Turn-offs that ruin a video for you

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This is a thread for discussing things in videos that turn you off. Say you clicked on a video and then upon watching it something happens or you realizing something that made immediately click off or skip. Feel free to explain why too.

I'll start:
- Rosebuds
- Feces (I know it's an anus and it can happen but randomly seeing it just kills the mood lol Please edit that out or stop all together)
- Blood
- Vomit
- Excessive spit
- Abusive tops (a little aggression is fine but when they start stepping on the bottom or punching and hitting them hard that's when they lose me. Also, I hate seeing bottoms mistreated, we should be protected and respected especially after the work we put in to bottom for tops)
- Hairy bottoms (please if you are going to bottom, shave your hole. I think it's more hygienic and looks more appealing)
- Fisting
- Looking Bored or disgusted (I know it's a job to some people but please don't show it. It ruins it for me when people clearly don't wanna be doing it or are just doing it for a check. It's like watching someone being held hostage. Show some interest)
- Fake exaggerated moaning (You know the ones, the over the top yelling and grunting that just feels forced and fake I think Sean Cody videos are know for this lol)
- Prolapsed anus (sorry to the people it's happened to but it's just not appealing to me)
- Offensive name calling(verbal is cool and all. Name calling like "bitch" or "Slut" is fine but once it starts getting into things like the F slur that's when you lose me)
- Unhygienic looking (if they have a bunch of dirt and grime on them)
 
Fake over the top moaning.
Rosebuds/prolapse.
Cock rings - instant turn off, my eye just gets drawn to it and not the scene
Guys described as straight when they are either camp or very obviously gay - nothing against the performers but it just ruins the fantasy!
 
Guys described as straight when they are either camp or very obviously gay - nothing against the performers but it just ruins the fantasy!
I'm the opposite lol, if they claim to be straight it ruins the video for me. Like why do I want to watch someone straight person and usually they just seem not into it.

This also reminds be of another turn off for me. The ones that use "bro", "Man", "dude" every 10 seconds, it comes across as them trying to hard to appear masc and straight. It's so annoying lol I'm looking at you Timothy Champagne
 
Feminine men/Guys with feminine-looking faces
Twinks
Scenes depicting incest amongst BLOOD RELATIVES....EWWW!
Too many tattoos/piercings
Hitting, punching, smacking across the face
Bodily fluids other than cum or spit
Str8 guys who don't reciprocate
Gay guys who don't reciprocate
Guys who refer to other men as faggot, or use terminology meant for women: pussy, cunt, etc.
Lack of enthusiasm
 
Feminine men/Guys with feminine-looking faces
Twinks
Scenes depicting incest amongst BLOOD RELATIVES....EWWW!
Too many tattoos/piercings
Hitting, punching, smacking across the face
Bodily fluids other than cum or spit
Str8 guys who don't reciprocate
Gay guys who don't reciprocate
Guys who refer to other men as faggot, or use terminology meant for women: pussy, cunt, etc.
Lack of enthusiasm
Agree with the pussy thing. I hate that! If you want pussy, get pussy. The guy ain't got one!
 
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For me it would be:
-Dirty nails/feet. If you're going to be on 4k video those are the main things that need to be cleaned.
-Body acne on the back and ass. something about it is a major turn off for me.
-Tops who are good at topping but are non verbal. You're putting all that amazing work but you don't have anything to say?
-Bottoms who are overdramatic. A lot of bottoms today take on more than they can take which causes them to either constantly tell the top to stop or they're screaming at the top of their lungs for the top to stop.
-No full body shots. I like close up scene of the top going in a bottom but that should last for a minute or too.
-Any type of animal in the video.
 
A major one for me that hasn't been mentioned yet is fake kissing. You know, when the guys basically just bump lips together and make those annoying smacking noises. Show some passion and make it look like you're really into what you're doing!
 
Fake moaning, men or women, it's the worst.
Dirty tongue in an oral scene and have seen way too many coated tongues, imagine their breath..
Long fingernails on men
50 lbs. of gold around a guy's neck
excessive tats/piercings
bulge on a guy where it looks like he has a bowling ball in his pants
 
I’ll add two that haven’t yet been mentioned.

1. When the close-up shots are too long without any type of lead in showing which performer is doing what I’m looking at. It’s especially annoying in group scenes because I don’t know if the cute one that was in the middle is the one taking it like I hoped, or if he’s even the one giving it. I like to know who’s doing what to who and follow each of them through the scene.
2. Scenes that are too ridiculous to happen in real life. I get the humor in blatantly doing things almost in full view of an unsuspecting girlfriend or wife, but too over the top is a deal breaker. I like it to be believable.
 
A turn off for me these days are the over played scenarios/themes:
- Condoms
- Stepdad/son
- Well known gay porn actors playing a straight man
- Doctor's office
- Orgies (more than 3 or 4 is too much; the scenes are too long and I never know who to watch)
- Guys wearing masks or any kind of face covering
- "Anonymous" when someone is clearly filming (i.e. I walked in on my friend...)
- Massage turns into sex
- Sex in the kitchen

I freely admit that I am pretty consistent and like guys fucking on a bed or couch; outdoors is okay too. Def bb, kissing, verbal, inseminations/internal. I think it's hot when you really feel like the guys are making a connection.
 
Lmfao. Hardly any of these bother me. I go from softcore to Folsom fisting and prolapse play and I'm usually okay for whatever mood I'm in.

Biggest thing for me is shit. In real life, it's bound to happen at some point... But in film, you can edit it before releasing it.

Also, wash your ass? Or just, wash in general. You can have hair without your ass looking like war torn Bosnia.

Overly effeminate guys who refer to their ass as a pussy or bussy... I literally stop jerking off or watching porn completely. If it happens in porn while I'm having sex. It's instant soft dick. Like, no bitch... It's an asshole. Lol. Also.. wigs and fishnets or women's thongs? Doesn't that shit cut your balls in half?

Dirty nails, bad teeth(especially if they have a load in their mouth and it really shows off their brown chicklets)... And oh! Omg omg omg, dirty ears in gloryhole videos. I have a thing with ears... Ufffff. -shudder- if you haven't noticed it, you're welcome.
 
- BJ vids where the sucker blows the guy for the entire time then ruins it by finishing him with just a hand job and not taking any of the cum.
- Popper breaks.
- Non-verbal tops who show no appreciation
- Bottoms doing too much duck face hissing like they're copying female porn stars.
- Over use of the word 'fuck'. Comes off as really fake and gets distracting if I hear it every two seconds.
- Actual vomiting (bitch that ain't 'throat slime')