TOYS

[D_Eva_D_Struction]

Ladies....what are some of the BEST toys you recommend and why?
Looking for something different other than just a dildo or basic vibrator... heard about Ben Wa balls...don't know anyone personally that have used them or what they're really supposed to do...I spoke with a woman in the store, but I didn't know if the items she recommended were really worth the price, or if she was just trying to make a sale...Then again, it's been YEARS since I've been in the store, so the quality of the items could be much better...wasted my money onetime on that "tongue" crap, lol...

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

I dunno, I'm pretty basic when it comes to toys. At the moment all I have is a basic, clear jelly dildo. No bells, no whistles. I usually only use it when I want DP from my man.. when I play with myself I usually just finger myself like a maniac.

I used to have a Rabbit.. too expensive and restrictive... and I broke it. I also had a vibrating egg, that thing was the shit. I put it in my pussy and had my man fuck my ass, and wow. It was fuckin intense!! but I broke that too. That's why I like simple, jelly toys. They're not as easy to break, and aren't as expensive.

If I had extra money to spend on toys I'm sure I'd have a nice little collection.. but since I don't have the funds I guess I don't like to tease myself with the thought.

I'm just as curious as you about the Ben Wa balls.

 

[paigexox]

What gets recommended and what you buy is largely going to depend on what you want the toy for. Anal? Vaginal? G-Spot? Deep spot? A device more readily enjoyed by couples? Etcetera.

With that said, the newest generation of WeVibe looks really interesting, though I have had functionality issues with the previous iterations of that toy, so approach it with caution.

No toy manufactured by Lelo or nJoy has ever disappointed me. Any new acquisitions that I may have purchased from those brands have always ended up getting a disproportionately great amount of "me time". Quality stuff throughout.

Sex furniture is always an awesome thing if you're trying to buy something for two. Liberator is a brand that makes accessories of that nature, but you can always just opt for maternity pillows and the like as they can be functionally analogous.

Re; the BenWa balls:
They are more of a passive device. You put them inside you, then go about your daily business. The better balls are hollow and have weights in them so that as you move, they shift around inside of you to create nice sensations. They can also be had in heavier variants that require you to use your PC muscle to keep them inside of you. The theory behind those heavier balls is that you will gain tone to your vaginal floor and thus gain vaginal tightness and muscle control. I think they are great fun, but they fit into a very different category of toy than something like a vibrator.

 

[D_Eva_D_Struction]

Wow! You broke it? I'll definately look into jelly toys. I love my bullet, but I wanted to try something different...and yeah, I'm not looking to spend a whole lot of money on it either, everything she showed me was close to 100$..sorry, but all I thought about was "shoes, shoes, shoes", lol...

I used to have a Rabbit.. too expensive and restrictive... and I broke it. I also had a vibrating egg, that thing was the shit. I put it in my pussy and had my man fuck my ass, and wow. It was fuckin intense!! but I broke that too. That's why I like simple, jelly toys. They're not as easy to break, and aren't as expensive.

If I had extra money to spend on toys I'm sure I'd have a nice little collection.. but since I don't have the funds I guess I don't like to tease myself with the thought.

I'm just as curious as you about the Ben Wa balls.

Sorry about that Paige...I was looking for vaginal/clitoral stimulation....
I'll check out the brands you mentioned, thank you so much for the information about those....
Sex furniture? I learned something new today...never knew there was just a thing, lol
About the Ben Wa balls...always thought they served some type of "vibrating bullet" type function...always wondered what was the point of walking around with balls inside of you...now I know...guess I can check that one off my list...lol

You ladies have been VERY helpful...

What gets recommended and what you buy is largely going to depend on what you want the toy for. Anal? Vaginal? G-Spot? Deep spot? A device more readily enjoyed by couples? Etcetera.

With that said, the newest generation of WeVibe looks really interesting, though I have had functionality issues with the previous iterations of that toy, so approach it with caution.

No toy manufactured by Lelo or nJoy has ever disappointed me. Any new acquisitions that I may have purchased from those brands have always ended up getting a disproportionately great amount of "me time". Quality stuff throughout.

