Hey! 21 y.o bisexual man here. What things do you learn about yourself, either it be sexual or physically, with the body related to sex do you learn about yourself as a mature man beyond your 30s?
What things sexual/physical do you learn about yourself as a 40+ man
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Im 49
I’m more bisexual the older I get.
I’m more into older women.
I’m more bisexual the older I get.
I’m more into older women.
That having a really good nap can be even better than really good sex. 
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It seems like my orgasms haven’t gotten more intense as I’ve gotten older, and they also create less of a mess which I am definitely thankful for.
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That I get off even more seeing my partner get off. That I have a much wider range of age, gender, and body types for sexual attraction than when I was young.
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I agree with @WillaimG. The older I get, the more I love getting my partner off. I have become a total man pleaser and absolutely get into pleasing men totally. Also, even though a big dick is always a plus, size don't matter as much as it used to, it's damn fine sex and giving a guy a mind-blowing nut, large or smaller dick. Good intense sex is worth a lot more than dick size.
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Age is just a number and use or you will lose it.
It's all about maintenance of the figurative temple, that determines the difference between a historic but unusable ruin, and a functional tourist location. The foundation of how your sexual life functions past 30+ is the sum of your life choices in your late teens and 20s.
Just turned forty in December.
1. I don’t need to cum every day, anymore. Or multiple times a day, just to get through the day.
2. I can still edge this beautiful cock for hours and hours. Endurance is there if the content is.
3. It is not rocket science but when you spent your 20’s and 30’s jacking off all the damn time, I was concerned about my weak load. I just need to give my old body time to build up and edge and I can cum quite decently (for someone with huge balls, my week load always drove me crazy.)
4. I am pretty much fucked up and porn dependent. Random erections just do not happen and have not happened in a long, long time. Which is not a bad thing.
1. I don’t need to cum every day, anymore. Or multiple times a day, just to get through the day.
2. I can still edge this beautiful cock for hours and hours. Endurance is there if the content is.
3. It is not rocket science but when you spent your 20’s and 30’s jacking off all the damn time, I was concerned about my weak load. I just need to give my old body time to build up and edge and I can cum quite decently (for someone with huge balls, my week load always drove me crazy.)
4. I am pretty much fucked up and porn dependent. Random erections just do not happen and have not happened in a long, long time. Which is not a bad thing.
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Honestly, I am less picky about partners.
I have also learned virgins and inexperienced are too much work. They cannot handle girth the first time. My regular FWB is looser but at least he can take it all and enjoys riding or sucking for long time.
I have also learned virgins and inexperienced are too much work. They cannot handle girth the first time. My regular FWB is looser but at least he can take it all and enjoys riding or sucking for long time.
I'll be 49 this year.
My attraction for my wife grows more every year.
Sex is more exciting and more valuable to and in my life as each month passes.
There are women in their later 50s and 60s I'd rather fuck than girls in their 20s. (That said, what I mean by that is when I look at older women, I can see what they'd look like and how they'd act during sex and especially while having an orgasm; there's a commitment I can sense from looking at them that tells me they will be fully engaged in the act of sex, and taking cock, and giving their pussy to that cock, and that they will be 200% invested in their orgasm and the quality of that orgasm...while girls in their 20s look to me like they will flounder around, expect to be choked, spit on, slapped, and abused verbally, all while wondering if sex is really as good as they've heard, and their petty pinkie-sized minuscule orgasm leaves them wondering if that's as good as it'll ever be because they're going to be 30 someday soon and "old" and "life is over" so they better ask for more choking next time they "fuck hard".)
I love my cock more and more every year. It works perfectly. I get hard so easily, no difference between the 48, 38, 28, or 18 year-old me. I savor the nuances of sexual stimulation more than ever now. I am grateful for every pinch, grab, clench, hold, touch, stroke, pump, and jerk my wife applies to my cock in any state of flaccidity or erection it is in at the time.
I cum harder than ever before in my life. I've had hard, extremely gut-wrenching orgasmic ejaculations in the past don't get me wrong. But the last 5 or so years, its been like my soul is extracted from my body through my penis.
I make as much if not sometimes more cum now than when I was younger. I shoot cum as often if not sometimes more often in my 40s than in my 20s. (Well my 30s, that was like my "cannon" phase it shot all the time every time and very far; now it shoots far, just not like my 30s when I was in the gym every day and quite muscular with insane stamina.)
I appreciate self pleasuring myself more now than in years past. I have abandoned porn for getting boners and cumming. I barely look at it but when I do I am clothed and not touching myself; I just like the look of hot women! When alone with myself, I really get into the stimulation and how it feels inside and out. I like the variety and I have more variety with what I can do to myself now than I had available 10 or 20 years ago.
