What to do before anal sex?

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A Little Nervous - Need Some Friendly Advice on Anal Prep

Hey everyone,

I know there are tons of threads on this topic, and I've tried to read as many as I can, but I'm still feeling a bit anxious and would really appreciate some personal advice to help me feel more comfortable.

I have a date this Thursday with someone who's, well, generously endowed (around 20cm or even a little bit longer). I've had anal sex before, and it's been generally okay, but this will be the largest size I've experienced. My main concern isn't pain, but rather making sure everything goes smoothly on my end.

I tend to prefer giving oral sex, and I've found douching with a shower hose takes a long time, probably because the water goes too deep. I don't have access to a bulb right now, so I'm hoping to get some practical tips for using a shower hose.

Here are my specific questions:

1. What specific foods should I eat or avoid in the days leading up to my date? I'm looking for concrete examples, not just general terms like "high-fiber."
2. How can I tell when I've finished douching and there's no more water left inside?
3. How long should I hold the shower hose in place before it goes too far? I'm looking for a rough estimate in seconds or any other helpful guidance.
4. How many hours before my date should I douche? Is it okay if I do it about 2 hours beforehand?

Any other tips or tricks you have would be incredibly helpful. I apologize for adding another thread to this topic, but I'm hoping some direct advice will ease my nerves. Thanks in advance for your understanding!

 

[PopDino]

Hi, yeah I feel u

Idk about the 1st thing (I'm no nutritionist)

2- You need to relax while getting the water out, sometimes you might feel like there's something there left... usually so stay the time needed and get the water out from time to time.

3- It depends on the quantity of water but, I think from 3 to 6 seconds it's okay (it depends on how deep you want the cleaning to be)

4- Yeah, u should wait minimum like 1 hour, the body needs to recover from getting out things and then getting things in (to feel more comfortable)

Extra: Since it's a gigantic size, I recommend stimulating your anus first, a lot.

 

[fake fake]

Hey, thanks for the reply! I really appreciate it!

I also wanna give a little update on my post for others who have same questions in mind:

1. So, I tried to eat very light meals and what I thought would be high-fiber foods and snacks. Also, the day I would have sex, I didn't eat anything in the morning. I only drank 1 litre of water when I woke up and went to take a shit at the toilet.
2-3. I don't really have much time taking a shower since I live with my parents and they don't know I'm gay. So, douching with a shower hose usually takes so much time for me since I can't control the amount of water, I usually take too much water in me and it just prolongs the process; however, this time I read somewhere the 4-4 rule: the water that comes out from the hose must be 4inch long (around 10cm) and you need to put the tip in for 4 seconds for the water to travel in your butt (but I tried to keep it around 3 and/or 3 and a half seconds because I don't want the water to travel too deep), and it turned out this worked great!
4. I started douching 2 hours ago and it lasted around 45-1 hour including taking a shower and cleaning my body.

So, the date went really well, there was no incident although I was really nervous at first. It also hurt at first but once I got used to it and as we applied lube whenever it went dry, I didn't really feel that bad.

However, after I went to meet my friends at the club after taking a really quick shower, I felt a stomachache and went to toilet and my body defecated either the water that stuck during douching, or the lube, I still don't know what it was, but thankfully it wasn't during having sex.

Thanks again.