What is it that gets you off about bareback sex?

[love1111]

I obviously know that not all gay guys have bareback sex but I do see a lot of guys that do. What is it that makes you like it so much? This can be any reason from a top or bottom.

We all know it is risky behavior so can we please skip that conversation and keep this tread only the reasons why you like it and what brings you back to do it again even with that risk.

Thanks! Just curious..

 

[bimetaldude]

well i am bi and just had anal sex with my bf for the first time last december. we have done it several times since then. it feels really good and its intimate without a condom, though i never did it before so i do not know what a condom feels like in compare. and also knowing he busted his load deep in me is very hot for me to think about..

 

[deleted804287]

It is much more personal and feels much better for both participants. Skin on skin is a much more natural and smooth feeling, and in the case of people doing it for more than just sex, it is extremely more intimate.

 

[D_Charlie_Chapedlips]

I don't actively seek out bb, it's entirely spur of the moment. I've had two instances of bareback before I got into a monogamous relationship and I count both times as lapses in judgement rather than having set out from foreplay with having unprotected sex. Since getting engaged though the thing that brings me back to it is the spontaneity. Knowing that it is a relatively safe practice for me and my partner means that if the mood strikes me, I can engage in it without having to break the rhythm of what we're doing – but I would never advocate for bareback with random hookups.

 

[slurper_la]

maybe for the same reason str8s do it. it feels better

 

[JasonO]

I can go either way on it, but generally it is something I prefer in a secure longterm relationship.

 

[FuzzyKen]

I have been in a monogamous relationship now for over a decade. We were both tested before we decided to dispense with condoms. Both of us were proven to be healthy and to have no form of any STD. We do not stray outside our relationship for sexual gratification in any manner. I have bareback sex with my partner on a regular basis and will continue to do so based on the nature of our relationship. That being said, and defined clearly as a safe activity in our case, we find bareback sex more intimate and for us it is an expression of our love and total commitment to each other.

 

[D_Sal_Manilla]

doing it in a committed relationship. I know I posted it somewhere else before but bareback lets you give part of yourself... I guess its a solid.. well rather liquid form of love. that's from a tops perspective. As a bottoms perspective... your giving your trust to this guy who has all the power over you. You trust him that he won't hurt you and trust is something to fragile and it can quickly be taken away so either way your giving something up to each other..... I DONT KNOW! I JUST LOVE GETTING FUCKED AND FEELING A HOT THICK LOAD IN MY ASS but i'm serious about what i said first.

 

[Otep]

Depending on the position it can also be a highly visual thing. I personally find condoms visually unappealing which is why I strongly prefer bareback porn. They're a necessary evil for safety but seeing someone wearing a condom either in person or online is something that I find distracting and unappealing.

 

[deleted804287]

doing it in a committed relationship. I know I posted it somewhere else before but bareback lets you give part of yourself... I guess its a solid.. well rather liquid form of love. that's from a tops perspective. As a bottoms perspective... your giving your trust to this guy who has all the power over you. You trust him that he won't hurt you and trust is something to fragile and it can quickly be taken away so either way your giving something up to each other..... I DONT KNOW! I JUST LOVE GETTING FUCKED AND FEELING A HOT THICK LOAD IN MY ASS but i'm serious about what i said first.

Hahaha you made my day with your part in all caps.

 

[erratic]

I have been in a monogamous relationship now for over a decade. We were both tested before we decided to dispense with condoms. Both of us were proven to be healthy and to have no form of any STD. We do not stray outside our relationship for sexual gratification in any manner. I have bareback sex with my partner on a regular basis and will continue to do so based on the nature of our relationship. That being said, and defined clearly as a safe activity in our case, we find bareback sex more intimate and for us it is an expression of our love and total commitment to each other.

Well said.

Also, it's hard to overstate how powerful body contact is. While I absolutely support the emphasis on safer sex that's out there, how long would you want to go kissing through a layer of latex? Or only ever holding hands with gloves on?

 

[hrdhatdad]

hate condoms. I use them but really hate them

 

[psguy64]

What is it that gets you off about bareback sex?
For me it's one of highest levels of intimacy.

Like the other responses for sex without condoms -
an "expression of love and total commitment to each other".

 

[laptev]

I never bareback, not even with my husband, because it's just too risky and getting infected is just not worth it. Know too many poz guys who may live 'normal' lives in the eyes of most people, but when you know them, you get to see the real picture and that's not a pretty one.

I don't mind what other people do, but just hope that everybody knows what they are potentially doing when they are not protecting themselves or their partners.

 

[erratic]

I'd also like to point out that nobody shits a brick when straight couples start barebacking. Certainly I'd hope that single people use protection, but if you're in a couple, you trust each other, and you're being smart about it, you have every right to stop using condoms without someone waving a finger at you.

 

[Bunny35]

I just love the intimacy and the feeling of having that cum shoot inside me turns me on!

 

[Countryguy63]

I never bareback, not even with my husband, because it's just too risky and getting infected is just not worth it. Know too many poz guys who may live 'normal' lives in the eyes of most people, but when you know them, you get to see the real picture and that's not a pretty one.

I don't mind what other people do, but just hope that everybody knows what they are potentially doing when they are not protecting themselves or their partners.

May I ask if you are in an open relationship with your husband?

 

[AtomicMouse1950]

I'm in a relationship with a man, who was checked before we actually started having BB sex. I was checked too, so we're both in great condition, and we're both healthy. So BB sex was the next step. We get together once every other week. So skin on skin is a magnificent feeling. He's a multi-cummer, so our sessions last for several hours. And I usually stay with him for at least three to four days at a time. Usually every time, he gets off. He's amazing. I've cum several times during our sessions. That amazes me the most. We're totally in tune with each other sexually. I'm glad we bareback. He's the top and I'm the bottom.

 

[IrelandBoi]

It just feels natural and it's a big turn on for me, when someone cums inside me. But i only do it because I'm in a long term relationship!

 

[CobraLover]

Hard to find a guy to do it with that's safe, but when I do, it's the natural feeling, moreso when on top than on bottom.