What made you bottom

[Tvcelebjoe]

I’m top and always have been and never actually been interested at all in bottoming. But always intrigued what makes guys want to bottom, and how did you know it would be sexually gratifying.

 

[Braunlow]

Like many guys, I started out topping, which was fun. When I was 21 and just out of college, I met guy and after a couple of dates, went back to his place. We started kissing, when I felt his hand on my ass, rubbing up and down over my crack; it was exciting because I had never experienced it before. Eventually, he had my pants off and asked me if he could fuck me. I was so turned on I said," Yes." That changed my life. I had never experienced pleasure like that before. After that, I was hooked and wanted to feel that sensation again and again. There are a couple of reasons why I turned to exclusive bottoming: The feeling of the prostate rub and the electric feeling going through my body when the top hits it just right; bottoms know exactly what I am talking about. The second reason is the feeling of giving myself totally to the other person and not being in charge. My jobs have always been ones in which I had to make decisions and be responsible for others. Bottoming lets me just enjoy the sensation and surrender to what the other person wants. It's a feeling of submissiveness that I enjoy. Two men engaging in intercourse is the most intimate thing they can do; a part of one person inserted into the body of another, giving pleasure to both until the moment of ultimate vulnerability - the orgasm. So, although I did not know what the feeling would be at the moment I consented to bottoming, I discovered that it gave me extreme pleasure and is my favorite kind of sexual activity.

 

[chrisrobin]

Bottoming is part of the all round gay versatile lover. My introduction to gay love and gay sex was mainly hands jobs in furtive corners of mens rooms, but a chance meeting with an older guy who had the patience to guide me through it all showed me the wisdom of being versatile, being able to enjoy both giving taking.,oral delights as well as anal pleasures - and the joys of being in a group where it was an experience finding out who would do what to whom and how.

 

[kyle2457]

Playing with dildos and plugs made me more at ease when getting fucked, allowing me to really enjoy it.

 

[HungBtmVegas]

The first guy I ever fell in love with and lost my virginity to was a strict top and all I wanted to do was satisfy him, so I never developed a sexual identity based on anything other than being a submissive bottom.

 

[eafvw]

I was a strict top until last year. I met a guy I found very attractive, went on a few dates, exchanged head, and he was...respectfully insistent that I would make a good bottom. I felt submissive in a way I had never had before (largely because he had a significantly bigger cock) so I gave in. It was intense and has definitely made me rethink some things.

 

[canadian_guy486]

I was with a guy who I was strictly a top with, I never even let him go near my ass. I just never considered bottoming an option. I started dating a new guy who told me he doesn’t really bottom, and I told him the same. He was also significantly taller and bigger than me, so topping him felt like a challenge, and I had never bottomed before him, so for the first bit together we didn’t go beyond oral. Until one night we were getting it on, and his hand made its way down my pants, and he started rubbing my hole, over my underwear, with his finger. I’m not lying when I say I came immediately in my pants. So after that I said I wanted him to fuck me. I was a little too eager because we didn’t practice any foreplay and I just went for it and he put it in me and it wasn’t… great. But I was determined to make it feel good, because I thought it has to feel good or else people wouldn’t keep doing it lol. So on the next go we took it slow, did a lot of foreplay, tons of lube, and went for it and my mind was blown. Now I can’t get enough and I’m like 95% bottom. If you’re not ready to get fully fucked, do yourself a favour and get a dildo and try it out on yourself first. You may enjoy it more than you think

 

[just rodger]

As long as I can remember I was turned on by the thought of a guy fucking me in the ass.

 

[Brodie888]

Some people are born to be repositories for semen. It's something I am good at and enjoy.

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