Teased due to size?

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i just don't open myself up to being laughed at on purpose that's all
The reason they tease is because they all want to see it. That's all. If you open up you are in on the joke (that they are all smaller than you).
I used to be teased by the boys in the changing rooms, called me things like freak cock.
And just look at you now Big Boy. :veryhappy:
 

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Somehow in the confusion of adolescent posturing, you missed the memo that "Donkey Dick" is more anthemic than pejorative or epithet.

Perhaps most of the time that's true, but when I was called "donkey dick", "donkey boy", etc. in high school, the phrase was spat at me with that raw vindictiveness peculiar to children and teens. There was certainly no anthemic quality to those jeers.

Why I first logged on to LPSG.
 

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Perhaps most of the time that's true, but when I was called "donkey dick", "donkey boy", etc. in high school, the phrase was spat at me with that raw vindictiveness peculiar to children and teens. There was certainly no anthemic quality to those jeers.

Why I first logged on to LPSG.

So they wanted to bully you and you let them. They found the one thing where you were superior to them and they turned it from a positive to a negative.
 

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Perhaps most of the time that's true, but when I was called "donkey dick", "donkey boy", etc. in high school, the phrase was spat at me with that raw vindictiveness peculiar to children and teens. There was certainly no anthemic quality to those jeers.
Yeah, kids can be really cruel. I remember one time some kids were after me for who knows what and my Mom said, "Here honey, take some cookies out to them, that should patch it up." When I went outside and tried to offer the cookies, they threw rocks at my head.

I never did have that sort of evil in me, so I was always surprised and taken aback by it. Still am. Penis envy is not usually vindictive or hateful. Those I knew in school with the bigger dicks were sometimes teased, but always in an interested way. You must have come across a really mean-spirited crowd of kids. I know kids can go off on almost anyone for almost anything. I know I would have had difficulty interpreting penis envy at a young age. I read your story awhile back, but can't remember the details. About how old were you when they started coming after you to taunt you?

Just read your story again. Mean spirited little shits. That would have been confusing at age 13 because, like you, I didn't really have any sexual awareness yet.
 
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Unfortunately, mean-spiritedness is not unusual. When I was a kid, there was a young girl in the neighborhood who had been badly burned. She was terrified of anything to do with fire and if she even saw a burned-out match, she would scream in terror. Neighborhood kids would tease her by showing her burned out matches and got a kick out of seeing her scream in terror and run away.
 

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I have an older step bro who teased me growing up, made me believe I was small....years later he drunkedly confessed to be jealous of me....he's smaller than hard than I am soft....5 years older...I thought for years
 

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I have an older stepbrother(by 5 years) that saw me changing when I was 13...he convinced me that I had a small dick. Years later, one drunken holiday, he confessed to being jealous of me...also told me his full grown hardon was smaller than I was soft all those years ago....
 

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I have an older stepbrother(by 5 years) that saw me changing when I was 13...he convinced me that I had a small dick. Years later, one drunken holiday, he confessed to being jealous of me...also told me his full grown hardon was smaller than I was soft all those years ago....
Brothers can be pricks, eh?
 

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How old is son now? True change is hard, especially when your trying to do it for others or the wrong reasons. I figure he'll either change with time, more so if he's willing to work on himself. That, or he'll simply make his way through life like everybody else. The world unfortunately is made up of people who aren't always so nice. Hopefully he'll adapt, or maybe he already has.
 

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I'm in quite a different predicament. I'm the only black guy in my social group (mostly arabs and asians) and my friends and I share a lot of banter and ethnic jokes with one another. They've started to comment a lot (almost every day) about my supposed large black penis in jokes at first it didn't bother, I would talk about how 'small' indian/asian men are etc but it's beggining to piss me off. I've let them know this and the response has been ok but chill what's wrong with having a big dick take it as a compliment.

I think maybe the real reason I don't like this is because I don't measure up to the stereotype, irony is that one of my friends told us his measured size approx. 8" and I'm barely 6.5" but still talks about my massive cock.

Definitly prefer being known for a large penis than a small one but not sure how to handle the situation now... I'm doubting my confidence now everytime it's brought up

As you can tell from being on this site this topic fascinates me and would like to know how everyone in the group compares just wish they'd start talking about their own dicks as much as mine; wondering how to do this without appearing to be gay.
 

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Wow some awesome stories it made me feel bad for some of you for being teased. I think the teasing was due to those guys being jealous of your big cocks. Be proud of what you have and know you are a cut above in a good way no matter what anybody says. Fuck the hater.
 
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One time at the gym I was showering and thought I had the place to myself but a guy (who I know from work) walked in and asked if the hot water was still off. Back story: the water hadn't been getting hot for a couple days - but still... had to wonder if he meant something else haha
Was he bigger than you?
 

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I was.
In the army as a conscript.
Back then I did not realize that my cock was quite a bit bigger than average.
And of course I was seen with a morning glory.... At that time I was embarrased!
Teased all the time.

Fast forward to a few years later hanginh out at Sandy Bay{nude beach Cape Town} I then realized that my cock was no laughing matter in the way I had previously thought about it.
Its not the longest or thickest but it is mine and am thankfull genetic lottery handed me what I have.
Now happily married to a chinese woman who teases me.... In the best way possible
R u still in SA?
 
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Not for a long time... Those days were a long long time ago.
It was a diffirent century, diffirent world back then.