What makes a good top a GREAT top?

[chrisrobin]

Patience

 

[deleted1058283]

For me what makes a good top great is when he not only can hit my spot but when he is completely dominate and aggressive and totally takes control and doesn't hold back and uses me as his little cum hungry slut sub bottom pussy bitch boy.

 

[s18865]

Guess it depends on the bottom. For me a great top is one that takes full control and uses me in whatever way he likes. It's a huge difference if a guy "plays" dominant or if he has it in his blood. A bit of sadism also doesn't hurt - like when the bottom can barely take the pounding and the top stops and pushes down as deep as possible while putting his hand over the bottom's mouth to shut him up.

 

[Beanie]

Get in my sling and I'll show ya.....

Address?

 

[Beanie]

Guess it depends on the bottom. For me a great top is one that takes full control and uses me in whatever way he likes. It's a huge difference if a guy "plays" dominant or if he has it in his blood. A bit of sadism also doesn't hurt - like when the bottom can barely take the pounding and the top stops and pushes down as deep as possible while putting his hand over the bottom's mouth to shut him up.

Yeah that’s not me...

 

[Beanie]

Speak for yourself! I love it when my man keeps on penetrating me with the head of his cock! :biggrin1:

I agree!

 

[Beanie]

A great top for me is a perfect synergy between top and bottom, probably to do with my vers nature. My perfect top is not a complete dominator but someone who has control, he knows what he wants and knows what he’s doing that turns me on! I don’t find the value in a top who just wants to dominate you, sex is a two way street

 

[Gabriel_Angel]

I hear communication, lets not forget trash talk. Especially if that dick is big and he has to coax you to take it in step by step.

SHHhhhhh..Whisper.

EEEeeeeesy does.....iiitttt.....SHhhhhhhh... Daddy's gonna' make you feel REAL good...Arch your back..Open your legs a little wider......It's almost all in.

Let him close the deal like a stockbroker.

Talk to me. Tell why I want it the more it hurts..

This one is SO IMPORTANT!!

 

[N68]

This one is SO IMPORTANT!!

Well hell, you gotta' figure..... as he's sliding the sausage in, he's gotta' sweeten the pot.

Now there are occasions when you want him to talk rough/ aggressive. Especially when he's going to pound town.

Don't know if I should advertise my weakness.

But it does something to me when he has to talk shittin that subdued voice.

Especially for those big dicked M0F0s.

You both know the goal is for him not to leave without getting a nut.

He has to sharpen his psychological prowess to convince you he "NEEDS" to put that big schlong down your mancave.

If he's hanging pretty low, you're gonna' want him to talk you through that painful shit as he slow walks that bad boy in there.

If not you have to pretend it keeps slipping out cuz you want him to stop or slow down..lol..

 

[Gabriel_Angel]

Now there are occasions when you want him to talk rough/ aggressive. Especially when he's going to pound town.

PREACH!!!! I SO WANNA SHOUT THIS WORD, AND SO LOUDLY!!!!

 

[N68]

Some definitely are deeper than others. And some are so tight even when you hit it, it doesn't open up. I am surprised you couldn't feel it when he popped in. All the guys I have been with definitely said something when I popped through.

I am pretty sure that he did indeed "love your ass". It doesn't happen that often for me at least. Most guys just can't get it to go through

You should be giving lessons with that beauty,

Seriously. If any bottom can be coaxed into taking, "ALL OF YOU" in, they're a champ.

 

[doc465]

passion with which he fucks the bottom

 

[Gj816]

What makes me a great top? You'll have to find that our for yourself. Lol. But I'm muscular,masculine, athletic, and know how to use my tool. Chemistry is a big part of the equation.

 

[kelvinza]

passionate and know how to top

 

[Gabriel_Angel]

What makes me a great top? You'll have to find that our for yourself. Lol. But I'm muscular,masculine, athletic, and know how to use my tool. Chemistry is a big part of the equation.

Absolutely right!!! Chemistry is absolutely important!!!!

 

[N68]

Good strokes and stroking motions.

To pull from @AG08,'s post about being an ass guy surrounded by hot guys with no ass , and it's like, what's the use?

Same as with hot guys/ or hot guys with big dicks.

You go through all the efforts of having that monster shoved inside you> you start getting your grove on, all of a sudden> it's like being in bed with a washing machine.

He's only got 2 strokes going for him /up & down. He never heard of a curve unless he was watching baseball. And you're saying to yourself, is this it!??!

On the other hand, regardless of how big or just right the dick size is, just when those strokes start grooving in you, you know it!! You say to yourself, I'm in for a bumpy ride.

A GOOD TOP, marks his territory, lets you KNOW he was there.

Regardless of how long it's been between sex, he'll love the fact that’s it’s always tight. And he'll have to work his shit in like an old baseball mitt, or pair of shoes. = Custom fit it for comfort..

 

[deleted1074483]

what makes me a good top (modesty aside) is that I am passionate, I care for and respect my bottom guy, if a guy is very clean I can make him cum without touching his dick but with just my tongue in his ass after which he's usually begged me to fuck him. Then its different strokes, different angles, different speeds, making sure you are hearing and reading your guy as to what he's enjoying.

 

[bdirty1]

A great big dick

 

[SpreadMeWideOpen]

For me size is nice but it’s far from everything. My top needs to be passionate and a great kisser. I have met so many guys who have no idea how to kiss. I like my tops to take control. Not in an abusive manner but he’s dictating the action and getting me riled up into a sexual frenzy. And when it comes to fucking variety is the spice of life. I love to be fucked in lots of different positions. And I hate quickies. Long sessions where we are constantly changing it up. And I like to be able to make my top cum more than once. So stamina is also important. An average sized cock can be perfect if everything else is there. And a large long cock makes it even better. But a big cock without the rest of it is just not as hot or as much fun. He has to know how to use it. And if he holds me down at the same time, even better.

 

[Gabriel_Angel]

For me size is nice but it’s far from everything. My top needs to be passionate and a great kisser. I have met so many guys who have no idea how to kiss. I like my tops to take control. Not in an abusive manner but he’s dictating the action and getting me riled up into a sexual frenzy. And when it comes to fucking variety is the spice of life. I love to be fucked in lots of different positions. And I hate quickies. Long sessions where we are constantly changing it up. And I like to be able to make my top cum more than once. So stamina is also important. An average sized cock can be perfect if everything else is there. And a large long cock makes it even better. But a big cock without the rest of it is just not as hot or as much fun. He has to know how to use it. And if he holds me down at the same time, even better.

*hands up in the air* PREACH!!!