Tips for supporting a recently out Bi man

[Wine0]

Hi guys,

I have a friend who has just come out to his wife as Bi. My human nature has instantly reacted in a non-judgemental way and celebrated his decision to live his life fully. He is very relieved to not be living a dual-life lie any more, and he says that he is monogamous and completely in love with his wife and kids (he is out to them too).

Out of reaction, I said that he could call me any time to ask for advice or support - but on reflection, I’m actually not quite sure what to say!

Any tips for supporting him on his new journey? Thank you

 

[Samantha V]

If I was your friend, I'd want you to say nothing. My wife knows I'm bi and of course the guys I've hooked up with but no on else. A few friends I think have guessed that I cross dress because I always were somethin fem and wear nail polish with jewelry but nothing else. That's how I want to keep it too. It might be a generational thing, younger guys seem to want to be more public about their sexuality these days