I take more chances now. I suntan nude outside in the backyard with just a little glans covering to protect the precious thing from sun damage. I get hard outside and jerk off a little here and there, just to feel bold and it makes me feel strong, that I have a dependable strong erection, and it works outside in the sun while looking at trees and hearing birds sing. I'm getting erotic massages and my LMT is addicted to my cock, she loves it, and it is exhilarating and exciting to get that kind of attention. I appreciate it more now than if I was younger, for sure.
Lastly, I'm becoming more attuned to my health than normal, which was a lot of time spent on my health, because I want to keep my body firing strong so I can stay hard and fuck for as long as humanly possible. Paying attention to hormones, all of them even thyroid, to make sure my body tone is healthy and my blood flow is powerful. Good reasonable diet, good workout regimen, good sex drive, good sex adventures at home.
My attraction for my wife grows more every year.
Sex is more exciting and more valuable to and in my life as each month passes.
There are women in their later 50s and 60s I'd rather fuck than girls in their 20s. (That said, what I mean by that is when I look at older women, I can see what they'd look like and how they'd act during sex and especially while having an orgasm; there's a commitment I can sense from looking at them that tells me they will be fully engaged in the act of sex, and taking cock, and giving their pussy to that cock, and that they will be 200% invested in their orgasm and the quality of that orgasm...while girls in their 20s look to me like they will flounder around, expect to be choked, spit on, slapped, and abused verbally, all while wondering if sex is really as good as they've heard, and their petty pinkie-sized minuscule orgasm leaves them wondering if that's as good as it'll ever be because they're going to be 30 someday soon and "old" and "life is over" so they better ask for more choking next time they "fuck hard".)
I love my cock more and more every year. It works perfectly. I get hard so easily, no difference between the 48, 38, 28, or 18 year-old me. I savor the nuances of sexual stimulation more than ever now. I am grateful for every pinch, grab, clench, hold, touch, stroke, pump, and jerk my wife applies to my cock in any state of flaccidity or erection it is in at the time.
I cum harder than ever before in my life. I've had hard, extremely gut-wrenching orgasmic ejaculations in the past don't get me wrong. But the last 5 or so years, its been like my soul is extracted from my body through my penis.
I make as much if not sometimes more cum now than when I was younger. I shoot cum as often if not sometimes more often in my 40s than in my 20s. (Well my 30s, that was like my "cannon" phase it shot all the time every time and very far; now it shoots far, just not like my 30s when I was in the gym every day and quite muscular with insane stamina.)
I appreciate self pleasuring myself more now than in years past. I have abandoned porn for getting boners and cumming. I barely look at it but when I do I am clothed and not touching myself; I just like the look of hot women! When alone with myself, I really get into the stimulation and how it feels inside and out. I like the variety and I have more variety with what I can do to myself now than I had available 10 or 20 years ago.
I take more chances now. I suntan nude outside in the backyard with just a little glans covering to protect the precious thing from sun damage. I get hard outside and jerk off a little here and there, just to feel bold and it makes me feel strong, that I have a dependable strong erection, and it works outside in the sun while looking at trees and hearing birds sing. I'm getting erotic massages and my LMT is addicted to my cock, she loves it, and it is exhilarating and exciting to get that kind of attention. I appreciate it more now than if I was younger, for sure.
Lastly, I'm becoming more attuned to my health than normal, which was a lot of time spent on my health, because I want to keep my body firing strong so I can stay hard and fuck for as long as humanly possible. Paying attention to hormones, all of them even thyroid, to make sure my body tone is healthy and my blood flow is powerful. Good reasonable diet, good workout regimen, good sex drive, good sex adventures at home.
The phrase "What you used to do all night, now takes you all night to do." rings true and has some value. It doesn't matter how many times you can fuck in one night. Being able to fuck once and make it last the whole night is worth more than the number of times you can get off in a single night. Then, it was about the quantity, but now the quality is worth more.
I've learned to enjoy more and worry less. One of the things that does concern me is the realisation that the older women I learned so much about myself from are now the same age as me. Still lots of fun though...
God. I just turned 40 and hope I learn this lesson FAST! (Anxiety issues)
I haven't noticed any differences. If anything I'm hornier and more bi curious after treating depression.
Congrats on beating depression, brother!
Battling it myself and making headway. Auvelity is a wonder drug. I never really responded to SSRI’s when I was last depressed …22 years ago? So the fact this is a new class of drug is very helpful. Insurance companies seem to be a real bitch about covering it though.
Sorry. Totally off topic.
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