Tops: what makes a good bottom?

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I would summarize it
- one who is relaxed
- one who can take it balls deep
- one that asks for more and can go on for a while
- one who has a hard-on while fucking him and who can come more or less at the same time as me
- and most of all, one that realy enjoys what he is doing
Yas!
 

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A good bottom:

- Worships my cock during oral with lots of verbal praise about my size
- Sucks my cock for HIS enjoyment, not mine
- Takes my cock up his ass without pain or complaining
- Does not have a sloppy loose hole
- Robust enough to enjoy an extended pounding (1-2 hours)
- Submissive enough to follow my lead with different positions, but not passive
- Lets me know verbally when I am rocking his world
- Passionate during fucking (stares into my eyes, reaches up to kiss me, etc)
- Begs for me to cum in his ass
- Follows-up: Tells me later how amazing our fuck session was, comments on how good his hole feels getting stretched by my cock, talks nasty about my cum dripping out of his ass, etc.
- Asks for repeat fuck sessions
 

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A good bottom:

- Worships my cock during oral with lots of verbal praise about my size
- Sucks my cock for HIS enjoyment, not mine
- Takes my cock up his ass without pain or complaining
- Does not have a sloppy loose hole
- Robust enough to enjoy an extended pounding (1-2 hours)
- Submissive enough to follow my lead with different positions, but not passive
- Lets me know verbally when I am rocking his world
- Passionate during fucking (stares into my eyes, reaches up to kiss me, etc)
- Begs for me to cum in his ass
- Follows-up: Tells me later how amazing our fuck session was, comments on how good his hole feels getting stretched by my cock, talks nasty about my cum dripping out of his ass, etc.
- Asks for repeat fuck sessions
You sound like my ideal top!
 
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I'm going to add to the list.

A great bottom is someone who communicates with their top. Asks them to help take that big dick. Dedicated to hole stretching if nessecary. Then when they can take that big Ile dick they learn how to take it properly. How to relax and tighten that hole on command. Figures out what their tops like and don't.

How do I know this? I've recently become a true power vers. @Aithon and I click so well now thatwhen we have sex there is nothing but pleasure. We talk about what we like and don't like and both as top and bottom, make up one well oiled communicative sexual pair.

Communicate.

Our as I should coin the phrase cummunicate.
 

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A good bottom:

- Worships my cock during oral with lots of verbal praise about my size
- Sucks my cock for HIS enjoyment, not mine
- Takes my cock up his ass without pain or complaining
- Does not have a sloppy loose hole
- Robust enough to enjoy an extended pounding (1-2 hours)
- Submissive enough to follow my lead with different positions, but not passive
- Lets me know verbally when I am rocking his world
- Passionate during fucking (stares into my eyes, reaches up to kiss me, etc)
- Begs for me to cum in his ass
- Follows-up: Tells me later how amazing our fuck session was, comments on how good his hole feels getting stretched by my cock, talks nasty about my cum dripping out of his ass, etc.
- Asks for repeat fuck sessions
Damn fuck me now!
 

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I would summarize it
- one who is relaxed
- one who can take it balls deep
- one that asks for more and can go on for a while
- one who has a hard-on while fucking him and who can come more or less at the same time as me
- and most of all, one that realy enjoys what he is doing
Agree. Even if it hurts has to show how much he enjoys giving me pleasure.
A good bottom:

- Worships my cock during oral with lots of verbal praise about my size
- Sucks my cock for HIS enjoyment, not mine
- Takes my cock up his ass without pain or complaining
- Does not have a sloppy loose hole
- Robust enough to enjoy an extended pounding (1-2 hours)
- Submissive enough to follow my lead with different positions, but not passive
- Lets me know verbally when I am rocking his world
- Passionate during fucking (stares into my eyes, reaches up to kiss me, etc)
- Begs for me to cum in his ass
- Follows-up: Tells me later how amazing our fuck session was, comments on how good his hole feels getting stretched by my cock, talks nasty about my cum dripping out of his ass, etc.
- Asks for repeat fuck sessions
Damn fuck me now!
I agree that the bottom must be verbal. To be honest I like to have my cock worshipped. And hot to know it's hurting.
 
