Thoughts on oral sex in 2024

[dfw051980]

When it comes to receiving a blowjob
- Straight/Curious/DL/Bi guys love getting blowjobs and are always down for them.
- Gay men are kinda meh on getting them. At the most it's an appetizer before the meal. But if you approach a gay man and offer oral only the answer will probably be no.

When it comes to giving a blowjob
Seems like most gay guys nowadays if oral is apart of the intimate encounter would rather give a blowjob than receive one.

Lastly and I pose this as a question for are the guys who are hung out there.
Hung guys prefer anal (Topping) over receiving oral; is this true?

Most of everything i said is just my own thoughts and may or may not be true so no need to get defesive if you dont agree, this is just a fun topic to discuss and get feedback on.

 

[dana2]

It's always been the case that that different gay men are into different activities sexually. Some men are more into anal and don't like BJ and vice versa. I am verse and lean to what is now called "side".

I love both giving and receiving BJ. The feel of a hard cock in my mouth just feels damn good. I sucked my BF cock this morning at about 5 AM and then he sucked mine. From my experience some gay men are fantastic at giving blowjobs and others don't really know how to give a good blowjob. I think it's the sex advice columnist Dan Savage who said something like "It's called a blow job not a blow vacation" It takes work to give a good blowjob. Every cock is different and likes different intensities and types of physical stimulation. Some guys who say they cannot orgasm with having their dick sucked may not been sucked by an expert cock sucker. Sucking dick is an art. You have to be in tune with the dick you are sucking and focus on the physical reactions-dick swelling, moans etc.