Thoughts on oral sex in 2024

[dfw051980]

When it comes to receiving a blowjob
- Straight/Curious/DL/Bi guys love getting blowjobs and are always down for them.
- Gay men are kinda meh on getting them. At the most it's an appetizer before the meal. But if you approach a gay man and offer oral only the answer will probably be no.

When it comes to giving a blowjob
Seems like most gay guys nowadays if oral is apart of the intimate encounter would rather give a blowjob than receive one.

Lastly and I pose this as a question for are the guys who are hung out there.
Hung guys prefer anal (Topping) over receiving oral; is this true?

Most of everything i said is just my own thoughts and may or may not be true so no need to get defesive if you dont agree, this is just a fun topic to discuss and get feedback on.

 

[dana2]

It's always been the case that that different gay men are into different activities sexually. Some men are more into anal and don't like BJ and vice versa. I am verse and lean to what is now called "side".

I love both giving and receiving BJ. The feel of a hard cock in my mouth just feels damn good. I sucked my BF cock this morning at about 5 AM and then he sucked mine. From my experience some gay men are fantastic at giving blowjobs and others don't really know how to give a good blowjob. I think it's the sex advice columnist Dan Savage who said something like "It's called a blow job not a blow vacation" It takes work to give a good blowjob. Every cock is different and likes different intensities and types of physical stimulation. Some guys who say they cannot orgasm with having their dick sucked may not been sucked by an expert cock sucker. Sucking dick is an art. You have to be in tune with the dick you are sucking and focus on the physical reactions-dick swelling, moans etc.

 

[playklax01]

I'm a side as well. There's so many more things to do than just fuck. I love getting blowjobs, like giving them, but more into sensual teasing and other light kinky things.

 

[Brodie888]

I think a lot comes down to supply and demand.

In the straight world, a good blowjob is harder to come by. Mostly due to a lack of skill or a lack of interest on the female side. So there's much more appreciation for it from straight men. Most can't believe a gay man will do it for free, let alone without reciprocation.

The probable reason why gays will give rather than receive is that they prefer to blow several guys in the day before ending it with their own orgasm. Once again this pushes the supply side up even more.

 

[HungBtmVegas]

I'm gay and hung, but I've never gotten my cock sucked before, nor have I ever been interested. I've had an oral fixation my entire life and I’m obsessed with sucking cock.

 

[Wildman2015]

I've always had a strong preference for oral over anal. While I do enjoy an enthusiastic mouth on my dick, I get much more aroused from sucking a nice big dick.

 

[theaveragedude]

Love getting sucked, and I love sucking. 69 is a favorite of mine. I could easily cum quickly if given the opportunity during a hot 69 session. Blowjobs are awesome! I get extra hard when the guy pushes my head down and fucks my face.

 

[fellatio4ever]

I LOVE sucking cock way more than getting sucked. I don't need to be sucked. All my pleasure is for my mouth and for the man. I am a huge CUM lover. If I suck the dick the right way I will get a hot load down my throat and I will be satisfied.

 

[Graham123]

Welcome to the site and enjoy it for what it is celebrating being in the buff as a relaxing way of life living in the nude when the opportunity presents itself whether on your own in general life and socialising with other nudists. Take care stay safe.

 

[Andrej_u]

When it comes to receiving a blowjob
- Straight/Curious/DL/Bi guys love getting blowjobs and are always down for them.
- Gay men are kinda meh on getting them. At the most it's an appetizer before the meal. But if you approach a gay man and offer oral only the answer will probably be no.

When it comes to giving a blowjob
Seems like most gay guys nowadays if oral is apart of the intimate encounter would rather give a blowjob than receive one.

Lastly and I pose this as a question for are the guys who are hung out there.
Hung guys prefer anal (Topping) over receiving oral; is this true?

Most of everything i said is just my own thoughts and may or may not be true so no need to get defesive if you dont agree, this is just a fun topic to discuss and get feedback on.

Everyone has different preferences.

As a somewhat hung top, I personally have a very strong preference for anal over blowjobs. I do agree with the definition that blowjobs are an appetiser before the meal, at least for me.
I do love eating a guy's ass, and I like it more than having my dick sucked. Rimming is oral sex too, so I do like oral!

In my experience as an anal-focused top, I do talk with a lot of guys who are more into blowjobs. I know because we don't match sexually, but yeah I can guarantee that there is a lot of demand for sides. Diversity makes sex fun and exciting.

P.s.: I'll preemptively say that I've had the best blowjobs in the world. I've received amazing head, expert and devoted cocksuckers and all. It is not a matter of "you've never received a proper blowjob, otherwise you'd like it". It's just... If a guy is sucking my dick amazingly, I typically close my eyes and imagine fucking him. Or I try to see if I can put a finger in his ass while he's at it, or spank him, or 69 with his ass on my face.