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I was in Las Vegas this week for a convention. I headed to the Qua Spa at the Caesar's Palace. Great massage and beautiful spa for well deserved afternoon of relaxation.
I am not naive or a prude and am comfortable hanging out nude with other guys. But the aggressive cruising, especially by "straight" married guys was irritating and down right harrassing.
Can anyone explain why so many straight married guys want to have sex in public places with other guys? As a gay man, I have never had interest in anonymous sex in a public location?
Why don't some guys take no for an answer? We are in a hotel spa, not a gay bath house.
When I assertively explain that I am not interested....I get the you are so handsome and hung, take it as a compliment. I don't. Look, but let me enjoy the hot tubs, steam and sauna without be groped and fondled.
Is this a generational thing? Most of the guys were between 35 -50 years old.
Are there any other guys that go to a Spa to relax...but have no interest in getting off?
Sorry for venting, but spending hundreds of $ to be hassled isn't cool.
I am not naive or a prude and am comfortable hanging out nude with other guys. But the aggressive cruising, especially by "straight" married guys was irritating and down right harrassing.
Can anyone explain why so many straight married guys want to have sex in public places with other guys? As a gay man, I have never had interest in anonymous sex in a public location?
Why don't some guys take no for an answer? We are in a hotel spa, not a gay bath house.
When I assertively explain that I am not interested....I get the you are so handsome and hung, take it as a compliment. I don't. Look, but let me enjoy the hot tubs, steam and sauna without be groped and fondled.
Is this a generational thing? Most of the guys were between 35 -50 years old.
Are there any other guys that go to a Spa to relax...but have no interest in getting off?
Sorry for venting, but spending hundreds of $ to be hassled isn't cool.