Threesome mmm where to start.

[Herriemaker]

My husband and I (maried for 8 years now) both spoken out the desire, or call it lust, for a threesome mmm. Never had the couriage to actualy do it. But the idea of actualy take steps towards, has starting to grow on me. But where to start. If we would actualy do it, how to get started.

It seems weird to plan this, because of the power of horny...

But you have to look for a third.. we do not want it to be "the best wel can get... for/at this moment"... but someone we both actualy like enough to have sex with /eq./ be hot for us both.

Then there is our scare of getting std's.. both happily healty... and we def. would not like to change it...

And we do not trust the apps, because of gay-bashers....

What to do, where to start, and what/where not? Anny tips?

 

[theplayerking]

It’s best with a stranger. That way if it doesn’t go well you don’t have to see him again. I also wouldn’t dismiss the apps out of hand. If you’re going to do a lot of diligence and meet beforehand, etc., you should be able to filter out the questionable guys. It’s important to be specific and explicit, e.g., you want a bottom to get fucked by both of you, you’re looking for a versatile guy that flips, etc.

 

[Herriemaker]

Thanx for the comment. We understand it is for the better with the stranger... and your tip about specific and explicit is something we had not thought about. Thanx

 

[hotcouple_be]

we find them them on cam sites mostly, take more time but at least what you see is what you get.

we like to do a few direct cams aswell to feel the mood and make sure everyone is in the same mindset.

when it come to protection, common sense will get you a long way but don't be too paranoid neither.
we use condoms for one shots but i'd be lying if i said we didn't ended up going without with some guys after a few times.

would also say you're right to not look for the best you can get for the firsts practice runs so to speak,
will defenetly help to remove some pressure if your partner is still new to it,
(and keep something to look forward to for later )