The Male Ego

[D_Chesty_Pecjiggle]

I'm guessing, Fancy, that they figure once they're physically with you, you won't laugh and say no. Hence they get what they want.

I guess a question to you is when you meet a guy who has clearly lied, have you ever refused him?

 

[D_Chesty_Pecjiggle]

This thread makes me feel like the only mostly honest guy alive.

I agree. I get all sorts of compliments on cam, and I'm 'only 8 x 6.5' but we know that most all of the 11 inch dicks here are lies.

 

[woodyq]

I am curious (as many know) and this is something I just don't understand.

Would love to hear a discussion on what men think about when they decide to "enhance the truth" about their penis size.

Online fun is all well and good and it really doesn't matter. But I am talking about some men who are obviously smaller than they claim.

Being "serious" about meeting up, they insist their cock is what they've reported. I'm not blind, nor am I THAT gullible. Many times I play along until they "finally" come clean about their size. (big SIGH) ...

WHY? What are the thoughts behind such an imagination? Is it all really just a game??

This has happened to me on several (!!!!) occasions... I'm just curious about how the male ego processes something like this~

Thoughts, gentlemen?

FP

PS. If you don't know me.. I have an open marriage. But I am sure there are other women here who meet guys and run into the same issues...

fancy i am not THAT hung...now can i get a reward for my honesty?

haha

 

[69er]

I have posted Craigslist ads looking for big guys to play with my girlfriend in the past, stating that only guys 8''+ reply and the response from regular size guys were the majority and even a few pics off the net that were not theirs. I called them on it and they insisted that the pics are theirs and they are 8'' or more. It's just guys not thinking ahead and guys who feel they have nothing to lose. Throwing it out there. Poking and hoping. Guys will do anything to get laid. Fact.

 

[Bravo55]

I think men lie because they feel insecure about needing to meet some minimum requirement to be perceived as manly, verily, adequate. All the attention to, and hype about, size makes this problem worse. Perhaps they have experienced size discrimination in the past but even if they haven't the bigger is better message is pervasive. Hence the insecurity and perceived need to lie.

One other point... You may get away with lying to someone you will never be intimate with but lying to a potential partner makes no sense to me. I would be more ashamed of lying than of my size when the truth becomes known.

I wouldn't lie about my size. At 5.7 x 4.9, if I was asked, i would say I am about average. If I was asked to be more specific I would be truthful.

I suspect most women, those that were asking in the first place, would respect that honesty. After that, they are fully entitled to their preferences so I then need to respect them if my size is a deal-breaker. I suspect, or at least hope, being a deal-breaker would not happen often.

In any case, I will not likely be her biggest lover but I would strive to be among her better lovers.

 

[69er]

I think men lie because they feel insecure about needing to meet some minimum requirement to be perceived as manly, verily, adequate. All the attention to, and hype about, size makes this problem worse. Perhaps they have experienced size discrimination in the past but even if they haven't the bigger is better message is pervasive. Hence the insecurity and perceived need to lie.

One other point... You may get away with lying to someone you will never be intimate with but lying to a potential partner makes no sense to me. I would be more ashamed of lying than of my size when the truth becomes known.

I wouldn't lie about my size. At 5.7 x 4.9, if I was asked, i would say I am about average. If I was asked to be more specific I would be truthful.

I suspect most women, those that were asking in the first place, would respect that honesty. After that, they are fully entitled to their preferences so I then need to respect them if my size is a deal-breaker. I suspect, or at least hope, being a deal-breaker would not happen often.
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If someone is advertising for a big gun, the advertiser would be pissed off for you wasting their time, not appreciative of your honesty. That's what the OP is talking about. Why bother to respond to an ad like that if you clearly don't meet the requirement?

 

[D_Sheik_Yurbootie]

I would imagine that most of the people advertising their size falsely are probably not serious about actually meeting up and are simply doing so to maintain some fantasy of being big. I'm above average, but certainly not monstrous. I must say that I'd be very interested to find out how girls react if I had a 9+ inch cock. The anonymity of the internet nurtures that fantasy because both the person lying and the person being lied to want to believe in what they are talking about.

 

[D_Sheik_Yurbootie]

So, in short, I think it's less about ego and more about fantasy and what arouses people.

 

[dickapick]

I think there are two things that make a lot of men do so.
1. How do we get the attention of girls or other men here? By telling we are bigger/ thicker/ better than anyone else. We are at LPSG, so we can tell we have a $1,000,000 car or any other possible bragging. It won't help. People are here for LARGE penises
2. Real world and porn numbers. I don't think I get into a big dick movie with just my numbers. And when I tell people what my length and girth are they will come up with things like "wow. my ex was 9 inches" or "so, that's just average?". As only a few really know what really average is (numbers) and what an inch or more length/girth will look like

 

[B_FootballStud21]

I agree. I get all sorts of compliments on cam, and I'm 'only 8 x 6.5' but we know that most all of the 11 inch dicks here are lies.

Ain't that the truth.

