Why Are Small Dick Jokes Socially Excepted This Day And Age?

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Just curious, because it seems like a lot of strides have been made toward equitable treatment towards people in the way we talk to and treat each other, but commenting on penis size as some sort of satire in reference to masculinity is still relatively common and, in many cases, applauded.

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I feel that. I’m 5.25 and I really struggled (and times still do) thinking that I’m small. I was in hell just because of the jokes I would hear and all of my friends exaggerating about their size or the size of their partners.
 
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That seems like a separate question entirely. I’m sure there is a correlation though.

I bring it up as an example, in my experience here and in reality men think about and talk about and joke about dicks WAAAAY more than women. So, I would ask the entire community, not just the women.

Edited to add: this could be an example of Men need to hold Men accountable for their actions. I'm not saying women never make or laugh at dick jokes, but from where I'm standing the vast majority of the time it is in fact a man mocking another man over his size.
 
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I bring it up as an example, in my experience here and in reality men think about and talk about and joke about dicks WAAAAY more than women. So, I would ask the entire community, not just the women.

The reason I asked the women is because in my experience women use the small dick joke as a reference to a persons masculinity more frequently. It also seems to fly in the face of the ideas of Feminism. So I was curious to hear why this, as an issue, wasn’t talked about more.

I think the latest term I’ve heard, almost exclusively from women, is referring to someone as having “small dick energy”
 
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The reason I asked the women is because in my experience women use the small dick joke as a reference to a persons masculinity more frequently. It also seems to fly in the face of the ideas of Feminism. So I was curious to hear why this, as an issue, wasn’t talked about more.

I think the latest term I’ve heard, almost exclusively from women, is referring to someone as having “small dick energy”

I honestly think (pure speculation) that a whole lot of women who make those jokes, and I say this as a woman who has made stupid jokes like that, do it because they know it has an impact. They know how Lazer focused men are on their dicks because you guys make it very clear. I even made a tasteless comment in the politics section about men who need big guns to feel like they have big dicks. It's not funny, it's not reflective of reality, and it's just stupid. I got called on it and I made a mental note.

And, I think women who identify as "size queens" do so sometimes (not always) to play into the male driven fantasy that women need big dick to be "fulfilled". I know there are women who do very much want big dicks and will not lie.. but I also know that sometimes it's just a case of trying to be what they think dude wants her to be. I see that shit with "bisexual" women too. Ladies I've known have played the part because they know the men they're trying to appeal to like watching two women together, and he'll think he can have all the 3sums he wants because "she likes pussy too!" It's insulting to actual bisexual people, and just generally fucking annoying.

And I can honestly say I have seen a whole lot more small dick jokes coming from men. In person, here, in entertainment media... I suppose our experiences are different in a few ways.
 
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I honestly think (pure speculation) that a whole lot of women who make those jokes, and I say this as a woman who has made stupid jokes like that, do it because they know it has an impact. They know how Lazer focused men are on their dicks because you guys make it very clear. I even made a tasteless comment in the politics section about men who need big guns to feel like they have big dicks. It's not funny, it's not reflective of reality, and it's just stupid. I got called on it and I made a mental note.

And, I think women who identify as "size queens" do so sometimes (not always) to play into the male driven fantasy that women need big dick to be "fulfilled". I know there are women who do very much want big dicks and will not lie.. but I also know that sometimes it's just a case of trying to be what they think dude wants her to be. I see that shit with "bisexual" women too. Ladies I've known have played the part because they know the men they're trying to appeal to like watching two women together, and he'll think he can have all the 3sums he wants because "she likes pussy too!" It's insulting to actual bisexual people, and just generally fucking annoying.

And I can honestly say I have seen a whole lot more small dick jokes coming from men. In person, here, in entertainment media... I suppose our experiences are different in a few ways.
You know our experiences are probably just skewed differently. I think the ones that stick with me are the comments I hear from women. But yeah I think it’s the impact part that you touched on. I guess it stings more coming from a woman? I’ve thought recently about trans people too and how dick size dysmorphia might impact them. Honestly I just wanted to float this question out there to see if it’s something women have even thought about and it appears you have.
 
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Small dick jokes are tired and old. Any sort of body shaming just isn’t funny.

But why do they exist? Don’t all men want big dicks? Don’t all women want big breasts? Is it true? As a woman, I know that not all women want big breasts, yet there are enough women who do to feed that stereotype. Do all men want big dicks? That I don’t know. Sure seems like it from the posts on this site. What better way to cut a guy than insinuate that he has a small dick.

An attack on the dick/breasts is an attack on masculinity/femininity. All the sexual comparisons are stupid. Jokes about big/small dicks or large/small breasts are lazy ways to insult someone.
 

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I think the ones that stick with me are the comments I hear from women. But yeah I think it’s the impact part that you touched on. I guess it stings more coming from a woman?

I can admit that even though I've never been a size queen when I did insult a man for his size it was because I knew he likely assumed it mattered to me. Even when I'm being perfectly honest in saying that smaller/average dicks can get me off just as well as large ones I know I'm not believed. Hell my guy now used to question my truth, thank fuck he got over that shit. At that point in my life I wasn't mature enough to understand that I was just body-shaming so I did use it, and it is an effective way to make a man feel like shit about his body. So I wanna add that the times I used it, my body was shamed first so I just added fuel to the fire and served up the same dish. That doesn't make it ok, though. So now if I'm body shamed or insulted for something I can't control about my physical self I just laugh it off and masturbate furiously. Cuz I'm fuckin hawt.
 

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Not to be that person, but you literally named yourself "lil_exhibitionist" and have a photo in a thread where men are trying to humiliate guys with smaller dicks.

The ones making a joke of the dicks around here are the "alpha bros" who associate large dick with being a "real man" and anything less than 8" just a shriveled up little clit, unable to please a woman.

