Wanking with a mate

[12843051]

Alright guys, so I’m straight and married and before Christmas was out for a few drinks with one of my best mates, also straight and married. He has always been a bit straight laced and wet. Anyway, a few drinks turned into a lot and we both ended up smashed and talking about sex. The memory is hazy but I remember telling him I am open to wanking together and quite into watching porn and stroking and I said I had done it with another friend of ours. He said he would be game and I mentioned that when I tried to get it going when we were all together as a group, it never happened. Wake up the next morning and I’m cringing and panicking that I have given too much away etc.

Anyway, we never mentioned it again and I felt like it was just hanging there. Although that’s probably just me. We go back to normal and I see him 3 times a week because we gym together. Although now he has mentioned wanking in conversation far more than normal. The past 4 times I’ve seen him he has mentioned it and brought it into conversation.
Now we have always been open about it anyway and spoke about wanking etc but I feel like the number of times has increased.

reckon he would be game for whacking some porn on and stroking or it was the drink talking? I worry about bringing it up and making it weird again if he isn’t into it.

 

[ringooo]

I’ve got a mate like this. Weve not actually met up and had a wank together in person but it would probably happen if I chased it enough - when we text a bit the conversation usually dries out and ends up pervy banter. We usually end up sharing hot videos of fit girls on with each other and bantering back and forth, joking about needing a wank or having a hardon etc. The last few times he’s ended up sending me pictures of him having a wank saying things like ‘jeezus look what all these photos have done! Haha’ etc

That would be my suggestion, send him something you found online that you thought was hot, make some bantery comment. See what happens haha

 

[12843051]

I’ve got a mate like this. Weve not actually met up and had a wank together in person but it would probably happen if I chased it enough - when we text a bit the conversation usually dries out and ends up pervy banter. We usually end up sharing hot videos of fit girls on with each other and bantering back and forth, joking about needing a wank or having a hardon etc. The last few times he’s ended up sending me pictures of him having a wank saying things like ‘jeezus look what all these photos have done! Haha’ etc

That would be my suggestion, send him something you found online that you thought was hot, make some bantery comment. See what happens haha

Cheers man, yeah I normally would but also conscious that his wife looks at his phone quite often so have to be sensible most the time haha

 

[ringooo]

Cheers man, yeah I normally would but also conscious that his wife looks at his phone quite often so have to be sensible most the time haha

Oh, man. Well maybe not then. And also, jeez give the man some privacy haha

 

[Komland]

Alright guys, so I’m straight and married and before Christmas was out for a few drinks with one of my best mates, also straight and married. He has always been a bit straight laced and wet. Anyway, a few drinks turned into a lot and we both ended up smashed and talking about sex. The memory is hazy but I remember telling him I am open to wanking together and quite into watching porn and stroking and I said I had done it with another friend of ours. He said he would be game and I mentioned that when I tried to get it going when we were all together as a group, it never happened. Wake up the next morning and I’m cringing and panicking that I have given too much away etc.

Anyway, we never mentioned it again and I felt like it was just hanging there. Although that’s probably just me. We go back to normal and I see him 3 times a week because we gym together. Although now he has mentioned wanking in conversation far more than normal. The past 4 times I’ve seen him he has mentioned it and brought it into conversation.
Now we have always been open about it anyway and spoke about wanking etc but I feel like the number of times has increased.

reckon he would be game for whacking some porn on and stroking or it was the drink talking? I worry about bringing it up and making it weird again if he isn’t into it.

You definitely need to ask him out for a drink again - that’s what got you close last time.

If you guys are drunk, horny and watching porn it’s probably going to happen.

 

[12843051]

Had covid so haven’t really spoke to him! Will see him Wednesday and I will see if he brings up wanking again

 

[irrhysistable]

Can’t wait to get an update

 

[deleted15201331]

Had covid so haven’t really spoke to him! Will see him Wednesday and I will see if he brings up wanking again

Just ask him, chances are he is waiting on a response from you.

 

[jtheimpaler]

Had covid so haven’t really spoke to him! Will see him Wednesday and I will see if he brings up wanking again

Be careful not to orchestrate it too much that can look like you just wanna watch him jack rather than just chill and stroke

wheneve mr I’ve ended up jacking it with mates it’s usually spur of the moment… “shall we stick a porno on” sure… rather than orchestrated

 

[ronin001]

Wow, do Straight Guys with wives, really have have that much free time

 

[12843051]

Wow, do Straight Guys with wives, really have have that much free time

No which is part of the issue. We don’t really see each other alone unless it’s for the gym which is never going to start us stroking.
No update other than that. Will probably see him today for the gym for the first time since I put this post out.

 

[4202HHN]

Try weed.

 

[deleted15201331]

Most straight guys are open to wanking together, but scared to tell anyone.
Are you open to trying more than just wanking, like oral ?

You've got that right. Exploring the possibility of oral.

 

[12843051]

I’m open to it and we have had a chat about it when we were both pissed and he said he would be open too. However I don’t know if he just said that because he was pissed. And we haven’t really had a chance to do it together. We mainly see each other alone st the gym rather than at home so it’s difficult.

 

[14600801]

Most straight guys are open to wanking together, but scared to tell anyone.
Are you open to trying more than just wanking, like oral ?

I don't have any more data than my own personal experience and I have to disagree.

 

[12843051]

It’s the bonding aspect mainly but also curiosity, curious to see what he is packing. Love the thought chatting and stroking to porn together and then going back to being normal mates and no one knows. It would be hot to watch him stroke but I don’t have a desire to play with him myself.

 

[12843051]

would be hot to see him cum. I hope we could be stood next to each other as we both cum. The main thing hindering the next step is opportunity. We don’t see each other in the right scenario to try and take that next step

 

[Perfectsix]

One friend used to always laugh and joke about how small my cock was when we were in the gym showers. I fought back by telling him I’m a grower rather than a shower like him.
He demanded proof so we ended up mutually wanking each other back at his - turns out he’s also a grower so I got a running commentary on how small my slender six incher felt compared to his thick 7.75 inches!

 

[12843051]

Sounds hot man. We are going to a stag in June and sharing a hotel room so hoping something could happen there

 

[ricd250584]

Sounds hot man. We are going to a stag in June and sharing a hotel room so hoping something could happen there

yeah after a night of drinking and partying, put on some porn when you get back to the room, see what happens