When Did You Realize That Your Dick Was Considered Large? (18+ Only)

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I discovered i was big the first times i was having sex. I used regular condoms and they always felt uncomfortable. And a lot of girls told me i was big, i always tought they said that to make me feel better. Until i met up with a more experianced girl and told her i hated those damn condoms. She laughed and told me i should buy the xl ones becouse my dick was just to big for the regulars,
 

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It was quite some time ago. My first girlfriend and I had broken up since a few months and I was dating another girl. A very good friend of the first and they were both very cool with it. My first gf never made any comment on my dick since we were each others first. She was also dating another guy (to whom she is married now).
As we were all in the same circle of friends, we often met each other at birthdays or other parties and that's when suddenly the topic came up for some reason I don't remember. My ex totally unexpected said to my then gf something along the lines of: 'he's quite something else then your previous bf in bed right?' My gf responded: 'Hell yes'
I heard the comment but thought nothing of it until later that night at home when my gf explained it. She was talking about my dick...

So I asked her about her ex and she told me he was quite a bit smaller but she never got to fuck him.
I drew my own conclusion about the size of my exes new bf!

So that is wat got me started wondering about dick size and what actually made me find LPSG the first time in 2005.
Another clue was when I met my wife (who had a bf with a cock far bigger than mine) and she told me that the condoms I had looked so uncomfortable on my cock. She bought me some MySize condoms and a whole new world of condom comfort opened for me!
 

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Two other recollections. I remember going out on the town in Wellington and having a group of 'girls' grab my penis. This was the era of closely fitting jeans and in my case you could see the outline of my cock especially if I was slightly aroused. A couple of years earlier I had a full erection at a party and became the centre of attention, with a very prominent bulge. It all became rather problematical, as people got drunk, as the night wore on. It was rather stares and smart comments about my boyish appearance. I managed to get away early with some friends. It was a strange experience, doubly so as apparently the flat was the home of political activists whose philosophy was anarcho-naturalism though there was no nudity that night, probably as it was winter.
 

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Two other recollections. I remember going out on the town in Wellington and having a group of 'girls' grab my penis. This was the era of closely fitting jeans and in my case you could see the outline of my cock especially if I was slightly aroused. A couple of years earlier I had a full erection at a party and became the centre of attention, with a very prominent bulge. It all became rather problematical, as people got drunk, as the night wore on. It was rather stares and smart comments about my boyish appearance. I managed to get away early with some friends. It was a strange experience, doubly so as apparently the flat was the home of political activists whose philosophy was anarcho-naturalism though there was no nudity that night, probably as it was winter.

This was also the era when I became from time to time very self-conscious and tried to disguise my penal bulge and be like everyone else. The usual method was several handkerchiefs in both pockets.And hope for the best. This didn't work for full erection.
 

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I didn't get laid much in high school, so for a while, the only thing influencing the perception of my dick was porn. I didn't realize how uncommon the dick sizes in porn are, and legitimately thought I was about normal. It wasn't college when a girl had straight-up refused PIV, and after I had a few discussions with the health center about how to properly measure one's self for a condom that I realized that I might actually be a little gifted in the pants department.

It took me some time, a few more hookups, some hard (heh) statistics and math about the distribution of dick sizes across the population, and multiple failures with normal-sized condoms to finally accept that partners weren't just flattering me or were nervous and inexperienced, and realize that I do, in fact, have a big dick.
 

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Grew up with open communal showers in gym, pools, and so many campouts with boyscouts.

Probably showered with a few hundred guys over the years. Very rarely saw anyone my size. Only twice ever saw a dick noticeably larger than mine.

I miss open showers.
 

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Grew up with open communal showers in gym, pools, and so many campouts with boyscouts.

Probably showered with a few hundred guys over the years. Very rarely saw anyone my size. Only twice ever saw a dick noticeably larger than mine.

I miss open showers.

Yes this would be an eye opener. Festivals with nudity are also good.
 
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Can't wait to go back to burner festivals
Here in NZ Kiwiburn hasn't actually been affected by Covid, the 2020 edition was just before the Pandemic and the 2021, the only burn in the world to go ahead, came after the success of Government measures.. It is not quite business as usual though, restrictions at the border still apply, for instance.
 
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Well your girth is wayyyy above normal and your length too. You only have to be above 5 or 6 inches to be above normal. Your dick size I'd say is big not huge or monster but big.

It is funny how the kind can work, making people with obvious large cocks feel like they are average or small; refreshing at times too I guess. I have always felt the same about my own.
 
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Just wondering when/how other guys realized that their dicks were considered big.

For me personally, I knew from simple google searches that my size fell into the "above average" category, but I wasn't exactly sure how common my size was. Because most of the only other dicks I'd seen were from porn, I just assumed that that's how most other guys were too. I'm 8x6.5, so I've always just thought my size was "nice", but nothing special.

It wasn't until I started having sex with other men when I realized that my dick was considered big. Every single one of my hookups has commented on how big I am, with some guys seeing my pictures on grindr first, but then refusing to let me fuck them once we meet in person, with fear that it might "cause too much damage". I think my girth is what surprises guys the most. It's kind of annoying actually, because it makes it hard to enjoy blow jobs due to teeth rubbing against it.

All that being said, I still don't really feel like my cock is actually that big, and I just like to categorize it as nice and slightly above average.
I relate so much! The bj and teeth rubbing is a real issue when having sex with a large penis. Also this with your own view of your penis. I always seen my D as nothing more than average until recently.
 
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in my mid 20s actually although before that the signs were kind of there...every gf had given my dick a flattering nickname and talked about how nice it was, i just didnt think much of it. Once i started sleeping with guys they let me know very clearly haha
 

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Late teens. I was sleeping with a girl a few years older. She made sure that I knew and also made sure that many other people knew that I was large :joy:. Before that I was in a long term relationship with a girl who was quite petite so assumed I was too big for her and didnt think much more about it
 

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I relate so much! The bj and teeth rubbing is a real issue when having sex with a large penis. Also this with your own view of your penis. I always seen my D as nothing more than average until recently.
And I just thought teeth rubbing was a normal part of blow jobs so I didn't really like them because of the teeth. And when women manage it without rubbing teeth it hurts their jaw because of the way they have to hold their mouth so they can't do it for as long. Can't win
 

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showers after sports was a place where no one good hide easily
I only realised my flaccid was bigger than normal after having a checkup at a sexual health clinic and the first nurse looked at it and paused and said that's a very healthy looking penis lol and then the second male nurse gave me large condoms when I left lol
 

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Definitely found out when guy after guy would freak out and tell me there’s no way they could take it. I didn’t believe them at first but after 10 guys in a row all had the same reaction I figured they were onto something.
 

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Always pretty sure I was above average, as I felt I am fairly proportional for my 6'2" height. Only remember one girlfriend from 24-25 who made a point of consistently telling me my cock is big. But she was from a different country and I guess I told myself maybe she just has a different perspective? My long-term and most recent, now-ex-girlfriend, would actually fuck with me and ask if I was self conscious about having a small cock. But she was and will always be toxic.

Wasn't until 32 that a male friend caught a view of me changing and said, "dude, you have a big fucking cock," that I finally just sort of stopped questioning the fact.

Obviously, being a member of this site, having to use larger-size condoms, and take special care with smaller girls, were other clear signs I was living with a large cock.