The Lost Art of the Blowjob

[Capitolhillguy]

I think people have stopped attending the baths like I used to 30 years ago. The benefit was you saw others doing things and learned from them. Almost all guys who gave me head did a hybrid jack/ suck method which greatly increased the stimulation and I always fed them big loads in their mouths. Since then allmost all you see in porn is lips only head and you almost NEVER see anyone cum from that technique in porn and they have to resort to jacking off almost every time. About the only head I have seen in porn where guys get off without having to jack off to cum is the jack/suck method. So many guys are hung up on the linquistics of "suck" and take it literally instead of combining jacking and sucking , which if you have ever experienced it, you will know it is better. My boytoy insisted on mouth only head on me and in 6 years I never came for him, though my method got him to feed me reliably every time. I can't watch most suck scenes in porn as they are so amateurish. Deep throat looks hot but never ever got me off and was often painful. So many do oral sex based on preconceptions rather than experimenting and finding what works the best. I did erotic massage for 40 years and if I sucked a client with my preferred method of jacking and sucking combined I had consistent luck being fed unless they had erection issues. Lots of clients blew me but I never got off as they inevitably used only their lips to such. Of course almost all of my clients were "straight". Only two clients in 25 years got fed with my cum in their mouths when they sucked me and they both were gay and knew the method shown below.

Nick Charms (nicksluckycharms) gives Collin Merp (collin_merp) a blowjob – Gay for Fans

 

[Brodie888]

My theory is that they don't use hands in porn because the hands block the camera shot of the penis.

But this has inadvertently taught men not to use their hands.

There's also those who aspire to the mouth only orgasm as a reflection of their oral skill prowess.

But I personally agree with you. There are more combinations of sensations you can apply with two hands and a mouth than a mouth alone, so why limit the pleasure you can give someone.

 

[Capitolhillguy]

My theory is that they don't use hands in porn because the hands block the camera shot of the penis.

But this has inadvertently taught men not to use their hands.

There's also those who aspire to the mouth only orgasm as a reflection of their oral skill prowess.

But I personally agree with you. There are more combinations of sensations you can apply with two hands and a mouth than a mouth alone, so why limit the pleasure you can give someone.

You have some good points. It is like they always show guys cumming jacking off after being blown or fucked to show the orgasm but in the process you never get to see actors getting each other off. No one ever gets anyone else off in studio porn. That is why I don't watch it.

 

[Brodie888]

You have some good points. It is like they always show guys cumming jacking off after being blown or fucked to show the orgasm but in the process you never get to see actors getting each other off. No one ever gets anyone else off in studio porn. That is why I don't watch it.

I know what you mean. I can't watch Bel Ami produced porn because it is so formulaic. It's like watching beautiful mannequins fuck.

I actually enjoy the blooper reels or premature ejaculation/accident scenes that some studios put out for this reason.

 

[art]

I can cum from mouth only, but it takes longer. I think the trick is to modulate the use of fingers so you can keep your man on the edge of orgasm as long as possible.

 

[Wildman2015]

I have brought men to orgasm by just sucking, but I would have to agree that using hands is a faster and more reliable way to go, even if you're just massaging his balls while you suck him off.

 

[dana2]

Every cock likes slightly different levels and kinds of stimulation. I don't think hands griping the cock during blowjobs is necessary. For me personally the best blowjobs are with hands playing with my balls and no hands on my shaft. And when sucking I just use my mouth. The secret to a good blowjob is rubbing your tongue on the shaft and being in tune with how the penis is responding.

 

[bravesoldier]

I have seen all kinds of blowjob techniques. It seems some think the more they do and the fancier they get the better. Nothing wrong with all of that. I prefer focused, concentrated suction to the sweet spot going no lower than where the average circumcision scar is on the shaft. I have had great compliments and I know what my technique feels like because my ex-wife did me like that, and the feeling I'm referring to compares to no other sensation.

