Tips for my first threesome with my boyfriend

[Damon03]

Well my boyfriend and I have decided to have a threesome. He is a bottom, so we decided to look for someone outside of our social circle to fuck him.

I would like to invite someone with a bigger penis than mine and/or an athletic body. Just so he can enjoy the difference.

is this a good idea? any tip for someone who has already had a threesome with their partner?

 

[bigmanmikey444]

get ready someone is going to get jealous... someone will do something with the third guy that doesn't do with you just my 2 cents

 

[HungBtmVegas]

Outline both of your boundaries in advance.

Make sure your 3rd is someone you're both comfortable with and attracted to (the attraction moreso for your boyfriend if you're both topping him, but you'll be more comfortable if it's someone you also find attractive).

Make sure your 3rd is aware of and consenting to the boundaries you two outlined.

Plan a threeway "date" that everyone has agreed can end up in a threesome, not rigidly just a threesome. That way, if the energy isn't right or someone has second thoughts, the night can just end after hanging out and no one's time was wasted.

Communicate! Safe words aren't always for the crossing of a kink boundary. You can also have one for when someone wants to detach and just watch or leave and one for if someone wants all sex to end entirely for everyone.

Check in with your boyfriend periodically to make sure he's still having fun and give him aftercare after.