When and How?

[lalo6000]

Hello ladies! I have a question I'd like to ask. If you could give me some feedback, I would be most grateful.

I am a single man who is not in a relationship; however, I actively date and have a few women friends who would be considered friends with benefits.

Some years back I had surgery that later on caused me to need a penis implant. You can't tell by looking that it's an implant but upon being intimate and very close inspection you can tell. I'm told by most women I have sex with that during sex it feels no different than a natural penis. Some have said that fully inflated and erect it's maybe a tad bit harder than what they would encounter with a natural penis. Overall, no major complaints.

My challenge is meeting new women that I'd like to date. I'm never quite sure how and when to bring up the fact that I have an implant. I never know what to say or when to say it. I'm okay with the fact that some women will not be interested or may be a bit uneasy about the idea. I've had a few reactions to that effect. That's fine. It is to be expected.

But I really would like to hear from a woman's perspective on how best to approach this.

My question is as follows: if you were dating a man and he had a penis implant How would you like him to tell you and when would be the right time to tell you?

Thank you.

 

[Holly Doors]

I don't think there's any right answer, you need to read the situation and approach the subject when you feel it's right.
Obviously hello I'm ..... can I buy you a drink, btw I have a peen implant isn't the right time.
You just need to read when would be most appropriate and steer the conversation towards it, everyone is different so it's down to you to judge that.

 

[TinyPrincess]

^this

And does the implant come in different shapes and sizes

 

[lalo6000]

Lol... actually, yes they do: small, average, large, and XL. But contrary to social media advertising, penile implants can't ever give you more length than what you've started with. However, you could end up with less if there are complications or the doctor is not that experienced. Most lose some length in the procedure others lose both length and girth. But if you start out with enough, a small haircut here or there really shouldn't matter much. ‍

 

[lalo6000]

I don't think there's any right answer, you need to read the situation and approach the subject when you feel it's right.
Obviously hello I'm ..... can I buy you a drink, btw I have a peen implant isn't the right time.
You just need to read when would be most appropriate and steer the conversation towards it, everyone is different so it's down to you to judge that.

Thank you.

 

[LaFemme]

Interesting question. If it were me encountering someone with a penile implant, the right time would be once we decided that we were going to become intimate. I doubt a penile implant would be a dealbreaker for me, but I’ve never been in that situation. I’d rather a man with a penile implant than a guy who wants to choke me during sex! Lol!

I digress. For me, once intimacy is in the works is when I think would be the right time for me to know. Like Holly & Tiny, please don’t bother sharing when we meet over coffee. Any sexual info shared too early is off-putting.