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So I have this friend of a little over 2 years. We really started becoming close around the spring of 2014. We'd hang out together, go to a lot of events together, hang out at each other's houses, etc. Then late last year/early this year, we kinda started drifting apart and idk why. Towards the end, I'd have to be the one initiating hang outs, etc. Then around April/May, I reached out a few times (spaced apart) and didn't get a reply at all. So I just gave up...
We never did anything sexual. Mainly because at the time, I had severe body dysmorphia and thought I was ugly/deformed so I never came on sexually to a woman, ever. I've now gotten over it, but still have not met any woman with as good as chemistry as her and I have. A lot of people said it seemed like she liked me, and everyone is shocked we didn't do anything. I'm sure she might have stopped talking to me because I never made a move and so she might have moved on, idk.
Anyways, I've seen her at a couple of local events here and there. And there we do talk. However, things come up with my group of friends and they always leave early before I get to say goodbye or try and make plans. The last time I saw her was in late February. The last time we hung out one on one was around March...
Anyway, her and I love this band. Actually, we've been to see them together a few times. Very recently, I got a job working doing web stuff for this big band (don't want to say who). The plan was, a few days before the show, ask her if she'd like to be my +1 on the guest list. Then the plan was, she'd likely say yes because she likes the band, and she might even think I'm cool because I work with them now.
Well, I messaged her 2 days prior to the show (today) and noticed that she was already marked "Going" on the event, thus showing that she had already had gotten a ticket. I still reached out. However this is so terrible because I was planning this for a month. I had it already planned out that we'd go to the show together and things would get rekindled. That is our tradition is to go see this band together anytime we're in Nashville. She has never gone to see that particular band with anyone but me up until now.
Now, I am stuck. I have no way to invite her out to something without seeming weird or overly random....
We never did anything sexual. Mainly because at the time, I had severe body dysmorphia and thought I was ugly/deformed so I never came on sexually to a woman, ever. I've now gotten over it, but still have not met any woman with as good as chemistry as her and I have. A lot of people said it seemed like she liked me, and everyone is shocked we didn't do anything. I'm sure she might have stopped talking to me because I never made a move and so she might have moved on, idk.
Anyways, I've seen her at a couple of local events here and there. And there we do talk. However, things come up with my group of friends and they always leave early before I get to say goodbye or try and make plans. The last time I saw her was in late February. The last time we hung out one on one was around March...
Anyway, her and I love this band. Actually, we've been to see them together a few times. Very recently, I got a job working doing web stuff for this big band (don't want to say who). The plan was, a few days before the show, ask her if she'd like to be my +1 on the guest list. Then the plan was, she'd likely say yes because she likes the band, and she might even think I'm cool because I work with them now.
Well, I messaged her 2 days prior to the show (today) and noticed that she was already marked "Going" on the event, thus showing that she had already had gotten a ticket. I still reached out. However this is so terrible because I was planning this for a month. I had it already planned out that we'd go to the show together and things would get rekindled. That is our tradition is to go see this band together anytime we're in Nashville. She has never gone to see that particular band with anyone but me up until now.
Now, I am stuck. I have no way to invite her out to something without seeming weird or overly random....