When you have an erection how stiff do you get?
For me there is a 'normal' stiff erection, which is hard, does the job very well, feels great for me and her, etc. I believe there are very normal and slight variations in our erections, based on arousal, hormones, stimulation, etc.
Every so often, this happens ...
An ex-girlfriend thought it was funny to hang clothes from my cock--it could hold six dress shirts without failing . . .
When I was a teenager (18+), I'd could hang my bath towel, dry or wet, from my erection. The feeling is like you could poke holes in the wall, pound in nails, i.e. 'rock hard'. That super-hard-it-almost-hurts type of erection was less frequent into my 20s, 30s, and beyond, but still does happen every once in a while now that I am in my 50s. My S.O. definitely notices when I'm harder than my normal hard. :biggrin1:
By far the hardest I ever got was when I tried my first 20mg sample of Cialis. I was very quick to full erection, and 'maxed out' in my natural size and stiffness.
For the first time in decades, I tried the bath towel trick, and had no problems at all. My girlfriend at the time benefited greatly that weekend and went to work on Monday a little sore (in a good way) and very well fucked.