What opened your bi side?

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Very horny guy with a very vanilla wife. Sex was always few and far between not mention very monotonous and boring. You can only missionary so often. She has little imagination or libido. Over the years I had many guys hit on me and I got my share of blow jobs and hand jobs men. Finally after 30 years of flustration I decided I wasn't going to my grave with regrets. Told the wife to shape up or I would find satisfaction elsewhere. She improved but too little too late. I figured from experience I could be satisfied from men because women were too difficult to come by and that guys only want to get off with no emotional bonding.
I agree that men are easily to cum by and without the emotional bond when you don’t want it. With men, I want to be used, treated like their toy and then told to leave. I’m not looking to cuddle. I’m simply that slutty guy who is at your beck and call to satisfy your needs!
 

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I was watching porn and seeing those huge dicks i thought mine was big so I went on the internet and meet up with a guy sayin he would compare dicks but the shorter one had to give the other a bj. so I was feelin confident but once we met up both dropped our pants we were the same size soft but he grow way bigger than me. I'm 6 foot 4 he was 5 foot 8 we got hard he smiled and said lets go loser get to suckin and from then on I was hooked on guys shorter than me with bigger dicks
 

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I agree that men are easily to cum by and without the emotional bond when you don’t want it. With men, I want to be used, treated like their toy and then told to leave. I’m not looking to cuddle. I’m simply that slutty guy who is at your beck and call to satisfy your needs!
my kinda guy
 
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Hear, hear! If I could travel back in time, I would tell my younger self to do precisely that-- to absorb and accept the truth (about my sexual orientation-- my bisexuality) and avoid so much pain. The problem is my younger self was a judgy, close-minded guy who desperately wanted to fit in and be 'normal'. It did not help that I had a low self-esteem and was the target of homophobic comments.

I really didn't start having any sexual thoughts about other guys till I was 19. From there it went from a passing thought to something I fantasized about more and more. Eventually, I found myself not only fantasizing about having sex with men, but fucking myself with a dildo and cumming in my mouth. Even then... I tried to pretend to myself that it was a passing interest and I was totally straight. I finally hooked up with a guy till I was 25 (a little over two years ago) and for the next six months I only had sex with guys. For awhile, I was convinced I had turned completely gay. Eventually, my interest in women made itself known again, and I finally accepted myself as bi. Frankly, if I had just absorbed that truth when I was 19 or 20, I could have dodged a wild personal roller coaster.
 

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and that guys only want to get off with no emotional bonding.

I agree that men are easily to cum by and without the emotional bond when you don’t want it. With men, I want to be used, treated like their toy and then told to leave. I’m not looking to cuddle.

When I was younger, this is what I enjoyed most about being with a much older man who was my neighbour.

It was purely raw, natural, mutally enjoyable, uninhibited sex.

Whenever I had the urge he was literally and fortunately always avaialble, neither I nor him had the any urges for any emotional bond. Once he had cummed, he would give a gentle kiss on my lips and cupped my arse as I was leaving. lol.
 

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A gay friend offered me a blowjob,but I resisted and did not accept for the first time.

When I accepted, I liked it, and I sucked him too.

I wouldn't accept being bisexual, even though I always had my mouth full of water when I saw a cock in porn.
 

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When I was younger I was attracted to guys and girls but guys more, then once I joined the army I hooked up with a buddy in the barracks.after that I was hooked.
My first mfm 3 some was with a buddy and his girlfriend.
Now I belong to a swingers group and do it whenever I can
 

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I was born in the UK. We lived in London until I was twelve. In the last year or two I was there, one of my friends or I would occasionally get our hands on a girly magazine, which was always passed around and enjoyed. When I was twelve, we moved to the American Midwest in a fairly rural area. The culture shock was intense, but that's not important here.