One guy asked one night where in the world I learned to suck cock like that.. Made me feel so good because most guys I get with I can get off from sucking, but area deathly quiet during sex. One guy was so quiet that I decided to watch his facial expression while I was doing him. He was quiet as he could be, but the expressions on his face and the thrashing around on the bed were priceless. Then what he said and the way he looked at me when I was done was even better.

Getting pleasure is awesome but giving that kind of pleasure is even better.

 

[thongboy]

Every cock likes slightly different levels and kinds of stimulation. I don't think hands griping the cock during blowjobs is necessary. For me personally the best blowjobs are with hands playing with my balls and no hands on my shaft. And when sucking I just use my mouth. The secret to a good blowjob is rubbing your tongue on the shaft and being in tune with how the penis is responding.

My gf is awesome at giving head. She knows how to use her mouth and studded tongue and how to work that pleasure nerve behind the head of my cock. She also knows that if she pulls my foreskin down firmly that can cause entirely new sensations. She knows how to make a blow job last and keep me from coming. At the end she likes to slide two lubed fingers deep into my ass — so I shoot a huge load into her mouth.
I use a lot of her methods when blowing a buddy.

 

[jamiesux]

My gf is awesome at giving head. She knows how to use her mouth and studded tongue and how to work that pleasure nerve behind the head of my cock. She also knows that if she pulls my foreskin down firmly that can cause entirely new sensations. She knows how to make a blow job last and keep me from coming. At the end she likes to slide two lubed fingers deep into my ass — so I shoot a huge load into her mouth.
I use a lot of her methods when blowing a buddy.

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[goldscorpguy]

I agree with @dana2 that it's about being in tune with his response. I'll usually start with lots of licking around the head and down the shaft. Then I'll seal my lips around the head and give him lots of tongue flicking, before finally sliding down him. If he's moaning, grabbing my head or thrusting then I'll carry on, hands free. If I feel he needs more, as some guys do, then I'll introduce a hand (or two) around the base and stroke him as I suck. Another technique which some guys like is to hold your breath, deep throat him as far as you can go, then perform a few swallow actions. If you can make eye contact with him as you do it, then even better.

 

[rockmusl1]

I think people have stopped attending the baths like I used to 30 years ago. The benefit was you saw others doing things and learned from them. Almost all guys who gave me head did a hybrid jack/ suck method which greatly increased the stimulation and I always fed them big loads in their mouths. Since then allmost all you see in porn is lips only head and you almost NEVER see anyone cum from that technique in porn and they have to resort to jacking off almost every time. About the only head I have seen in porn where guys get off without having to jack off to cum is the jack/suck method. So many guys are hung up on the linquistics of "suck" and take it literally instead of combining jacking and sucking , which if you have ever experienced it, you will know it is better. My boytoy insisted on mouth only head on me and in 6 years I never came for him, though my method got him to feed me reliably every time. I can't watch most suck scenes in porn as they are so amateurish. Deep throat looks hot but never ever got me off and was often painful. So many do oral sex based on preconceptions rather than experimenting and finding what works the best. I did erotic massage for 40 years and if I sucked a client with my preferred method of jacking and sucking combined I had consistent luck being fed unless they had erection issues. Lots of clients blew me but I never got off as they inevitably used only their lips to such. Of course almost all of my clients were "straight". Only two clients in 25 years got fed with my cum in their mouths when they sucked me and they both were gay and knew the method shown below.

Nick Charms (nicksluckycharms) gives Collin Merp (collin_merp) a blowjob – Gay for Fans

Porn vids have gotten so boring precisely because no one in them (with a few notable exceptions) has any idea how to do anything. As a result, they all look like they’re phoning it in, and the utter lack of enjoyment is obvious.
I recently had my dick sucked by a fellow gentleman of a certain age and I literally told him “Awww man! You suck dick Old School! Amazing! Please continue. He gave me a big smile and said “Been doin’ it a long time!”

 

[Capitolhillguy]

I have found that some uncut guys are so sensitive they can't handle my normal vigorous hand/ mouth routine and have to resort to mouth only, but these are few in my experience.