Hey top guys - what do you value in a bottom. A recent lover told me I was a good bottom. Wasn't sure exactly what he meant but hey I took the compliment. What do bottoms do that you appreciate or like?
Tops: what makes a good bottom?
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thats hot
doesn't whine that my dick is too thick and instead asks for more, and it's extra awesome if he is relaxed enough to be able to cum when I fuck him.
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Best bottom is one that cums while I am fucking him. Nothing hotter that a guy cumming while being fucked, the ultimate is releasing my load inside him as he is cumming. Only has happened a few time for me.
that happened to me today
Love this position as a bottom.......fills all my senses.....your body very relaxed.......your ass completely relaxed, allowing his cock deep inside of you.......wrapping your arms and legs around the top very tightly...holding him close......riding and working his cock against your prostrate.....and then kissing passionately.....OMG.......immense physical and emotional pleasure......I often cum very quickly when in this position.........uuuuummmmm......
I'd say that a good bottom is one that gives great BJs/foreplay in geral (valid for whichever position lol), knows how to take it in without stopping or whining too much, because we know (or should) it takes skills and talent to easily take it all in. Like, not tensing up too often and "stopping the flow".
For example, I remember this guy and I was the first one he bottomed for. He not only had great sucking skills but he also easily took my 6" thick into him after just a bit of foreplay (he actually told me to stop the foreplay and that he was ready), which gave me a feeling of "he must've been born to bottom!" lol and sex with him was great.
Bonus points if he knows how to work the cock with his ass!
For example, I remember this guy and I was the first one he bottomed for. He not only had great sucking skills but he also easily took my 6" thick into him after just a bit of foreplay (he actually told me to stop the foreplay and that he was ready), which gave me a feeling of "he must've been born to bottom!" lol and sex with him was great.
Bonus points if he knows how to work the cock with his ass!
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A "good bottom" is someone who is in the receiving role and actually is a good lover. They:
Enjoy taking it i.e. dont just lie there.
Are conscientious and "clean out" first.
Can 'read' their partner's mood / desires and react to them.
Focus on making their top cum / have the best orgasm ever.
Basically its someone who likes sex, and is "Active" and thoughtful.
Enjoy taking it i.e. dont just lie there.
Are conscientious and "clean out" first.
Can 'read' their partner's mood / desires and react to them.
Focus on making their top cum / have the best orgasm ever.
Basically its someone who likes sex, and is "Active" and thoughtful.
I agree with Equus. Cleanliness is important. Some degree of tightness. Willingness to try multiple positions. Also I love a verbal bottom. Not over the top porn stuff, but not just lying there silently.
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one that takes time to cleanse before sex.
I'd say that a good bottom is one that gives great BJs/foreplay in geral (valid for whichever position lol), knows how to take it in without stopping or whining too much, because we know (or should) it takes skills and talent to easily take it all in. Like, not tensing up too often and "stopping the flow".
For example, I remember this guy and I was the first one he bottomed for. He not only had great sucking skills but he also easily took my 6" thick into him after just a bit of foreplay (he actually told me to stop the foreplay and that he was ready), which gave me a feeling of "he must've been born to bottom!" lol and sex with him was great.
Bonus points if he knows how to work the cock with his ass!
These last few responses are very helpful for us bottoms. I really want to please. Sure I love to ride a nice cock and cum, but I also like lying on my tummy and letting him pound away to his satisfaction. I've learned how to work my ass too so he doesn't have to do all the work. I love to please my man.
I would say what makes a good bottom (as I am one) is to be a bit submissive and aim to please your top. To be up for just about any positions or anything else he wants. To be in tune with what he wants and know just how to send him over the edge. Along with that, the right amount of moaning, and talking like how good he feels and whatnot.
Also, being able to suck a nice dick like it's your job doesn't hurt.
Also, being able to suck a nice dick like it's your job doesn't hurt.
I really like the idea of being submissive to my top.
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I would summarize it
- one who is relaxed
- one who can take it balls deep
- one that asks for more and can go on for a while
- one who has a hard-on while fucking him and who can come more or less at the same time as me
- and most of all, one that realy enjoys what he is doing
- one who is relaxed
- one who can take it balls deep
- one that asks for more and can go on for a while
- one who has a hard-on while fucking him and who can come more or less at the same time as me
- and most of all, one that realy enjoys what he is doing
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