Straight Guys: Would You Let A Guy Give You A Handjob During A Massage? Why Or Why Not?

[jardodvs]

I think I could be tempted to accept from a masseur...certainly it would depend from the guy

 

[newtothis124]

Imma stop you right there. Wont even get that far because Id be requesting a female masseuse. That's too intimate of an experience, even from a professional; where even short of sexual release, much like a professional dance partner, for the vibe to be right It'd have to be a woman for me...then i guess I can open up the table for handjob negotiations(my guess is I can offer up the same masseuse for the wife, she'll get her fingering, and Ill get my handjob and nobody's feelings will get hurt.)

I respectfully disagree with this point. if you are there for a professional service, then it shouldn't matter it if is a man or woman. If you are there for sexual gratification, then I would agree with you.

 

[NOBBY_UK]

No
I'm not Gay

 

[Sagittarius84]

I respectfully disagree with this point. if you are there for a professional service, then it shouldn't matter it if is a man or woman. If you are there for sexual gratification, then I would agree with you.

Part of that professional service should be a focus on comfortability...as such there are some manners and methods of touch that I personally deem uncomfortable when they come from a male, but also the very old, the very young, authority figures and subordinates. It probably derives from innately heterosexual sensibilities; the ease by which physical intimacy is accepted..but it falls short of sexual gratification.

 

[MrHrafn]

We were taught in the liberal high school i went to that hand jobs were not gay. But, i would never want it or allow it ,why? Because a friend of mine try to give me one and it hurt like hell unreal pain, me and him had the number one size penis and were rather locked out from all the pussy due to be oversized, that made me pure straight ,and want to fk his mother as compensation, i could just imagine her wide spread comforting my burning dick.

 

[rbi99]

If he was a she, I would be tempted, but I would still consider that as cheating on my wife - so no - either way.

 

[justahornyguy174]

I'd always try to get a female to do the massage (as I'm a pervert and I'd secretly hope she gave me a happy ending) but if it was a guy and he did it i'd probably just shut my eyes and let it happen

 

[wewlad202]

No, I have zero interest in having a guy jerk me off. The thought turns me off.

Can we end it with the "will a straight guy do something gay/bi" questions? Stop fetishizing straight men in these weird unconsenual scenarios. No one is asking in ask a gay man what if a woman started sucking your cock during a massage what would you do. It's just dumb either way.

 

[longstroke7]

Why would I want a guy to jerk me off?

I don't get these questions lol. This is more for bisexual and gay guys to answer don't you think? That's their cup of tea and by all means I encourage everyone to enjoy what they enjoy! If you want a guy to stroke you off go for it dude, I hope he makes you cum hard and you kiss him for making you feel good.

Me? I love getting my cock milked, but by a woman's soft touch. Nothing like feeling a woman wrap both her hands around your shaft and stroking that mother fucker til it starts pumping. Whew

 

[lapdog2001]

The only professional massages I’ve ever had were therapeutic, after an intense workout/competition or to address a specific physical condition. Ive had both male and female masseuse, and at no time was I ever sexually excited or approached in a sexual manner.

The only time that happens is in porn fantasy films...

And the key here is you are asking in the wrong forum, and you will notice the number of non-straight replies...

Yes! Genuine therapeutic massage is far from sexually stimulating. I've had massages from a drop-dead gorgeous woman, they were the best massages I've ever had, and there was absolutely nothing sensuous about it!

No, I have zero interest in having a guy jerk me off. The thought turns me off.

Can we end it with the "will a straight guy do something gay/bi" questions? Stop fetishizing straight men in these weird unconsenual scenarios. No one is asking in ask a gay man what if a woman started sucking your cock during a massage what would you do. It's just dumb either way.

This!

Why would I want a guy to jerk me off?

I don't get these questions lol. This is more for bisexual and gay guys to answer don't you think? That's their cup of tea and by all means I encourage everyone to enjoy what they enjoy! If you want a guy to stroke you off go for it dude, I hope he makes you cum hard and you kiss him for making you feel good.

Me? I love getting my cock milked, but by a woman's soft touch. Nothing like feeling a woman wrap both her hands around your shaft and stroking that mother fucker til it starts pumping. Whew

Again, this!

 

[jpdhuge]

Yes

 

[cofrader]

Yes! Genuine therapeutic massage is far from sexually stimulating. I've had massages from a drop-dead gorgeous woman, they were the best massages I've ever had, and there was absolutely nothing sensuous about it!



This!



Again, this!

All this and recursive this.
Why not? Simple, because I’m not bi or gay.

 

[nakedguy77]

As a part of the massage, if the masseuse offered a "professional" handjob to completion, would you say yes or no? It would be only hands, no mouth or sex. Why or why not?

I don't know I've never been in that position I cannot honestly say if I would turn it down or say knock it out get it done and have a blast

 

[merc41]

Sure that's the reason I get massages Happy Endings!

 

[nakedguy77]

Sure that's the reason I get massages Happy Endings!

I need to know where you're going and get one scheduled

 

[tobythecat]

No, I have zero interest in having a guy jerk me off. The thought turns me off.

Can we end it with the "will a straight guy do something gay/bi" questions? Stop fetishizing straight men in these weird unconsenual scenarios. No one is asking in ask a gay man what if a woman started sucking your cock during a massage what would you do. It's just dumb either way.

Agree to all the above.

 

[Call_Me_Dave]

Sure that's the reason I get massages Happy Endings!

Which also explains your status of not straight, which simultaneously doesn’t explain why you are answering in ask a straight man.

 

[socalfreak]

No.
Because I'm not gay & I don't need to use prostitutes at any level.

 

[mark.der.typ]

I dont get it, straight guys gettin a handjob from guys?
Straights gettin a blowjob from guys?!
Wtf...

 

[twoton]

I did, one time, go with my wife to get chair massages. From a masseuse. And I felt bad the whole time because she was actually trying to do her job and it just wasn't happening. I wasn't relaxing, I wasn't feeling good, I was just feeling guilty for not enjoying it.

Unless I put it on a bucket list of things I must go out of my way to do before I die, it's very unlikely that I ever will get a full massage. Even then, it would only happen in a fully licensed, sterile, clinical, medical/rehab facility.

FWIW, I wouldn't care if it were a woman or a guy, because both would be equally tense and non-sexual.