm asleep he's even jerked off around me (again, only if he's been drinking) Other than that, it never crosses the line to real sexual behavior...more like flirty. Does anyone else have straight best friends who act differently when drinking. He's my best friends and I consider myself straight but I have to admit his mixed signals have me some what confused and occasionally a little turned on. This has been going on for a few years now. I've joked with him about it when hes sober and he just says, he's comfortable around me, especially when he's been drinking.
Straight Guys Who Become "bi-ish" When Drinking
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One time after a good many drinks I had to share a sofa bed with another guy who I knew was bisexual . I woke up at one point with a hard on and decide to take my pants off and just lay under the blanket but only partially covered so if he looked he would see my erection. In my mind I was hoping he would decide to play with my penis while I feigned sleep.
Nothing happened but in the morning he did ask about it and I lied saying I usually sleep naked and had trouble getting to sleep. Also I said the exposure was unintended and I had been daydreaming about a girl I fancied.
About a month or so later he exposed his erect penis to me but I did not take an interest. It was another awkward situation.
If it happened today I would be happy for him to press his cock up against mine and then fuck me.
Nothing happened but in the morning he did ask about it and I lied saying I usually sleep naked and had trouble getting to sleep. Also I said the exposure was unintended and I had been daydreaming about a girl I fancied.
About a month or so later he exposed his erect penis to me but I did not take an interest. It was another awkward situation.
If it happened today I would be happy for him to press his cock up against mine and then fuck me.
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Usually its just them expressing secret desires. Booze lowers inhibitions and brings out one's true lusts. Speaking as someone who was a heavy drinker for many yrs and into the bar scene.
Then it can always be used as a shield the next day "Oh man, I was just playing around, I was so drunk haha" or "Oh honey I didnt mean to fuck that guy from the bar, I was wasted! I'd never cheat on u sober lol".
Then it can always be used as a shield the next day "Oh man, I was just playing around, I was so drunk haha" or "Oh honey I didnt mean to fuck that guy from the bar, I was wasted! I'd never cheat on u sober lol".
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Hate to break it to you, but any male who does bi or gay stuff when drinking is bi or gay. They just haven’t had the courage to do it without an excuse. Like mentioned above, booze lowers inhibitions and true feelings can ooze out, but a straight male won’t turn bi or gay because he had a few. They are in or gay and just haven’t acted it out.
Much like others have said, consuming alcohol will not make anyone do something unless they already were predisposed to doing it while sober; much like the obnoxious troublemaker who says things when he is drunk that he wants to say when he is not, but doesn't because he is too afraid of getting his ass kicked. The drink made me do it has never been a valid excuse.
The fact your friend only does this when he's had liquid courage shows he is at least bi-curious and if you admit it turns you on then so are you.
The fact your friend only does this when he's had liquid courage shows he is at least bi-curious and if you admit it turns you on then so are you.
Definitely not denying I'm curious about him....and if I were inclined to cross the line it would have to be with him...he's my best friend and we are very comfortable around each other...and it doesn't hurt that he's very good looking and well hung. That being said, as I mentioned in the original post, its always just flirty and although we've been friends for years...he's never done anything more overt than what I described. I'm not sure if he's really "bi" or just comfortable with his best friend.
Although I identify as bi-curious and not bisexual, and I am completely straight acting, I admit that I do get more bisexual as I drink more
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