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This isn't necessarily a post asking people to show off but more of a general question, but if y'all exist feel free to make yourself known I'm a 20 year old skinny young twink with slight definition, basically the stereotype. It might sound really shallow, but it's very rare for me to be interested in people romantically before I'm attracted to them physically, and I just so happen to be very into huge, burly, beefy and muscular men. Basically men who are built like a literal bara character. Plenty of these guys exist, and plenty of them are gay, but most of them seem to be only into other muscular men. So my question is if these types of guys that are into my body type actually exist and if they do, where the hell do I find them. I was lucky enough to have previously dated a bodybuilder guy with 10 years of fitness experience who didn't care about the body type of his partner, so I know these guys exist, they're just so hard to find.
The obvious solution would be to work out and get muscular myself. The thing is, I exercise regularly but from experience I learned that any type of cardio (running, dancing, cycling etc.) is way more mentally fulfilling to me than weightlifting. Besides, I'm also happy with the physique I currently have and I put in effort to retain it. It's not like I don't put effort into my body but then expect it from my partner. But yeah, lmk your thoughts, if I'm valid or if I'm looking for something rarer than getting struck by lightning.
The obvious solution would be to work out and get muscular myself. The thing is, I exercise regularly but from experience I learned that any type of cardio (running, dancing, cycling etc.) is way more mentally fulfilling to me than weightlifting. Besides, I'm also happy with the physique I currently have and I put in effort to retain it. It's not like I don't put effort into my body but then expect it from my partner. But yeah, lmk your thoughts, if I'm valid or if I'm looking for something rarer than getting struck by lightning.