Straight Guys: Would You Let A Guy Give You A Handjob During A Massage? Why Or Why Not?

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As a part of the massage, if the masseuse offered a "professional" handjob to completion, would you say yes or no? It would be only hands, no mouth or sex. Why or why not?
 

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I have never has a professional massage, never had the need for one. I worked in a part of NY , literally called China Town, where 2 or 3 businesses per block were massage orientated legal / illegal in nature. I thought about it, but never did it

Personally a man with a GF, can get a massage; but a hand job would be considered sex. For those who say it is not sex, if your GF got a massage and the therapist, digitally penetrated her till she orgasmed, would that be OK
 

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As a part of the massage, if the masseuse offered a "professional" handjob to completion, would you say yes or no? It would be only hands, no mouth or sex. Why or why not?
Absolutely. For me, nothing gives me a more intense orgasm than a handjob.
 

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I don’t consider myself 100% straight but I have gotten handjobs during a massage. If the massage is good it makes my dick so hard and the urge to cum so strong that getting off at the end is perfect
I have others with no happy ending and have blown a load before I got dressed
 
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first time i got a massage was on a holiday. it started really nice and relaxing. then she told me to turn over and i was on my back and again it started nice but my dick started to get hard. i did not wanted and i became stressed out and the more i thought about the harder i got. maybe i was not the first guy that had the problem but uncomfortable experience after all.
years later i tried the happy ending massages and those where with male masseurs. feels very good. i would recommend to say yes to the masseur on the happy ending offer
 

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I don’t consider myself 100% straight but I have gotten handjobs during a massage. If the massage is good it makes my dick so hard and the urge to cum so strong that getting off at the end is perfect
I have others with no happy ending and have blown a load before I got dressed
During massage its hard to stay soft. So why not.
 

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No. First, go back and really think about the first word in "Straight guys" and you will figure out why not.

Second, if the person giving the massage was really a professional they would not offer and it would be inappropriate even if it was a woman doing the asking.
 

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No. First, go back and really think about the first word in "Straight guys" and you will figure out why not.

Second, if the person giving the massage was really a professional they would not offer and it would be inappropriate even if it was a woman doing the asking.
Totally agree.
Depends on the area she is professional you might risk to get a lousy massage, handjob or both.
Would be nice to have a hot she plumber but never found one I prefer to get the job done, even if that means dealing with a plumber crack.
 

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For those who say it is not sex, if your GF got a massage and the therapist, digitally penetrated her till she orgasmed, would that be OK

you know the old expression....if you are not sure it was sex...ask your wife/GF what she thinks. LOL
 

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Everyone is an adult and there are generally no major surprises in life other than the ones you give yourself.

With few exceptions my dick and I were never placed in these life or death situations as described here. If I am someplace getting a handjob from a guy or woman I meant to be there.

Other than pissing or personal hygiene if my dick is out it's sexual in nature. regardless of it being "professional" I am engaging in a sex act with another person.

My cock gets hard when the wind blows, so I generally avoid massages unless I know what I am getting into and what the possible results are.

Frankly if I am that physically and mentally broke to get that life or death relaxation; I will take a hot shower, drop some Motrin/Tylenol, watch some porn, jerk myself off and go to sleep.
 

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I've had a couple pro massages by ladies with zero chance of a happy ending and thinking about it I personally would not be aroused at the thought of a dude offering to finish me off. First, I wouldn't accept the male masseuse. The purpose is to relax and I couldn't do that with a dude touching me. I'm not attracted to males in that way/or any so the offer would be a turn off more than anything.
 

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Imma stop you right there. Wont even get that far because Id be requesting a female masseuse. That's too intimate of an experience, even from a professional; where even short of sexual release, much like a professional dance partner, for the vibe to be right It'd have to be a woman for me...then i guess I can open up the table for handjob negotiations(my guess is I can offer up the same masseuse for the wife, she'll get her fingering, and Ill get my handjob and nobody's feelings will get hurt.)
 
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The only professional massages I’ve ever had were therapeutic, after an intense workout/competition or to address a specific physical condition. Ive had both male and female masseuse, and at no time was I ever sexually excited or approached in a sexual manner.

The only time that happens is in porn fantasy films...

And the key here is you are asking in the wrong forum, and you will notice the number of non-straight replies...
 

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Imma stop you right there. Wont even get that far because Id be requesting a female masseuse. That's too intimate of an experience, even from a professional; where even short of sexual release, much like a professional dance partner, for the vibe to be right It'd have to be a woman for me...then i guess I can open up the table for handjob negotiations(my guess is I can offer up the same masseuse for the wife, she'll get her fingering, and Ill get my handjob and nobody's feelings will get hurt.)

Wife would probably have to use a veto in that one
 
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