I tend to do slow stroking to savor and prolong the moment, instead of frantic fast movements. It's almost like edging, but not quite - and it can really make for intense orgasms.
That's a great discussion, thanks for starting the thread.
I really enjoy jerking off and giving myself pleasure, so I like to take my time. I do it mostly every day, and I prefer if the session lasts at least one hour.
To allow me to last longer, I sometimes wear rings around my balls:
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(My cock is a bit thick and I never found a cock ring that wasn't too tight so I wear them around my balls and achieve the same effect, plus it stretches my ballsack skin and I can stroke it with my fingers as I jerk off with the other hand)
When it comes to techniques, I don't think I have many. I usually start with my dick soft and watch some porn to make it hard. For a good while I'll refrain from touching it, so it can get hard and soft again a few times. I tease it running the tip of my fingers across my shaft, until it's fully hard. Only then I'll lube it up and start stroking.
Sometimes I do "counting games" like stroke 10 times slowly and pause, then 10 times normal speed and pause, then 10 times fast, then 10 times as fast as I can, and so on, challenging myself to not cum. The difficulty level increases every time, like first round is stroking with the hand only around the shaft, then I'll stroke only the glans really polishing it, then I'll do full strokes which almost make me cum. Sometimes I'll use a Fleshlight.
Another thing I like to do are start-stop games, like stop stroking when I'm close to cumming and wait for my cock to get soft before stroking again. Other times I'll time and give myself like 20 seconds, 30 seconds, 1 minute breaks to allow my cock to rest a bit before I start jerking again. My goal always is to hold the cum as long as I can, so I can keep wanking for a longer period. A nice game I like to play is to time myself and at each level increase the jerking time and reduce the pauses. Like I'll start jerking for 1 minute and have 30 second breaks, then 2 minutes of wanking and 20 second break, until I go to 5 or 10 minutes jerking nonstop.
Sometimes if I don't have a lot of time but want to really enjoy it, I condition myself to only jerk off but not cum. Like if I have half an hour and then I have to go do something else, I'll wank for half an hour and stop before cumming. Then I'll go and do whatever I need to, and resume jerking when I come back. I stay crazy horny the whole time, and the reward when I'm able to finally cum is so much better.
Cock hero challenge videos are also very fun (the ones that give you a beat to stroke to, you must stroke to the beat and not cum until the end), there's plenty of it online.
I love talking about this, send me a PM if you'd like to exchange more.
I really enjoy jerking off and giving myself pleasure, so I like to take my time. I do it mostly every day, and I prefer if the session lasts at least one hour.
To allow me to last longer, I sometimes wear rings around my balls:
View media item 14231501
(My cock is a bit thick and I never found a cock ring that wasn't too tight so I wear them around my balls and achieve the same effect, plus it stretches my ballsack skin and I can stroke it with my fingers as I jerk off with the other hand)
When it comes to techniques, I don't think I have many. I usually start with my dick soft and watch some porn to make it hard. For a good while I'll refrain from touching it, so it can get hard and soft again a few times. I tease it running the tip of my fingers across my shaft, until it's fully hard. Only then I'll lube it up and start stroking.
Sometimes I do "counting games" like stroke 10 times slowly and pause, then 10 times normal speed and pause, then 10 times fast, then 10 times as fast as I can, and so on, challenging myself to not cum. The difficulty level increases every time, like first round is stroking with the hand only around the shaft, then I'll stroke only the glans really polishing it, then I'll do full strokes which almost make me cum. Sometimes I'll use a Fleshlight.
Another thing I like to do are start-stop games, like stop stroking when I'm close to cumming and wait for my cock to get soft before stroking again. Other times I'll time and give myself like 20 seconds, 30 seconds, 1 minute breaks to allow my cock to rest a bit before I start jerking again. My goal always is to hold the cum as long as I can, so I can keep wanking for a longer period. A nice game I like to play is to time myself and at each level increase the jerking time and reduce the pauses. Like I'll start jerking for 1 minute and have 30 second breaks, then 2 minutes of wanking and 20 second break, until I go to 5 or 10 minutes jerking nonstop.
Sometimes if I don't have a lot of time but want to really enjoy it, I condition myself to only jerk off but not cum. Like if I have half an hour and then I have to go do something else, I'll wank for half an hour and stop before cumming. Then I'll go and do whatever I need to, and resume jerking when I come back. I stay crazy horny the whole time, and the reward when I'm able to finally cum is so much better.
Cock hero challenge videos are also very fun (the ones that give you a beat to stroke to, you must stroke to the beat and not cum until the end), there's plenty of it online.
I love talking about this, send me a PM if you'd like to exchange more.