In all my years of spending time on sex based forums (that's over a decade of time) I have only ever seen MEN make these comments. Men be complete dick sneezes to other guys, because they have an average dick and not some monster dick the others pump, stretch and fill with saline and silicone for.


There's also men who simply get off on their smaller size. They WANT people to say nasty things about their dick.

People as a whole are objectified for the sake of comedy. Small dicks, flat tits, big ass, fat people, dad bods, short women- (pocket sized pussy, amiright?), sex workers, women who are comfortable with their body and wear clothes others don't approve of, men who are more metro than masculine.

The list can go on. So, the question isn't about why it's acceptable to joke about small dick, the question is "why is it ok to objectify anyone for comedic or personal gain?"

I'm sorry if you've had negative experiences. People are strange, sometimes shallow and often times careless. Don't let judgey mcfuckfaces get to you.
 
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Not to be that person, but you literally named yourself "lil_exhibitionist" and have a photo in a thread where men are trying to humiliate guys with smaller dicks.

The ones making a joke of the dicks around here are the "alpha bros" who associate large dick with being a "real man" and anything less than 8" just a shriveled up little clit, unable to please a woman.

In all my years of spending time on sex based forums (that's over a decade of time) I have only ever seen MEN make these comments. Men be complete dick sneezes to other guys, because they have an average dick and not some monster dick the others pump, stretch and fill with saline and silicone for.


There's also men who simply get off on their smaller size. They WANT people to say nasty things about their dick.

People as a whole are objectified for the sake of comedy. Small dicks, flat tits, big ass, fat people, dad bods, short women- (pocket sized pussy, amiright?), sex workers, women who are comfortable with their body and wear clothes others don't approve of, men who are more metro than masculine.

The list can go on. So, the question isn't about why it's acceptable to joke about small dick, the question is "why is it ok to objectify anyone for comedic or personal gain?"

I'm sorry if you've had negative experiences. People are strange, sometimes shallow and often times careless. Don't let judgey mcfuckfaces get to you.

So the post in the humiliation forum was trying to add a little positivity in the discussion by show casing the toy that I was wearing as an option for some of them. It was more like a “I’m near the same size as you look at this sheath” situation. I had a few people message me and ask me about it and had some good conversations as a result.

As for the lil in my name, Im a small person and I’m comfortable being who I am.

I personally don’t get off on people humiliating me, but I empathize with people who do because I know on a subconscious level that really has to take a mental toll on a guy (maybe not all of them). I realize that on sites like this the men say a lot of things toward other men, but I was asking the question in terms of real life scenarios.

ultimately, I think you are correct though that it should be about not objectifying people for comedic gain. I think the question stemmed from why this particular form of that didn’t seem to be nearly as taboo in real scenarios as other forms certainly are in public life.
 
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I can admit that even though I've never been a size queen when I did insult a man for his size it was because I knew he likely assumed it mattered to me. Even when I'm being perfectly honest in saying that smaller/average dicks can get me off just as well as large ones I know I'm not believed. Hell my guy now used to question my truth, thank fuck he got over that shit. At that point in my life I wasn't mature enough to understand that I was just body-shaming so I did use it, and it is an effective way to make a man feel like shit about his body. So I wanna add that the times I used it, my body was shamed first so I just added fuel to the fire and served up the same dish. That doesn't make it ok, though. So now if I'm body shamed or insulted for something I can't control about my physical self I just laugh it off and masturbate furiously. Cuz I'm fuckin hawt.

Masturbating furiously would and could solve a lot of the worlds problems. Sounds like a self help book in the making lol.
 
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People as a whole are objectified for the sake of comedy. Small dicks, flat tits, big ass, fat people, dad bods, short women- (pocket sized pussy, amiright?), sex workers, women who are comfortable with their body and wear clothes others don't approve of, men who are more metro than masculine.

The list can go on. So, the question isn't about why it's acceptable to joke about small dick, the question is "why is it ok to objectify anyone for comedic or personal gain?"

I'm sorry if you've had negative experiences. People are strange, sometimes shallow and often times careless. Don't let judgey mcfuckfaces get to you.

Exactly this.

People who want to be assholes will find anything they can to tear a person down. If everyone on the planet suddenly woke up tomorrow and were all blue, some asshole would judge a person for being the wrong shade of blue. I don't condone people being jerkwads, but the shits will find anything to be an arse about, no matter if you have the body of Adonis or Aphrodite or whatever. His hair is 2curly, her elbows 2pointy, whatever.

And since sooo many dudes are sensitive about their wang, well.. it makes an easy target for said jerkwads.

Just like a lot of the jerkwads that don't like what women say, especially on here call the women feminists (lol), fat, lesbians, sexless, cold, etc. They think it's gonna hit home/make us feel feels when really, it's just sad and lazy. Idiots can't even get creative with their insults.
 

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I think men worried about their dick size more often than not are just revealing info about the types they're attracted to (porn stars, gamer girls, anime characters, etc). Either that, or their dick is small to the point of being a size many don't even realize exists (microphallus). There's some truth to the claim that women, porn stars or not, who live a more sex and partying lifestyle (men too) tend to gravitate towards more endowed men, taller, etc.

Also when you're that small, it does indeed limit your desirability compared to if you were average or big. There might also be a body dysmorphia aspect to it (there's some truth that average and endowed men are more...capable in the bedroom than someone who's so small they can't even penetrate a vagina or keep a condom on). I've had sex with men that size and it was incredibly underwhelming - I couldn't even tell if they were hard or inside me. I don't enjoy participating in their sph fantasies either. They truly have nothing to offer me as far as penis is concerned.

I think someone with that issue can be valid and sound in having grievances of not being considered as desirable as they'd like to be, depending on their personality.