Tops: What Makes A Great Bottom?

[ktnrod]

What sort of things bottoms do that turn you on? How can we improve our game to please you better?

 

[OKCLane]

I want a partner with the goal of mutual satisfaction.

 

[jaymes_eboy]

A man who can be completely masculine but turn around and just be so delicately submissive in the bedroom is a huge turn on for me as a dom top. That "switch" in demeanor is so hot. It kind of goes with the turning straight boy out trope but it's deeper than that imo. A man just shaking his big giggly ass for you begging you to pound him is sexy af.

 

[deleted1074483]

you could ask 100 men this question and get 100 completely different answers!
compatibility helps - so one top/one bottom one dom/one submissive both into kink both into vanilla etc
but take each 'relationship' whether one night or long term individually and work out what works for you - my answer won't help you in that.

that said, for me, a guy who is engaged with me in the act, both physically and emotionally, where both are aiming for mutual satisfaction, being open about what we want/do/would like to do. Whilst i generally take the lead i do also want a guy who'll occasionally take the lead/take control. And most importantly i do not want a guy who just 'lays there' and is completely passive with me.

 

[my_ass2]

This is a very important thread; waiting for more advices

 

[theplayerking]

The best bottoms know how to angle their bodies and open up to take a dick in any given position. Less accomplished bottoms pull away or otherwise make it awkward to fuck them.

 

[OctoGun]

The biggest turn on is a bottom who retains his masculinity whilst also being extremely vocal and expressive about how much he loves taking cock

 

[Infernal]

I like a bottom that isn't afraid to tell me what he wants. If something isn't working, I want to know about it. If a position isn't comfortable tell me. Harder, faster, slower, deeper, etc... I want to know what you need. I want the bottom to get off as much as I do. If you want to lay there and get jackhammered, I'm up for that too, you just have to let me know.

 

[macho8]

the corresponding thread

What makes a good top a GREAT top?

 

[WadWorshipper]

I like pleasing a hot bottom with a nice long fuck session, so I want to know special turn-ons they have and I do NOT want silent bottoms that can't signal me at all what they like. I don't need porn screams, but don't want them be afraid to moan. They should be comfortable with a variety of positions, enjoy riding and let me play with their cock.