I noticed this when women pull my pants down and say something like "holy shit, your dick must be 12". While it may be flattering, I've literally had to convince some girls that my dick is "only" 9.5. And they always say the same thing like "well my ex said he was 8 and his is only goes up to here". And it's like they get disappointed because they realize that EVERY guy they've been with lied about it. I could have easily just left it at her saying I'm 12, but that's just ridiculous. And being honest, especially about something that an overwhelming majority of men lie about, puts you miles ahead of any other lying, insecure guy out there.

 

[D_Kitten_Kaboodle]

This thread makes me feel like the only mostly honest guy alive.

I will say honey, you are not alone... there are tons of honest guys here... really. But there are "some" who are having a ton of fun and the expense and frustration of others.

I've met some great, honest, and fun guys here who are confident in their own skin. You are not alone, but you are in the group of guys that keep me here~~

FP

 

[D_Kitten_Kaboodle]

I'm guessing, Fancy, that they figure once they're physically with you, you won't laugh and say no. Hence they get what they want.

I guess a question to you is when you meet a guy who has clearly lied, have you ever refused him?

Only happened one time (early on in our quest) ... He 'estimated' about an inch more than he was... he let me measure and I said "well you overestimated about an inch.. but it is nice nonetheless." And yes, he got what he came after.

I'm not complaining about a half inch or an inch...

But I've called several guys on the carpet that knowingly fabricated more than a few inches to their cock tales... and before the meet admitted they were not so large. (I think the guys hope that I will meet them b/c we had a "rapport" or "connection"... but when you think about it... I have been given a false image...which makes the connection false.)

fancy i am not THAT hung...now can i get a reward for my honesty?

haha

Sweetie you have always been nothing but honest with me

If someone is advertising for a big gun, the advertiser would be pissed off for you wasting their time, not appreciative of your honesty. That's what the OP is talking about. Why bother to respond to an ad like that if you clearly don't meet the requirement?

I've never minced words about what I was looking for, yet this occurs quite frequently~

For the record, I have met some very hung, very fine men ~ which gives me hope.


FP

 

[kmere44549]

looks down my male ego is small. ha i never lie. why lie it as FP said if you meet up they are going to see. at some point there be a cam and or something to give it away.

I for one have always been well it this size and i go with it cause that what I measured it at. might need to do a remeasure but that just cause at times it don't see 6 no more like it did. but then it is 6 when super hard.

so i go with that.

FP rock on girl. ha lol i just be happy getting a hand job from you then she goes what is that giving me lol.

 

[rob_just_rob]

I've never "enhanced" the truth. I've occasionally told people I'm small in order to put them off or to mess with them. But in most situations, I usually don't make any representations at all (you won't find (m)any on here, for example).

Like you, I don't understand why people lie about physical characteristics when they know they'll be meeting up with the person they're talking to. That goes for age, appearance, weight, and height as well as penis size.

 

[camer999]

^ he could actually be that LPSG member?

 

[AlphaMale]

"Only men can respond to questions."

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Hmm, my edit failed because my browser f'd up.

Anyway, I was going to mention photoshopping as well... that's something that I've never understood.

The 'shoppers and also their believers.

 

[LargeSide]

"Only men can respond to questions."

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Hmm, my edit failed because my browser f'd up.

Anyway, I was going to mention photoshopping as well... that's something that I've never understood.

The 'shoppers and also their believers.

Especially the photoshoppers who are by no means a professional...

 

[BIGBULL29]

As a hard butch lesbian, I really couldn't tell you much about the male ego.

 

[AlphaMale]

Especially the photoshoppers who are by no means a professional...

Ikr! :biggrin1:

 

[D_Kitten_Kaboodle]

I've never "enhanced" the truth. I've occasionally told people I'm small in order to put them off or to mess with them. But in most situations, I usually don't make any representations at all (you won't find (m)any on here, for example).

Like you, I don't understand why people lie about physical characteristics when they know they'll be meeting up with the person they're talking to. That goes for age, appearance, weight, and height as well as penis size.

All of the above is true.

I also met a guy once who sent "bits and pieces" .. face shot, penis.. I asked if he was HWP and he said yes (probably didn't know what the term meant.) And said he was a lawyer. So we met for a drink. He had to be over 350 pounds and about 4 inches shorter than me. My husband was in the parking lot and said that he knew I'd be nice during the meal.

He wasn't a lawyer but a used car salesman who was a "runner" at a law firm. (FAIL) ... And I was nice, but I told him there was absolutely no connection and no way I was going to a hotel....


Once got pics of a guy saying he was 35 and his pics were amazing... of course he had no cam to show me his 10 incher. I finally got it out of him that he was only 6inches and more like 40 and bald (not that I have anything against bald at all... but he wasn't even the guy in the pictures he sent.!!)

These are two great examples of male ego getting in the way of the truth.
Age? As long as it is legal and believable, I don't really care about age...

Men, here's a tip. Be straight with the girl... you'd be surprised how far it might get you ~

FP

*and in response to "Only Men Can Post here".... where does that leave us curious women??? BIG TIME BUMMER~~ (Seaside provided valuable participation....)