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I would summarize it
- one who is relaxed
- one who can take it balls deep
- one that asks for more and can go on for a while
- one who has a hard-on while fucking him and who can come more or less at the same time as me
- and most of all, one that realy enjoys what he is doing

I love this list. I'm a bottom and always struggle with staying hard while being fucked. I'm thoroughly enjoying it and yet, my cock just shrinks.

I have had to tell guys who think I'm not enjoying it, "FFS, just keep fucking me" and I can even manage to dribble out precum and all. I'm sure it's psychosomatic, but my little guy will be rock hard until another cock starts fucking me.

Does that make me a bad bottom?
 
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I love this list. I'm a bottom and always struggle with staying hard while being fucked. I'm thoroughly enjoying it and yet, my cock just shrinks.

I have had to tell guys who think I'm not enjoying it, "FFS, just keep fucking me" and I can even manage to dribble out precum and all. I'm sure it's psychosomatic, but my little guy will be rock hard until another cock starts fucking me.

Does that make me a bad bottom?

I wouldn't say so, as far as I know, it's completely normal! While some guys manage to keep it hard while being fucked, other simply don't, as it's a normal response from your body that doesn't mean you're not enjoying or anything.

Some guys just think it's hotter if the bottom stays hard, but I don't really care. I mean, you have no control over it, just forget it and have fun ;)
 
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I wouldn't say so, as far as I know, it's completely normal! While some guys manage to keep it hard while being fucked, other simply don't, as it's a normal response from your body that doesn't mean you're not enjoying or anything.

Some guys just think it's hotter if the bottom stays hard, but I don't really care. I mean, you have no control over it, just forget it and have fun ;)

Well, aren't you kind! :D I definitely enjoy it, and the top seems to, as well ... even if I'm just floppy and wet. lol

Thanks for the response.
 
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I love this list. I'm a bottom and always struggle with staying hard while being fucked. I'm thoroughly enjoying it and yet, my cock just shrinks.

I have had to tell guys who think I'm not enjoying it, "FFS, just keep fucking me" and I can even manage to dribble out precum and all. I'm sure it's psychosomatic, but my little guy will be rock hard until another cock starts fucking me.

Does that make me a bad bottom?
Not at all. No difference to me. Lots of guys can't get hard while getting fucked.
 

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I love this list. I'm a bottom and always struggle with staying hard while being fucked. I'm thoroughly enjoying it and yet, my cock just shrinks.

I have had to tell guys who think I'm not enjoying it, "FFS, just keep fucking me" and I can even manage to dribble out precum and all. I'm sure it's psychosomatic, but my little guy will be rock hard until another cock starts fucking me.

Does that make me a bad bottom?

NOT
AT
ALL!!!

Its completely normal and differs from person to person. Sometimes I stay ROCK hard, other times, not so much. It just depends on the sensations going on. I do know that if I am in an entirely submissive mood, I have a tendency to go soft. If I'm really riled up and in a totally vers / top mood, I will stay rock hard. One thing that can be tricky with me is, the better I know someone and the more comfortable I am with them, the harder I stay at all times ;-)
 
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Best bottom is one that cums while I am fucking him. Nothing hotter that a guy cumming while being fucked, the ultimate is releasing my load inside him as he is cumming. Only has happened a few time for me.
I can not not cum when I get fucked. I don't have to even touch my cock. I cum hands free every time.
 

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A "good bottom" is someone who is in the receiving role and actually is a good lover. They:

Enjoy taking it i.e. dont just lie there.
Are conscientious and "clean out" first.
Can 'read' their partner's mood / desires and react to them.
Focus on making their top cum / have the best orgasm ever.

Basically its someone who likes sex, and is "Active" and thoughtful.

This is all true and try to alway do at least 3/4 of these.

Im not a regular top, but I've been told I am a good bottom bro
and have a hot hole and a talented one haha.

id like to add being open minded to trying new things with your ass
always willing to suck your bf/butt bud/bro off if the ass isn't ready
and have an ass that knows how to make a cock feel good
whether it wants tight and hot, or warm and a little loose for rough stuff

I can not not cum when I get fucked. I don't have to even touch my cock. I cum hands free every time.

That's hot! with certain people I can cum hands free, but not always. agree totally cumming while gettin fucked is the best cum ever!