I’m top and always have been and never actually been interested at all in bottoming. But always intrigued what makes guys want to bottom, and how did you know it would be sexually gratifying.
What made you bottom
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Like many guys, I started out topping, which was fun. When I was 21 and just out of college, I met guy and after a couple of dates, went back to his place. We started kissing, when I felt his hand on my ass, rubbing up and down over my crack; it was exciting because I had never experienced it before. Eventually, he had my pants off and asked me if he could fuck me. I was so turned on I said," Yes." That changed my life. I had never experienced pleasure like that before. After that, I was hooked and wanted to feel that sensation again and again. There are a couple of reasons why I turned to exclusive bottoming: The feeling of the prostate rub and the electric feeling going through my body when the top hits it just right; bottoms know exactly what I am talking about. The second reason is the feeling of giving myself totally to the other person and not being in charge. My jobs have always been ones in which I had to make decisions and be responsible for others. Bottoming lets me just enjoy the sensation and surrender to what the other person wants. It's a feeling of submissiveness that I enjoy. Two men engaging in intercourse is the most intimate thing they can do; a part of one person inserted into the body of another, giving pleasure to both until the moment of ultimate vulnerability - the orgasm. So, although I did not know what the feeling would be at the moment I consented to bottoming, I discovered that it gave me extreme pleasure and is my favorite kind of sexual activity.
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Bottoming is part of the all round gay versatile lover. My introduction to gay love and gay sex was mainly hands jobs in furtive corners of mens rooms, but a chance meeting with an older guy who had the patience to guide me through it all showed me the wisdom of being versatile, being able to enjoy both giving taking.,oral delights as well as anal pleasures - and the joys of being in a group where it was an experience finding out who would do what to whom and how.
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Playing with dildos and plugs made me more at ease when getting fucked, allowing me to really enjoy it.
I was a strict top until last year. I met a guy I found very attractive, went on a few dates, exchanged head, and he was...respectfully insistent that I would make a good bottom. I felt submissive in a way I had never had before (largely because he had a significantly bigger cock) so I gave in. It was intense and has definitely made me rethink some things.
I was with a guy who I was strictly a top with, I never even let him go near my ass. I just never considered bottoming an option. I started dating a new guy who told me he doesn’t really bottom, and I told him the same. He was also significantly taller and bigger than me, so topping him felt like a challenge, and I had never bottomed before him, so for the first bit together we didn’t go beyond oral. Until one night we were getting it on, and his hand made its way down my pants, and he started rubbing my hole, over my underwear, with his finger. I’m not lying when I say I came immediately in my pants. So after that I said I wanted him to fuck me. I was a little too eager because we didn’t practice any foreplay and I just went for it and he put it in me and it wasn’t… great. But I was determined to make it feel good, because I thought it has to feel good or else people wouldn’t keep doing it lol. So on the next go we took it slow, did a lot of foreplay, tons of lube, and went for it and my mind was blown. Now I can’t get enough and I’m like 95% bottom. If you’re not ready to get fully fucked, do yourself a favour and get a dildo and try it out on yourself first. You may enjoy it more than you think 
As long as I can remember I was turned on by the thought of a guy fucking me in the ass.
Some people are born to be repositories for semen. It's something I am good at and enjoy.
The simple things in life are often the best.
The simple things in life are often the best.
If I think back, I would say that from a young age I have always been attracted to athletic, masculine, alpha male types.
I would imagine what sex would be like with such a man and that it would involve having him penetrate me. So from that imagination, I acted out anal sex on myself as part of my masturbatory process.
As my skill developed, it gave me more confidence to try it for real which then led to a whole new world of pleasure.
I would imagine what sex would be like with such a man and that it would involve having him penetrate me. So from that imagination, I acted out anal sex on myself as part of my masturbatory process.
As my skill developed, it gave me more confidence to try it for real which then led to a whole new world of pleasure.
I wanted to do everything there was to do with a guy (within reason), and that included taking dick up my ass. I’ve never been interested in particular roles. I don’t crave getting fucked as much as I crave having a man inside my body and vice versa. The physical sensation is definitely secondary for me.
I feel more naturally submissive around older men, especially older white men. So I have been more willing to please.
I guess a lot of it was that I was curious but didn't know what to do/how to interact sexually with a man, so initially it was a case of assuming a passive role and receiving BJs. I was a willing participant and initially kept coming back because it felt really good but I was curious and progressed to rimming and anal sex. I liked the feeling of lying on my back being fucked while he kissed me and right away realised why my GF liked that so much.
I met Mister Top Only Eight inches during a foursome many years ago. Much later I met him by chance and we had a coffee together. He informed me that he and his partner split and after that he turned to totally Bottom
shame because I liked his big cock.The thought of taking dick in the ass is one of the very first sexual fantasies I ever had. I remember all the things I used to use as a dildo until I was able to actually get one, and before I could ever get the real thing. I remember one time one of my older brother’s friends took a shower at our house. He walked from the bathroom to the hallway in his tighty whities, and I saw his huge bulge. I immediately went into my room and jerked off to the thought of him fucking me in the ass. Somehow he knew. My room was right next to my brother’s. He came over, opened the door and came in, interrupting me. He smiled, and said, “I know what you’re thinking about,” and grabbed his bulge, while biting his lip. He said, “don’t worry, it’s OK. Your secret is safe with me,” and he turned and walked out, closing my door behind him. Seeking him like that pushed me over the top. I busted almost immediately after he left. I knew then that that was exactly what I wanted! Too bad I never got to see his cock or have it, but I still think of him in those tighty whities. Yum!
Did you have any contact since? Maybe at a dinner or ? What happened??
Sounds like he wanted it too or just recognised it in you and was fine with that but went no further - which is kind of sweet as he could have made your life hell ??
I mean, nothing really happened after that. He was a close friend of my brother, so he was around a lot. Dinner was like normal that night. He definitely was OK either way it, he would always wink at me. I think he was just too afraid to pursue it in any way. I wish he did, but he would have had to be the one. I’m sure he was worried about all the possible repercussions…age differences and my brother or parents finding out. He’s definitely mostly straight, because he married a woman. That was the only time we were in a situation where I saw him in his undies and when he caught me jerking off. I think if he could have, that evening he would have done whatever we would have had time for.
No. Ten years between my brother (and his friend) and me…So, I didn’t have any connection to him…
For me, my first ever 'anal' sensations came from a blowjob with my then girlfriend. I was lying on the bed and she was sucking my cock, and then she started touching and rubbing my hole with her finger. I'd never, ever let anyone touch my hole before and never had the inclination. But it felt so intense that I ejaculated within moments. After that, I wanted to feel it again and again. Eventually, we progressed to her inserting a finger, then pegging me with a strapon. That was when I discovered the pleasure of the prostate, and I wanted anal more and more. It was partly the submissive feeling, but more the intense pleasure - I'd never experienced anything like that with my cock. I completely lost interest in any vaginal sex, and unbeknown to me at the time, it was my gay awakening.
I'm now a gay man, and nothing excites me more than the thought of my boyfriend slipping his cock inside me.
I'm now a gay man, and nothing excites me more than the thought of my boyfriend slipping his cock inside me.
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