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What Made You Realise You Were Bi Rather Than Just Bi Curious Or Straight?
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I realized I’m Bi when I started noticing guys just as much as women. Wasn’t always like this and I fought myself for years before I became comfortable with myself.
but at what age? For me, I admitted to myself when I was 22 that I was bi and that made me more at peace with myself. As I'd mentioned in one of my earlier posts, growing up I knew I liked girls, but there came a point where I started to realize that my gaze also went towards the same sex. I couldn't understand why I was attracted to both - back then (I'm talking early to mid '80s), this just wasn't explained by those who were older. For me, mentally, it was like there was a tug of war - the "gay" side was trying to pull me off the wall and then on the other side, you had the "straight" side trying to pull me off the wall. I know that sounds a bit silly, but that's how I had to process it. Again, being young there are certain things you're just not mentally capable of understanding. Anyways, I became much happier with myself after that.
for me was around my mid twenties. Up until then I’d fantasize with guys but couldn’t bring myself to admit.
Hey guys, glad you are able to accept your bi side nowadays.
Again it's worth to mention that during this time there were no forums, chatrooms or similar to exchange with like minded guys.
I often think it would have been easier for me as well if I would have known or talked to other bi guys at that stage...
Again it's worth to mention that during this time there were no forums, chatrooms or similar to exchange with like minded guys.
I often think it would have been easier for me as well if I would have known or talked to other bi guys at that stage...
I didn’t have any of the support we have nowadays. Makes a big difference and helps a lot. If there were, I’d probably be out and a lot of weight off my shoulder. Lol
I do think you are right there. This site has helped to really enjoy the idea of dicks and bisexuality....and shaving smooth!
Late 20s when a married bud and I were out fishing. We had been friends for 10 years. We got back home..jumped in the pool naked had some beers. We both got hard while chatting which led to me grabbing his cock and then he grabbed mine for starters.
Yes I popped his cherry. Hottest sex ever..raw, passion and best orgasm
When I was too young to mention (TOS) on LPSG.
But I was ashamed and didn't admit it to myself until I was 21. No one knows now either, except a handful of strangers on here and my wife.
But I was ashamed and didn't admit it to myself until I was 21. No one knows now either, except a handful of strangers on here and my wife.
I lucked out and got a woman who was understanding.
For me i discovered porn at quite a young age, straight porn. I then remember accidently stumbling on some guy sucking another guy's dick. I was between 11-13 and i remember it feeling taboo.
I just continued watching gay porn throughout my teens and early 20s not giving much thought. I knew that it meant i was gay but i didnt care. I still occasionally watched straight and even lesbian porn (which i found particularly hot). Despite jacking off to gay porn i only ever had romantic feelings towards women. If i saw a fit guy in the streets my thoughts would be "damn i wish i was him" etc rather than "i want him to fuck me".
I also tried to experiment with anal but it really turned me off. With all this going on i thought i was just a closeted gay guy and that was it. I then kinda fell in love with this one girl, it didnt work. I realised i only ever had female crushes or feelings towards womene and then i tried watching more lesbian and straight porn on top of the gay stuff and i realised i was also super turned on by it all. I sometimes fantasised about women and then men, and thats when i realised i was bi. Sometimes more towards men, sometimes towards women.
I still am in the closet regarding my bi side or the fact that i find men dicks hot. But i dont mind it. I can still live (50%) honestly as a fake straight man (i have a very cinservative religious family who i love; plus the girls ivr been with would not have embraced the other side of me :/) and you know the embracing of bisexuality culturally in recent years is a god send for me.
I dont agree everything is binary or black and white. We are all on some spectrum.
I just continued watching gay porn throughout my teens and early 20s not giving much thought. I knew that it meant i was gay but i didnt care. I still occasionally watched straight and even lesbian porn (which i found particularly hot). Despite jacking off to gay porn i only ever had romantic feelings towards women. If i saw a fit guy in the streets my thoughts would be "damn i wish i was him" etc rather than "i want him to fuck me".
I also tried to experiment with anal but it really turned me off. With all this going on i thought i was just a closeted gay guy and that was it. I then kinda fell in love with this one girl, it didnt work. I realised i only ever had female crushes or feelings towards womene and then i tried watching more lesbian and straight porn on top of the gay stuff and i realised i was also super turned on by it all. I sometimes fantasised about women and then men, and thats when i realised i was bi. Sometimes more towards men, sometimes towards women.
I still am in the closet regarding my bi side or the fact that i find men dicks hot. But i dont mind it. I can still live (50%) honestly as a fake straight man (i have a very cinservative religious family who i love; plus the girls ivr been with would not have embraced the other side of me :/) and you know the embracing of bisexuality culturally in recent years is a god send for me.
I dont agree everything is binary or black and white. We are all on some spectrum.
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