Sex furniture is always an awesome thing if you're trying to buy something for two. Liberator is a brand that makes accessories of that nature, but you can always just opt for maternity pillows and the like as they can be functionally analogous.

Re; the BenWa balls:
They are more of a passive device. You put them inside you, then go about your daily business. The better balls are hollow and have weights in them so that as you move, they shift around inside of you to create nice sensations. They can also be had in heavier variants that require you to use your PC muscle to keep them inside of you. The theory behind those heavier balls is that you will gain tone to your vaginal floor and thus gain vaginal tightness and muscle control. I think they are great fun, but they fit into a very different category of toy than something like a vibrator.

 

[paigexox]

Sorry about that Paige...I was looking for vaginal/clitoral stimulation....

Hitachi Magic Wand. The end.

 

[Tight_N_Juicy]

Wow! You broke it? I'll definately look into jelly toys. I love my bullet, but I wanted to try something different...and yeah, I'm not looking to spend a whole lot of money on it either, everything she showed me was close to 100$..sorry, but all I thought about was "shoes, shoes, shoes", lol...

Yup. I get pretty chaotic when I fuck myself sometimes. Especially if I have a few drinks in me.. it gets scary lol.

Yeah, I don't have $100 to spend on something like that at the moment, and won't for a long time. A simple jelly, does the trick for me.. doesn't break easily, and it's easy to clean.

 

[EllieP]

Hitachi Magic Wand. The end.

+1 from me too!

 

[HiddenLacey]

Black label jack rabbit hands down best toy I've ever owned for dual stimulation, however I wish it were longer. I had a different gspot vibrator prior but I broke it for the third time and decided to start spending money on better quality.

I only buy silicone, steel, or glass. I've always been curious about the hitachi, but clitoral orgasms have become a bit lack luster for me. I need penetration. The dual stimulator product from Lelo was disappointing since it's just way to short to be truly pleasurable for me.

On another note, I have several sets of Ben wa balls. I recommend the dukes, but my small heavy glass balls are my favorite. They were fairly cheap and I like to wear them while exercising

Njoy always delivers.

 

[fluffychocolate]

I love nipple stimulation regardless of whether I'm alone or not. I got a tens unit specifically designed for the nipples. It was really reasonable. That thing and my simple vibe keeps me sane when I'm single.

 

[D_Eva_D_Struction]

I've seen the glass...always worried about the comfort level and the possibility of it chipping...
So now I have a better idea regarding the design, material, and durability...I'll stay more towards the silicone/jelly lines....

And Fluffy, you're the first person who I've heard mention electrostimulation...I'm very much aware of if, but never tried it...Awesome to know that it actually works *smiles*

Again ladies, thanks

 

[HiddenLacey]

If you go on Eden fantasy and select products for women you can see the safety rating of different materials. I'm not putting anything near my bits that's not a ten.

I also have a tens unit. I have the femme elite which is a pelvic floor stimulator... Feels zappy and squeezes the hell out of my muscles. I purchased it due to curiosity after reading one of Dolfette's posts.

 

[EllieP]

I love nipple stimulation regardless of whether I'm alone or not. I got a tens unit specifically designed for the nipples. It was really reasonable. That thing and my simple vibe keeps me sane when I'm single.

I have a TENS unit that I used to use on my back and shoulders specifically because of problems carrying around the girls. Now that the girls are smaller I haven't used the unit at all.

I never ever thought about using it for stimulation like that! Hmmmm. Dang it, you're putting evil thoughts in my head! LOL!

 

[geek0]

Hitachi Magic Wand. The end.

This! and the gspot attachment is awesome. I've also broken a couple of rabbits, when i orgasm the muscles clamp down hard and it doesn't seem to withstand it very well.

 

[fluffychocolate]

Nothing evil about sexy times. Try it!

@HiddenLacey, you don't say? Hmmm... *goes surfing*

I have a TENS unit that I used to use on my back and shoulders specifically because of problems carrying around the girls. Now that the girls are smaller I haven't used the unit at all.

I never ever thought about using it for stimulation like that! Hmmmm. Dang it, you're putting evil thoughts in my head! LOL!