Random men tend to bore me. I enjoy watching my husband, but that's about it these days. I can passively watch other men, but unless there is a connection to them, it's just not pleasing to the eye.
When you've spent a decade on one sexually driven forum, as long on a fetish site, and a good few years here, you get very numb to the site of dick.
It's just another dick in a sea of dicks that think they are special. They aren't. A dick is a dick is a dick.