The Lost Art of the Blowjob

[Capitolhillguy]

I think people have stopped attending the baths like I used to 30 years ago. The benefit was you saw others doing things and learned from them. Almost all guys who gave me head did a hybrid jack/ suck method which greatly increased the stimulation and I always fed them big loads in their mouths. Since then allmost all you see in porn is lips only head and you almost NEVER see anyone cum from that technique in porn and they have to resort to jacking off almost every time. About the only head I have seen in porn where guys get off without having to jack off to cum is the jack/suck method. So many guys are hung up on the linquistics of "suck" and take it literally instead of combining jacking and sucking , which if you have ever experienced it, you will know it is better. My boytoy insisted on mouth only head on me and in 6 years I never came for him, though my method got him to feed me reliably every time. I can't watch most suck scenes in porn as they are so amateurish. Deep throat looks hot but never ever got me off and was often painful. So many do oral sex based on preconceptions rather than experimenting and finding what works the best. I did erotic massage for 40 years and if I sucked a client with my preferred method of jacking and sucking combined I had consistent luck being fed unless they had erection issues. Lots of clients blew me but I never got off as they inevitably used only their lips to such. Of course almost all of my clients were "straight". Only two clients in 25 years got fed with my cum in their mouths when they sucked me and they both were gay and knew the method shown below.

Nick Charms (nicksluckycharms) gives Collin Merp (collin_merp) a blowjob – Gay for Fans

 

[Brodie888]

My theory is that they don't use hands in porn because the hands block the camera shot of the penis.

But this has inadvertently taught men not to use their hands.

There's also those who aspire to the mouth only orgasm as a reflection of their oral skill prowess.

But I personally agree with you. There are more combinations of sensations you can apply with two hands and a mouth than a mouth alone, so why limit the pleasure you can give someone.

 

[Capitolhillguy]

My theory is that they don't use hands in porn because the hands block the camera shot of the penis.

But this has inadvertently taught men not to use their hands.

There's also those who aspire to the mouth only orgasm as a reflection of their oral skill prowess.

But I personally agree with you. There are more combinations of sensations you can apply with two hands and a mouth than a mouth alone, so why limit the pleasure you can give someone.

You have some good points. It is like they always show guys cumming jacking off after being blown or fucked to show the orgasm but in the process you never get to see actors getting each other off. No one ever gets anyone else off in studio porn. That is why I don't watch it.

 

[Brodie888]

You have some good points. It is like they always show guys cumming jacking off after being blown or fucked to show the orgasm but in the process you never get to see actors getting each other off. No one ever gets anyone else off in studio porn. That is why I don't watch it.

I know what you mean. I can't watch Bel Ami produced porn because it is so formulaic. It's like watching beautiful mannequins fuck.

I actually enjoy the blooper reels or premature ejaculation/accident scenes that some studios put out for this reason.

 

[art]

I can cum from mouth only, but it takes longer. I think the trick is to modulate the use of fingers so you can keep your man on the edge of orgasm as long as possible.