The Need For Dick

[mthomson2020]

I’ve been in a great relationship for two years now. My boyfriend is kind, loving, respectful, fun and just amazing.

But his sex drive is so low compared to mine. I want to be fucking or getting fucked at minimum one time per day. I just love cumming and if I’m not doing it I’m always thinking about it.

I find myself just trying to get my boyfriend to fuck all of the time and it annoys him. We may have sex once a week at most.

Does anyone else deal with this? Like I just want to hop on some random dick at this point and fucking blow a big load to get it out of my system.

 

[deleted31781321]

I hear you. It can be frustrating. I’m also horny all the time and by boyfriend isn’t really. I could similarly do it once a day at least.
He does lend a helping hand from time to time and is okay with me jerking off next to him.
That combination with some jerking on my own does tend to address the sex drive and avoid it from being a problem too much…

 

[mthomson2020]

I’m just always wanting it and he’s very casual about it. I’m also into girls so occasionally I even want pussy but he’s not into letting me explore that

Other than that things are great social/emotionally but this is a big thing for me

 

[coolestguy]

How about getting some toys?

 

[mthomson2020]

How about getting some toys?

Eh I could but it’s not the same

 

[Scott8361]

I have serviced men, gay and married "mostly straight", who are in situations like yours. I like helping them out to satisfy their needs, but I wish we could all be in an open environment where it didn't have to be done discreetly and behind partner's backs. Just be open, honest, and accepting of it!

 

[BiAlex39]

You just need a fuck buddy

 

[rickrohk]

I’ve been through this problem for many years now, as my near addiction level sexual desires are way higher than his. We have an almost 10 year relationship. Everything is great, even this is water under the bridge now, we got used to our differences. We have an open relationship, yes, but I’m not that interested into other ppl, he neither. I think I need some emotional connection to get really interested, and I certainly am addicted to porn, so my cock kinda got used to my hand, so it’s difficult for me to have a good orgasm in some other way. Point is, when it gets too long without sex I talk with him, if it’s bothering me, but it’s very rare, then I masturbate and I’m ok with it. If it’s messing with your insecurities about your body or it makes you feel bad in other ways, you should probably do something to change this dynamic. I think it’s not fair for you to be like this while he does nothing for it to change. Sorry for the long text, hope it helps.

 

[Fren86]

And if you're a bottom who likes to prep first, it definitely gets problematic...

 

[elklindoxxx]

I’ve been in a great relationship for two years now. My boyfriend is kind, loving, respectful, fun and just amazing.

But his sex drive is so low compared to mine. I want to be fucking or getting fucked at minimum one time per day. I just love cumming and if I’m not doing it I’m always thinking about it.

I find myself just trying to get my boyfriend to fuck all of the time and it annoys him. We may have sex once a week at most.

Does anyone else deal with this? Like I just want to hop on some random dick at this point and fucking blow a big load to get it out of my system.

From what I read, it seems that you and your partner are not compatible sexually as a couple. When you have a mismatch in libido, then perhaps go to a therapist to discuss. If sex is that important for you and your partner is not adequately meeting your needs them it's perfectly reasonable to seek someone who will.

 

[deleted2780451]

That's a tough position to be in. I won't date men who don't have high sex drives for that very reason.

 

[deleted30679761]

I’ve been in a great relationship for two years now. My boyfriend is kind, loving, respectful, fun and just amazing.

But his sex drive is so low compared to mine. I want to be fucking or getting fucked at minimum one time per day. I just love cumming and if I’m not doing it I’m always thinking about it.

I find myself just trying to get my boyfriend to fuck all of the time and it annoys him. We may have sex once a week at most.

Does anyone else deal with this? Like I just want to hop on some random dick at this point and fucking blow a big load to get it out of my system.

So you got to think about if you do decide to hop on some random dick and blow your load just to get it out of your system do you know how you’re going to feel straight after you’ve cum??? Because from my own experience and countless other lads I’ve felt extreme guilt and regret as soon as I’ve dumped my load and it’s really not a good feeling at all and not worth it….all I suggest you think about is if you really do genuinely love your boyfriend and if so cheating is not the answer and you should then have a conversation with him about how big your sex drive is compared to his and tell him exactly what your sexual needs are how often you want it and if he can accommodate your needs or if you love your boyfriend truly then like most just have a wank! Honestly a wank will always satisfy you and I can assure you having a wank is better than cheating on your partner because as soon as you’ve cum most of that intense horny feeling and need to fuck and suck cock goes away and minutes worth of some random cock is not worth all the guilt and regret afterwards and not only that you’ve got to think about how random these other lads might be….meaning what if not only you cheat on your boyfriend but you also catch a sexual infection or disease and pass it on to your boyfriend…it does happen and that pointless fuck with a randomer could do serious damage to more than just you but if you come to the conclusion that you don’t love your boyfriend enough not to cheat and settle for some gay porn and a wank then you need to finish with your boyfriend then you can suck and fuck as many cock as you like

 

[deleted4911161]

Ma

I’ve been in a great relationship for two years now. My boyfriend is kind, loving, respectful, fun and just amazing.

But his sex drive is so low compared to mine. I want to be fucking or getting fucked at minimum one time per day. I just love cumming and if I’m not doing it I’m always thinking about it.

I find myself just trying to get my boyfriend to fuck all of the time and it annoys him. We may have sex once a week at most.

Does anyone else deal with this? Like I just want to hop on some random dick at this point and fucking blow a big load to get it out of my system.

Maybe go on a vacation every now and then? Try to talk it out?