Top/bottom

[2021697rm]

Just curious as a straight man. Does a top ever become a bottom or vice versa? I guess maybe with the right person but just wondering. If I were gay I would have to be a top. Don’t think I’d enjoy a dick up my ass. In my mouth yes, but ass probably not . TIA

 

[theplayerking]

Just curious as a straight man. Does a top ever become a bottom or vice versa? I guess maybe with the right person but just wondering. If I were gay I would have to be a top. Don’t think I’d enjoy a dick up my ass. In my mouth yes, but ass probably not . TIA

There are total tops that have never been fucked, but I think they’re comparatively rare. They might not have enjoyed it and don’t care to repeat it, but they have tried it. And preferences can change over time depending on age, experience and your partner.

 

[halcyondays]

I topped exclusively until I was 40 because for whatever reason I didn't get any pleasure from anal stimulation. It wasn't for lack of at least trying anal play from time to time when I was young but it was always painful so I gave up on it for years. I don't know why my body/mind changed as I aged. I still love to top and do it way more than I bottom but love being penetrated. IOW I'm not a full bottom, just a top who became verse.

 

[PeterJoe]

I am a bottom. I had a two-year relationship where I was 99% the top. Sex was great, actually. I missed it, sometimes, but we had good chemistry. And he always fingered me after I fucked him to completion, so I felt pleasure cumming. But that, for me, required the fact that I loved him, it was the whole package, the feelings. I can't top a rando. At all.

 

[spoogecup]

I am not a gay man... I find the thought of kissing, hugging, touching and showing affection to another male to be of no interest to me (although I have no problem understanding and affirming the true gay relationship as the heterosexual counterpart)... The only "intimate" relations I have had were with women.... I am a natural "cocksucker/faggot"... I have never RECEIVED oral or any other sexual gratification from a male and have zero desire for it... I'm, by nature, a cocksucker and total bottom bitch type... My desire is only fulfilled via pleasing a man the way he wants it done with NO reciprocation other than his verbal expression of dominance, instruction and affirmation... I would be UNABLE to perform as a top under any circumstances and have NEVER had even the most remote desire to even attempt it... Many males like myself DO have conventional heterosexual relationships and some simply have no interest ... However, we all are drawn to and easily controlled by naturally dominant Alpha males... We are drawn to please them through sexual (non intimate) service... We see ourselves as mere tools he uses to achieve sexual release and this is what feeds our natural desire... (Learn more by searching "fag james cocksucker" on line)...

 

[Sizzling_bites]

Top and bottom are nothing more than sex positions in bed. One can enjoy penetrating, one can enjoy getting penetrated, one can enjoy both(at different times) and some like me, don't enjoy both. My ex was some 9" in size, huge and thick, could fuck like a monster for hours but won't orgasm. Moment you stimulate him anally (even if with finger) he would orgasm and cum within a minute. So, it's a preference of mind, body and circumstances.

 

[2021697rm]

I am not a gay man... I find the thought of kissing, hugging, touching and showing affection to another male to be of no interest to me (although I have no problem understanding and affirming the true gay relationship as the heterosexual counterpart)... The only "intimate" relations I have had were with women.... I am a natural "cocksucker/faggot"... I have never RECEIVED oral or any other sexual gratification from a male and have zero desire for it... I'm, by nature, a cocksucker and total bottom bitch type... My desire is only fulfilled via pleasing a man the way he wants it done with NO reciprocation other than his verbal expression of dominance, instruction and affirmation... I would be UNABLE to perform as a top under any circumstances and have NEVER had even the most remote desire to even attempt it... Many males like myself DO have conventional heterosexual relationships and some simply have no interest ... However, we all are drawn to and easily controlled by naturally dominant Alpha males... We are drawn to please them through sexual (non intimate) service... We see ourselves as mere tools he uses to achieve sexual release and this is what feeds our natural desire... (Learn more by searching "fag james cocksucker" on line)...

So you just like sucking cock