There were only two schools: elementary school (K-6) and high school (7-12). In physed, classes were lumped together 7-9 or 10-12. We all used the locker room at the same time, however, so that was the first time I saw naked adult males. Seeing some of those big strapping farm lads of seventeen or eighteen, muscular and hairy with adult-size cocks, was an amazing thing for me. That's when I realized I liked both girls and boys. As an adult, I've been more gay than bi and have been in a long-term relationship with a man for a decade, but I still like women, too. My partner is the same way, and on occasion we hook up together with a woman. (Sadly, not lately because of Covid.)
 

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When I started high school was the first time I saw and got naked around other guys my age. I developed early and had a pretty large cock my freshman year. I was extremely self-conscious in the showers and got a few comments about my size. After hearing these comments, it was a real struggle not to get a huge hardon in the showers. I came out of the showers semi-hard more than a few times. Somehow word had gotten out about my size and an older man from the area who managed a hotel, came up to me at a local hangout. He said he’d heard about how big my cock was for my age and propositioned to suck me off $$. I was extremely nervous, but very thrilled at the possibility. After a bit of convincing, I went with him in his car to a rest stop nearby. He asked me if I liked looking at porn and I replied that I hadn’t seen a lot. He handed me a few straight and bi magazines to look thru. All of the guys in the pictures had huge cocks. And the women all had perfect huge tits. I was throbbing! Just as my cock started bulging in my jeans, he reached over and unzipped my pants and pulled my cock out. It was hard as a rock! He liked stroking it and asked if I’d like him to suck it. What could I say?! That was my very first blow job. He never showed me his cock, so we never went there, but he told me that he had a lot of guests to his hotel that would love to get their hands (and mouths) on a young cock my size. I started meeting his friends at rooms at his hotel after that and got the attention of milfs and hung guys that loved single and group action. It was also where I found and sucked my first huge (or any sized) cock. Ever since, I’ve loved both huge cocks and huge tits. I love sharing and playing with both :)
 

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My first mm encounter was circumstantial ............. and continued from there. Now classifying myself as 50 / 50 my gay encounters started young but I still didn't consider myself bi or gay for a few years; that was because I do not have emotional connections with men, just women.

I have no regrets enjoying discreet physical sex with other men. I never had a mm encounter that I can remember that was going to lead to an emotional connection.

A lot of my fantasies while having hetero sex were thinking of other men I was physically attracted to enjoying mf sex. I have had a good hetero sex life; let's call the mm experiences a "booster".

I think porn on the internet has helped many men benefit from both sides of sexual experiences. Born too soon I think.
 

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My first mm encounter was circumstantial ............. and continued from there. Now classifying myself as 50 / 50 my gay encounters started young but I still didn't consider myself bi or gay for a few years; that was because I do not have emotional connections with men, just women.

I have no regrets enjoying discreet physical sex with other men. I never had a mm encounter that I can remember that was going to lead to an emotional connection.

A lot of my fantasies while having hetero sex were thinking of other men I was physically attracted to enjoying mf sex. I have had a good hetero sex life; let's call the mm experiences a "booster".

I think porn on the internet has helped many men benefit from both sides of sexual experiences. Born too soon I think.
Great answer. I feel the same.
 

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I always identified myself as a gay man, since I was at a very younger age.

My breakup with my BF in 2007 (I was 22 or 23 years old at that time) left me terribly hurt I did not plan on seeing any man afterwards and I took the chance to focus clearly on my education and job; I did not want any distractions.

By the year 2009 (and I really did not date any man all that time, although I still knew I had feelings for men), in the gym I met this pretty girl with whom I became friends and I used to help her in her classwork (she was studying something similar to what I had studied).

Anyway, many many months later I found myself sexually attracted to her.

This is a very brief of how it happened with me, but I might share my life story with details because there is just so much more to why exactly my sexual feelings took that turn.
 

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As a teenager playing rugby and found myself getting more and more interested in what other guys were packing. I always did pretty well with the ladies and had more sex with them than a lot of my teammates but still found myself interested in dick. I tried to initiate some stuff with guys with some porn as the bait but it never happened. I had one friend who was interested and we started playing around but nothing serious, that was kind of it for me and from there on I knew I liked guys as well as girls.