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hi,

i've used ts escorts from time to time, but then i'm tired of that and want an fwb/dating. i live in a small country though with not many tss, so just want some ideas on how to get one.
 

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I think you just kinda have to take it in strde. Most trans women don't wanna be used simply for sex. So fwb might be hard to find. you could try some trans specific dating sties or posting an add on craigslist. Just remember to be respectful and not a hormonal 14 year old with boner. Also dont expect sex, and or them to treat you like the women you were paying for. lol
 
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I've been finding it a little bit hard to find one that wasn't escourting.I'd like to know how to weed those ones out and find someone genuine
 

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tsdating is pretty good. jsut if the girl looks like an escort.. she prolly is. lol. jsut dont expect every tgirl you meet to be a real genuine girl. jsut like pof, there are alot of escorts. lol. But I know thats commonly used by trans girls!
 

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I think you just kinda have to take it in strde. Most trans women don't wanna be used simply for sex. So fwb might be hard to find. you could try some trans specific dating sties or posting an add on craigslist. Just remember to be respectful and not a hormonal 14 year old with boner. Also dont expect sex, and or them to treat you like the women you were paying for. lol

so tss don't do fwbs? even if it's with a friend they like/trust?

you're all human obviously and want to not be seen as sex alone, granted. but thanks anyhow.
 

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so tss don't do fwbs? even if it's with a friend they like/trust?

you're all human obviously and want to not be seen as sex alone, granted. but thanks anyhow.

Oh obviously some of us to like FWB. But the vast majority of us ( speaking from my personal experience and what my freinds in the trans community feel) we are kinda sick of being viewed as a closet fantasy for men to get off to and then go back to their regular life. I get hundreds of emails a week from men asking for me to fullfill their lifelong fantasy. But i get very few offers from men who want to legitimately go on a date with me. And this is similar for my friends. But seeming as we are just like any other woman mentally, we want a relationship. Sex is easy. LOL. We just strive for the days where trans attracted men can carry us on their arm proudly. LOL. And we don't have to be hidden away like something dirty as we are Just people. Like you :) And not unicorns.
 

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Oh obviously some of us to like FWB. But the vast majority of us ( speaking from my personal experience and what my freinds in the trans community feel) we are kinda sick of being viewed as a closet fantasy for men to get off to and then go back to their regular life. I get hundreds of emails a week from men asking for me to fullfill their lifelong fantasy. But i get very few offers from men who want to legitimately go on a date with me. And this is similar for my friends. But seeming as we are just like any other woman mentally, we want a relationship. Sex is easy. LOL. We just strive for the days where trans attracted men can carry us on their arm proudly. LOL. And we don't have to be hidden away like something dirty as we are Just people. Like you :) And not unicorns.
Hi MizzS. I always enjoy your responses. Is the situation getting any better? Are more men willing to date you and your friends---or is it still just more of the same? Sounds like just more of the same.......sadly....
 

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Well I have noticed more trans attracted men coming out. Like I rarely run into the situation where a man says he isnt into it. But still few wanting to date. But then again my cis gendered female friends have the same issue. Maybe its jsut men in general :p (joking)
 

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Well I have noticed more trans attracted men coming out. Like I rarely run into the situation where a man says he isnt into it. But still few wanting to date. But then again my cis gendered female friends have the same issue. Maybe its jsut men in general :p (joking)
LOL. Men are "dogs"....I know because at times I am one....... Besides being a dog, meaning men will generally screw anything, including a snake if they could hold it down....... in todays world, women just give up the pussy entirely too easy (sorry to be blunt)....Men don't have to get to know the woman, spending time to really find out who she is or what she likes...instead, BAM, they are in bed screwing that first night they meet or on the first date (if you can call it a date).
I'm not blaming women--I'm not, really....it's just the way it is these days. Pretty sad. I'm a little (lot?) older. Don't think I ever had sex on a 1st date. Ever. My "approach" was get to know the woman first. After weeks or months (yes months) of seeing each other---when she tells me she's ready or want's to make love, then game's on.....If we never get to that point, so be it....most often things fissile out in that case and we both move on.......
I find similarities with men and TS women, as with dating black women as a white man. Used to be, white men would admit in private that they find black women attractive, will be happy to have sex with a black hooker, but wanted nothing to do with dating /having a real relationship with a black woman in public. Thank God that has changed over time.
But I see and sense the same thing with TS women these days---men find TS women attractive; have no problem using a TS Escort service, but are still hesitant (or scared to death?) to date a TS woman publicly.
Wish I was a younger man, I'd gladly date a TS woman publicly. I did date one openly several years ago, and had a great experience, but let her get away. I'm now in a LTR with a cis-gendered black woman and enjoying life.
Today is another day MizzS. Hope you have a great day, and some fine looking gentleman comes your way and treats you like a lady. Keep smiling.