Tips for anal beginners.

[deleted17031721]

Even if I use small toys and anal plugs I feel some pain and my ass gets dry very fast.
Any tips on products, lubricants? I have heard about coconut oil...
Any starting position tips?
Thanks!

 

[Puffdaddy316]

Try ALOT of water based lube and start on your side. Reach around and slide it partially in, then pivot so you’re on your back and allow your weight and the bed to allow it to slide in. Be under control. Don’t rush it

 

[apremont_grape]

I think lubricant comes down to a personal choice, although I definitely prefer silicone based lubricants. They don’t dry out nearly as fast as water based lubricants.
Lube is definitely your friend and I always recommend using more than you think you need and reapplying often.
Your other best friend is time and taking it slowly. You really do need to relax the anal sphincter and the only way to do that is stretch it slowly, like you would any other muscle.
I think using butt plugs are great, but start out small and work your way up. The more frequently you do it, the easier it becomes. Hope this helps!

 

[18wheeler]

Try ALOT of water based lube and start on your side. Reach around and slide it partially in, then pivot so you’re on your back and allow your weight and the bed to allow it to slide in. Be under control. Don’t rush it

Exactly what I did and it worked great and felt amazing. When you roll over and your weight takes over. It’s more like someone else is doing it to you

 

[Puffdaddy316]

So hot! What’s turning you on tonight??

 

[deleted15682271]

I like to use a lube shooter filled with water based lube. You will find some lubes last a lot longer than others. It also helps if you massage your hole with a well lubed finger dipping in and out occasionally.

 

[goldscorpguy]

I like to start off a play session in the shower. Important thing is don't be rushed, really take your time. I use the hand shower to get myself warm and relaxed. I use lots of oil based lube which doesn't get washed away so easily. A lube injector is a good idea. I start with fingers and then a butt plug. When I can easily slide that in and out, I progress to a bigger dildo which I sucker on to the side or floor panel of the shower. I turn on the overhead spray and lose myself as the dildo works it's magic. Again, use lots of oil lube so it doesn't dry out inside you. I like to take my time and savour the feelings as I'm penetrated. I close my eyes and imagine a stranger sliding the shower door open and taking over. Any takers?

 

[tgirlsrgreat]

coconut oil is great and not the stuff you might use as a massage aid. get the stuff in the tub! it will work in, stay lubed and won't hurt you in anyway and quite edible.

 

[SpartanDystopia]

Even if I use small toys and anal plugs I feel some pain and my ass gets dry very fast.
Any tips on products, lubricants? I have heard about coconut oil...
Any starting position tips?
Thanks!

This style of plug is by far the best to start IMO. There are tons of cheap knockoffs of it on amazon.

 

[18wheeler]

This style of plug is by far the best to start IMO. There are tons of cheap knockoffs of it on amazon.

Yep. That’s what i started with. Mine vibrates which is phenomenal. The vibrations actually helped with insertion as well.

 

[SpartanDystopia]

Yep. That’s what i started with. Mine vibrates which is phenomenal. The vibrations actually helped with insertion as well.

my favorie part is the knob that pushes on your taint. it has some physics behind it lol. like the angle of it makews it press in harder. doesnt work that way with larger plugs