Top Or Bottom - Who Cums First?

[Hungstraight]

Interested to know in your experience who generally cums first, top or bottom?

 

[BillNC]

The top. When I top I usually come first and finish the bottom with a blow job. When I bottom, I generally come last unless the top cannot control his orgasm and comes too quickly. Favorite way is jerk off with his cock still in my ass after he came.

 

[indyfrat79]

I'm primarily a top and agree with the comment above. I prefer to fuck, cum first, then finish my bttm off with a bj. In the rare occasion when I bottom, I like him to cum first inside me and then I jerk off. I think this makes sense as bottoms don't enjoy being fucked so much once they get off.

 

[briacon429]

I’m the opposite! When I’m bottoming, I love cumming first and then let my top pound me till he finishes inside me. And when I’m topping, I love watching my bottom get off... not to mention feeling his hole spasming around me, which usually sends me over the edge! Of course, it’s always good for both to cum in quick succession, but still....

 

[51arledge]

I'm primarily a top and I've almost always been able to get my bottoms to cum first.
There have been a few times when their twitching holes as they cum have brought me over the edge. And more than a few times when I would lick up their cum and then give them a facial immediately.

 

[Hungstraight]

Interesting seeing the different responses so far. Almost every time I’ve topped I’ve made sure the bottom cums first, and almost every time I’ve bottomed I’ve cum first.

My impression is that most (though not all) gay porn is filmed this way, and this impacts the way a lot of men have sex. Much like in straight sex, the girl cums first, as the cumshot is the ‘end’ or ‘goal’.

 

[dfw051980]

As a top Im always expected to cum first it seems though id rather the dude bottoming for me cum first. A i like the idea that im helping the person cum, im for equally opportunity cumming lol and B, it gets me off hardcore to see a person cum while im fucking them (especially if they are missionary, on their back).

 

[cedarizzo]

When I used to top, I don't remember if I would try to cum first or make the bottom cum first. But now that I am pretty much bottom only, I always try to make the top cum first. I will get off afterwards. I love when the top continues to fuck me after he cums. The problem with that is my partner gets super sensitive after he cums and he has to stop.

 

[Jlatinochub]

Hopefully me. I like my man to feel he did a good job.

 

[HorseHung40's]

I let the encounter run its natural course: sometimes the top first, other times the bottom first.

 

[deleted1074483]

I let the encounter run its natural course: sometimes the top first, other times the bottom first.

completely agree, I'm happy either way as to who cums first, but i must admit with my current bf i love if he cums first, he tightens right up and wants me to continue fucking him and it feels oh so good, and i don't last long after that due to the increased tightness.

 

[brandon38]

The top. When I top I usually come first and finish the bottom with a blow job. When I bottom, I generally come last unless the top cannot control his orgasm and comes too quickly. Favorite way is jerk off with his cock still in my ass after he came.

That way I do it to on blowjob part .

 

[CraigS41]

Doesn't matter too much to me, as Getting fucked after I cum feels even better than before, and I can cum multiple times

 

[accidenttourist]

I'm primarily a top and I've almost always been able to get my bottoms to cum first.
There have been a few times when their twitching holes as they cum have brought me over the edge.

Same. Exclusively top here. My experience is, if you care how your bottom feels with your every stroke (for that reason I always fuck missionary), you can see from your bottom's eyes the exact moment he's getting (real) close.

Sudden acceleration of that rubbing motion on his prostate (from your cock, of course) will make him shaking with his orgasm...
I enjoy too much the scene of my bottom in nirvana to cum first.

That said, I wouldn't last too long with that supercharged fucking either.

 

[needsmust]

Its probably person by person. I usually come first when I'm with my boyfriend whether I'm topping or bottoming. I almost ways come and then finish him off by laying face to face and jacking him off with his cock pressed between our bellies. That is always the easiest way to get him off.

 

[my_ass2]

Bottom here , most of times I cum first ,and I love that specially when he fucks me hard in missionary position,, I hold him above me in a deep hug while his dick still inside for minutes, after that he starts slow fine thrusts which makes my hole starts to relax again , this is like an invitation to him that I’m ready to continue

 

[Tomtom10]

I'd say the guy on top. When I top my bf, I normally cum first but can just about keep hard enough to keep pumping him to orgasm. When I'm bottom, I still tend to cum first because I have no self control and it feels so damn good!

 

[sry59simon]

Prefer to make bottom first

 

[deleted6209261]

Prefer to cum first when I bottom as I love the insanely heightened sensations of having a cock in me. Most guys hate getting fucked after they cum but I can’t get enough of it.

If I’m topping it depends on how much the bottom wanks during sex. I usually ban them from touching themselves because of this

 

[SkySkin77]

I like to cum second, and it doesn't really change if I top or bottom.