Wet dreams in adulthood

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I was wondering if many members here are still experiencing wet dreams well in their 20s or even beyond that age range? I'm 25 years old, it's been like a year+ since I'd had my last wet dream, and literally just this week 2 times I've woken up with a sore dick and a wet stain. I've noticed that on the nights prior to my wet dreams, I had spent like 20 mins watching hot chest massage vids before bed, no masturbating, so maybe that was the reason?

Anyway the reason I'm asking this is because I was a prolific wet dreamer during my high school years. Literally could just cum in my sleep 5-6 days in a single week for no reason. And it would get so intense and so painful that it could have literally woken me up. But ever since an accident involving my prostate, my libido and testosterone have generally toned down, which extended to the intensity and quantity of wet dreams I guess. Nowadays when I wet dream I don't even feel anything, until I wake up to a cold wet feeling in my pants in the morning.
 
I had one the other night, so intense it woke me up, and so vivid I remember all the details of the threesome, I was sucking the guy off and his buddy was about to fuck me, and, as his cock penetrated me thats when I had my orgasm, shook my body, I know I groaned out loud and got soaked with cum, really highly scented cum.
 
I had one the other night, so intense it woke me up, and so vivid I remember all the details of the threesome, I was sucking the guy off and his buddy was about to fuck me, and, as his cock penetrated me thats when I had my orgasm, shook my body, I know I groaned out loud and got soaked with cum, really highly scented cum.
Is it weird that I never had a specific dream when I was wet dreaming. It was just blank and all of the sudden I'd wake up with wet undies (and painful sore cock if it had been intense)

Also a fun fact is that the experiments I've done during my teen years has proven that being horny before bed by masturbating or watching porn could very much increase the chances of getting one
 
I was wondering if many members here are still experiencing wet dreams well in their 20s or even beyond that age range? I'm 25 years old, it's been like a year+ since I'd had my last wet dream, and literally just this week 2 times I've woken up with a sore dick and a wet stain. I've noticed that on the nights prior to my wet dreams, I had spent like 20 mins watching hot chest massage vids before bed, no masturbating, so maybe that was the reason?

Anyway the reason I'm asking this is because I was a prolific wet dreamer during my high school years. Literally could just cum in my sleep 5-6 days in a single week for no reason. And it would get so intense and so painful that it could have literally woken me up. But ever since an accident involving my prostate, my libido and testosterone have generally toned down, which extended to the intensity and quantity of wet dreams I guess. Nowadays when I wet dream I don't even feel anything, until I wake up to a cold wet feeling in my pants in the morning.
23 yo here, sometimes while having a nap I have a wet dream, but it only occurs when I wear tight underwear or compression shorts and when I abstain from cumming for several days
 
I think I only had a wet dream once or twice. Certainly not at first, I was too busy playing myself. But when I was much older, it did happen. But generally, I just wake up. I'm generally the horniest in the middle of the night - kind of inconvenient 🙂
 
Testosterone in males peaks at age 27-28 so it's certainly possible to have wet dreams in your 20s, 30s and later. I did. Sometimes because I hadn't had sex or masturbated for a while and sometimes just out of the blue even when I had.

I'm 62. My last wet dream was this summer. They're most common after I've been around a group of women. I have a theory that women release pheromones especially in groups. For years I had wet dreams a day or two after attending weddings except those where I hooked up with someone. Weddings are incredibly romantic for women which IMO cause a mass pheromone release.
 
I was wondering if many members here are still experiencing wet dreams well in their 20s or even beyond that age range?
Mid-30'd, still on occasion (but pretty sure it's not common past adolescence). Seems to be related to delays though I guess, for me. Hard to tell sometimes.
 
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With me, they're very infrequent and usually tied to periods when I haven't had any other release for some time. Like, in the 4th week of 6 week basic training. I'm usually either masturbating or have sex often enough to keep the dreams away. I hate waking to sticky shorts anyway.
 
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I used to get them, the best one was when my girlfriend at the time was with me, I woke up while cumming and must have disturbed her, we both woke up in a confused state as I was ejaculating all over her! Very embarrassing at the time but super hot to think back on.
I don't get them now, I orgasm in my sleep and in the dream I am covering her in cum, crazy loads then i wake up, confused and surprised and check down there expecting cum everywhere but nothing. Although I do straight away have a wank as it is horny AF!
 
That's completely fine, they're a bother anyway and can be really annoying sometimes
Haha I know it's silly, but I feel like its one of those rites of passage of being a man lol. Just want to experience a true one once haha.
 
I don't think I ever had any wet dreams as a teen. Almost every morning I wake up with the usual morning wood, but that's about it.

About a week ago though I had my first ever wet dream(?) at age 48.

I awoke early in the morning with my cock fully erect as usual, but it took a few seconds to realise what was happening. I'd woken up just as an orgasm was reaching the point of no return.

A slight feeling of panic and confusion set in - apparently, I was going to be ejaculating now!

Nothing to do but lie there and let it happen, as I felt my cock twitch as it unloaded on my chest.

I would not describe it as a full orgasm though.

I remember some vaguely horny dream but nothing specific.

Not entirely sure what to make of it. I masturbate or have sex fairly often, so not sure why it happened.

I've woken up cumming (or just about to cum) with a full-on orgasm a couple of times, when someone has "taken advantage" of my morning wood. This was a bit of a different sensation though.

Entirely hands-free orgasms are pretty amazing. I'll take it as a pretty nice, if a bit confusing and slightly messy start to the day...
 
I was wondering if many members here are still experiencing wet dreams well in their 20s or even beyond that age range? I'm 25 years old, it's been like a year+ since I'd had my last wet dream, and literally just this week 2 times I've woken up with a sore dick and a wet stain. I've noticed that on the nights prior to my wet dreams, I had spent like 20 mins watching hot chest massage vids before bed, no masturbating, so maybe that was the reason?

Anyway the reason I'm asking this is because I was a prolific wet dreamer during my high school years. Literally could just cum in my sleep 5-6 days in a single week for no reason. And it would get so intense and so painful that it could have literally woken me up. But ever since an accident involving my prostate, my libido and testosterone have generally toned down, which extended to the intensity and quantity of wet dreams I guess. Nowadays when I wet dream I don't even feel anything, until I wake up to a cold wet feeling in my pants in the morning.
I think it's normal considering the stimulus without the release.
It is also normal without the stimulus, our bodies know when they need release. Get off as often as you need and I'm sure the wet dreams might occur less often or even stop.