Explore your body man. IMO there is no best way, just depends on my mood. But here’s a few techniques I’ve learned over the years. Hell, I’ll even put them in chronological order haha. I’ll exclude the typical stroke your cock method.
1- Rubbing your head on your stomach. Lean back, take your hard cock, and let your head rest nicely on your stomach. Then grab the shaft and move your cock side to side using a circular motion with your hand. Don’t wrap your thumb around, instead rest it across the base of your head for even more stimulation.
2- No direct head stimulation. Total opposite approach as the previous one. Grip your shaft and strike downward to a pointy where you feel the the front facing part of your head get a small tug. This is a slow build and requires a very hard erection to work. When your stroke reaches its max “tug” on your head, do a small kegal flex as well. For me, this takes about 20 minutes at least, but the cumshot is usually huge.
3- Lube up your cock head, then grab your head with your hand like you’re grabbing a gear shifter in a car. Then split two of your fingers in a “V” shape and put your head between those fingers. Essentially those fingers will be m straddling the base of your head from the top. Now work then around your head side to side, you can also go back and forth and use your palm to stimulate the top of your head.
4- Get some toys. A stroker is an incredible amount of fun. And if you don’t like getting lube on your hands so you’re not covering your chair, mouse, keyboard etc with lube it’s great.
1- Rubbing your head on your stomach. Lean back, take your hard cock, and let your head rest nicely on your stomach. Then grab the shaft and move your cock side to side using a circular motion with your hand. Don’t wrap your thumb around, instead rest it across the base of your head for even more stimulation.
2- No direct head stimulation. Total opposite approach as the previous one. Grip your shaft and strike downward to a pointy where you feel the the front facing part of your head get a small tug. This is a slow build and requires a very hard erection to work. When your stroke reaches its max “tug” on your head, do a small kegal flex as well. For me, this takes about 20 minutes at least, but the cumshot is usually huge.
3- Lube up your cock head, then grab your head with your hand like you’re grabbing a gear shifter in a car. Then split two of your fingers in a “V” shape and put your head between those fingers. Essentially those fingers will be m straddling the base of your head from the top. Now work then around your head side to side, you can also go back and forth and use your palm to stimulate the top of your head.
4- Get some toys. A stroker is an incredible amount of fun. And if you don’t like getting lube on your hands so you’re not covering your chair, mouse, keyboard etc with lube it’s great.
Great techniques, and nicely described. I'll try #2 and #3 next time I jerk off.
The input on this thread is all good. I would add only this… the quality/intensity of orgasm is directly related to how physically and emotionally aroused you are. In other words, the harder your cock is and the more intense your desire is, the more explosive your orgasm will be—so learn what turns you on and do a lot of that! Could be seeing certain types of bodies, or the emotional vibe of the models in porn, or watching certain types of sex, or touching your nipples, or playing with your balls and/or anus, or talking dirty with someone… whatever gets you so sexually aroused that you feel like you’ll die if you don’t cum NOW!
That's great advice. I discovered the love for writing erotic stories a few years ago, and it allows me to write about the stuff I find hot and the specific scenarios that turn me on. It's incredible how hard I get while writing, it takes me hours to write a chapter because I keep pausing to jerk off, and when I finally reach orgasm it's so powerful I cover myself in cum.
Indeed, being in the right mind space and thinking about or doing stuff that turn you on the most is key to reach great orgasms.
Something similar happens with sex as well: fucking anyone just to find release will never be as good as fucking someone you're really into and deeply desire being with.
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I tried to not jerk off too much over the years.. bought several melons/ watermelons cut a hole in sit and fuck away
Before fleshjacks became more common to use a plastic storage bag with lube / lotion in it.. felt pretty good
Before fleshjacks became more common to use a plastic storage bag with lube / lotion in it.. felt pretty good
Larger rings are available. Most of my rings are between 60mm and 65mm, but I have some as large as 73mm.
Having a friend do you is probaby best if the friend is skilled. I love to jerk myself off though and I.m very good at it. I use lots of lube (usually baby oil), cock rings, and plenty of edging. I'm attaching some instructional videos.
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Yeah I have tried larger rings, but they still don't feel comfortable or it comes to a point in which they're too wide and don't do any compression at all. I guess cock rings are just not for me
Hi guys. I've been edging this one guy on cam for a bit now. Always trying to keep it interesting and new from time to time with jerkoff instructions so he doesn't get bored lol.
So i'm looking for any variety of cock stroking that I could try on him. or any other edging related that i could make him do
I'd appreciate any inputs
So i'm looking for any variety of cock stroking that I could try on him. or any other edging related that i could make him do
I'd appreciate any inputs
Edging. I don't stroke anymore bc I'm caged and I cum from rubbing my balls and cumming through my cage.
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