What is sex like?

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Hi everyone my name is Dylan ^_^ I recently turned 18, and I’m from NY :)

I’m a virgin and genuinely curious about sex… I’ve never done anything with anyone. I crave it so much but I havent had the chance to do anything… some guys at school try to hook up but idk they’re just vulgar.

How does sex feel like?
 
Well it's not like porn. Porn is something you watch but you don't watch yourself having sex with someone. It's the difference between watching someone play music and playing it yourself--a completely different experience.

In terms of sexual stimulation you already know how it feels when you masturbate. Sex is the same except you're mutually stimulating each other. You're not flying solo anymore.

I think you're going to like it. :cool:
 
Well it's not like porn. Porn is something you watch but you don't watch yourself having sex with someone. It's the difference between watching someone play music and playing it yourself--a completely different experience.

In terms of sexual stimulation you already know how it feels when you masturbate. Sex is the same except you're mutually stimulating each other. You're not flying solo anymore.

I think you're going to like it. :cool:
Wow that sounds super exciting 😅 I hope one day I can experience something beautiful 🥲 I swear all the guys at school are idiots
 
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I think the biggest issue with a lot of guys these days is they watch porn and think they have to be 7 inches or bigger and think all that happens in porn.. they have to do.. these guys are paid to do what they are told to do..
So they get out here thinking they have to do what happens in porn.. straight and gay ..
 
Hi everyone my name is Dylan ^_^ I recently turned 18, and I’m from NY :)

I’m a virgin and genuinely curious about sex… I’ve never done anything with anyone. I crave it so much but I havent had the chance to do anything… some guys at school try to hook up but idk they’re just vulgar.

How does sex feel like?
First, ignore the guys at school. Most of them are full of shit. And those who are getting any kind of sex from someone else likely are awful at it. Maybe they're getting off, but many of their partners aren't.

As for your main question, nothing we tell you will really answer that question. It would be like a blind person asking you what "purple" looks like. Some things can't be translated into words adequately if you haven't experienced them.

Sex can be amazing, it can make you nervous, it can be deeply pleasurable, and it can be disappointing... and so much more. I can tell you that what was said by another person here about porn, dick sizes, etc., is right. I've been with a pretty good number of people at this point in my life--some had huge dicks and weren't very skillful, while others had smaller dicks and were amazing in bed. It truly is what you do with it.

When you get with someone else, it's going to be the most exciting thing you ever did. Be honest with him or her. Tell them if you're not sure what to do. And ask questions like, "does that feel good?" Listen to their reactions--when you do something and they moan in pleasure, do more of that. Focus on the person you're with and their pleasure, and then your pleasure will follow. If they're feeling good, you'll feel good and they'll be happy to reciprocate.

Sex can be absolutely amazing, but don't be like those vulgar guys you see at school. Be yourself and be caring to your partners!
 
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I agree it’s not like porn.. and that’s what gets me in a way tickled at guys that watch porn but then again it’s kind of upsets me that they try to compare a porn to real life sex..


I known couple guys never had sex before because they see these hung guys in porn and then see themselves and they aren’t so big.. so they get in their head that they aren’t big enough to satisfy someone..


Sex can be just a quick kiss make out get naked suck n fuck thing like in porn. Or even if I am with someone sexually ( for complete sex not just giving blowjobs at a gloryhole) .. I like to take time and enjoy what he has to offer from head to toe
 
Sex can be the best experience of your life and be so amazing you're speechless but it doesn't just happen out of nowhere like porn. It takes a lot of work and the right person. There will be bad sex no doubt along the way
 
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