bgmomentcaptured

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What can’t you stand at all about your partner? I don’t think that it makes that much of a difference whether you’re just dating someone or if you’re married. But that’s one of the reasons that I just stated that because that’s just my point of view. For other people it may be different.

One thing that people always have said to me is that I spend too much time in the shower/in the bathroom. Some people might have a problem with that in a relationship. Something such as this can be a problem if you’re trying to clean yourself up too, especially if you’re on your way to work. But would that still be a problem if you don’t have to clean up, you don’t have to use the bathroom and you don’t have to go to work or some type of event? Does that seem like neglect to you? Would you feel irrelevant in a relationship because your partner was always showering to relax and relieve stress? I’m just stating the petty problems. I’m talking about the things that YOU KNOW ARE NOT GOING TO CHANGE ANYTIME SOON! Sometimes our friends and family are not enough to ask for advice about issues like this that we’ve already tried to address as much as we understand won’t change.

That’s why I’m setting things up for everyone including myself to see if we can all learn something from each other. A lot of people that are the closest to us don’t have much advice to offer. If you’re one of those few people that never have friends and family to offer anything positive or helpful to say or share that just may always be you helping everyone else. This safe space is something I’m hoping will answer questions for myself and others. Let’s just talk about it….
 
For the sake of discussion I suppose exes count as well.

Unreliability and overpromising. Saying he'd be there and then you get his absence and you have to do last-moment-magic.

Not accepting "outside" help (from family). "I can do it" but he didn't because he "didn't have time". If I asked family to help, I'd be in trouble.

This one I'm probably guilty of myself too, inadequate communication or not communicating in a timely fashion. I don't need his reasons years after the fact. Or in my case, I should have better communicated my expectations, I suppose.

There were other issues, but these are what started the downfall of "us" as a couple.
 
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For the sake of discussion I suppose exes count as well.

Unreliability and overpromising. Saying he'd be there and then you get his absence and you have to do last-moment-magic.

Not accepting "outside" help (from family). "I can do it" but he didn't because he "didn't have time". If I asked family to help, I'd be in trouble.

This one I'm probably guilty of myself too, inadequate communication or not communicating in a timely fashion. I don't need his reasons years after the fact. Or in my case, I should have better communicated my expectations, I suppose.

There were other issues, but these are what started the downfall of "us" as a couple.

Wow! That’s a lot on your part to say that you should have communicated better. It takes a really strong woman to say that. There’s always something we can learn from a past relationship. Sometimes you just have to disregard us as men that don’t care for help from anyone if that’s possible. Easier said than done.
 
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My partner hogs the Nintendo switch.

Then I break out my joystick. And she'll put down the controller. That girl likes getting dicked more than anything else....LOL.
 
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The sex. He's a really great guy, I love him, he loves me deeply and we're about to get married. But the sex is ... mediocre. I think, he's sexy, but the sex is really slow and if I put more passion in my kissing or my touching, he says I shouldn't be so rough, even though wouldn't call that rough at all. And he is not a good kisser. It really bothers me, but everything else about him makes me happy.
 
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It may sound harsh, but Europeans are people of clear words. Dishonesty, unreliability, drama queen behavior, or the behavior of an attention-seeker are not acceptable. There's nothing more inauthentic than a man who behaves like a hysterical little girl in puberty... and that includes walking around like a puta diavolo... and what's absolutely unacceptable is a person without etiquette, good manners, and social incompetence; a complete no-go.
If I love someone that means very strong, authentic, with integrity, responsibility, completely loyal and unshakable in every situation that live may confront us.
I am a Leo and I want to be proud of my partner and not feel offended by his prepubescent behavior.
 
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