Why do broke men think they can date beautiful women?

[Chiballana]

This has been bothering me for a while, I feel like many men think that being smooth talkers will get the foot in the door with beautiful women even if they don't have much in the way of physical attractiveness or wealth. As an example, I briefly dated a guy I met at a nightclub, he wasn't handsome or well built but he was fun, Made me laugh and feel good and paid for everything all night.
Keep in mind I had rejected many other men (ergo other prospects) that night precisely because of him. I didn't care that he had a kid he had to fly for every month to see but obviously I expected some semblance of economic stability. Turns out that as a 42 year old man he still lived with his mom, didn't have a car and didn't take me out to the city's best restaurants as I'm used to.

Now Let's be real, I am thin, young and beautiful (0.7 waist to hip ratio) so what ever made him think he could bag me? My ex boyfriend was rich and very good looking so I know I can get that kind of man, but why was he so delusional? Full disclosure, he Is a great guy, kind and thoughtful but I don't see much ambition in him and he clearly wouldn't be able to provide for us both in the way I expect. He didn't have the necessary hotness for me to overlook the lack of wealth, so what did he bring to the table other than a good personality? Did he really expect an attractive woman to choose him solely based on that?

 

[ronin001]

Straight male, from New York chiming in.

I have always had my own apartment in the city or a home of my own thankfully. Nice car / nice cars thankfully, I work very hard for these things. 90% of the women I meet // when I was not in a relationship had equal professional financial status as I did. Usually the women I met had more, as they handled their finances better.

Long story short, I learned to spot someone who was high maintenance and shy away from them. The what have you done for me lately type. The we make the same money; but lets spend yours all weekend lady.

I am not a fan of J-Lo; but I love this song

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[cofrader]

I found woman are more into behavior than looks.
I found that in general make fast assessment of a person status like terminator looking but its an evolutionary need to guess if he could maintain an eventual kid.
I saw a movie dirty john a men who bypass the protections of several woman and end up broken, somehow hacked them i guess they didn't used her friends.

You want to eat on those fancy restaurants when is not on your budget? Why ? Made you feel important? Try to have the best relationship you can, feeling good comes from inside you nothing external.

 

[notthatguy]

I think it depends on how much game the guy has.

 

[Evenflow369]

What does money have to do with getting you off?

 

[Mike hung]

I'm not broke, far from it and worked for what I have.
That said, I've never let on that I'm wealthy to potential partners. My wife didn't have a clue how much money I had when we got into a relationship, my wife is also a lot younger than myself and of course beautiful and sexy.
Money shouldn't be a factor.

 

[dannyboy971]

This has been bothering me for a while, I feel like many men think that being smooth talkers will get the foot in the door with beautiful women even if they don't have much in the way of physical attractiveness or wealth. As an example, I briefly dated a guy I met at a nightclub, he wasn't handsome or well built but he was fun, Made me laugh and feel good and paid for everything all night.
Keep in mind I had rejected many other men (ergo other prospects) that night precisely because of him. I didn't care that he had a kid he had to fly for every month to see but obviously I expected some semblance of economic stability. Turns out that as a 42 year old man he still lived with his mom, didn't have a car and didn't take me out to the city's best restaurants as I'm used to.

Now Let's be real, I am thin, young and beautiful (0.7 waist to hip ratio) so what ever made him think he could bag me? My ex boyfriend was rich and very good looking so I know I can get that kind of man, but why was he so delusional? Full disclosure, he Is a great guy, kind and thoughtful but I don't see much ambition in him and he clearly wouldn't be able to provide for us both in the way I expect. He didn't have the necessary hotness for me to overlook the lack of wealth, so what did he bring to the table other than a good personality? Did he really expect an attractive woman to choose him solely based on that?

sounds to me like he is the one who dodged a bullet

 

[dreamer20]

"Why do broke men think they can date beautiful women?"​

^^Because they can. Also broke beautiful women exist too - so there's that

 

[Markyoung873]

Why Do Broke Men Think They Can Date Beautiful Women?​

Because I’m a decorated war veteran with big dick..

Worked for me anyway..

 

[Ranxerox]

This has been bothering me for a while, I feel like many men think that being smooth talkers will get the foot in the door with beautiful women even if they don't have much in the way of physical attractiveness or wealth. As an example, I briefly dated a guy I met at a nightclub, he wasn't handsome or well built but he was fun, Made me laugh and feel good and paid for everything all night.
Keep in mind I had rejected many other men (ergo other prospects) that night precisely because of him. I didn't care that he had a kid he had to fly for every month to see but obviously I expected some semblance of economic stability. Turns out that as a 42 year old man he still lived with his mom, didn't have a car and didn't take me out to the city's best restaurants as I'm used to.

Now Let's be real, I am thin, young and beautiful (0.7 waist to hip ratio) so what ever made him think he could bag me? My ex boyfriend was rich and very good looking so I know I can get that kind of man, but why was he so delusional? Full disclosure, he Is a great guy, kind and thoughtful but I don't see much ambition in him and he clearly wouldn't be able to provide for us both in the way I expect. He didn't have the necessary hotness for me to overlook the lack of wealth, so what did he bring to the table other than a good personality? Did he really expect an attractive woman to choose him solely based on that?

You literally answered your own question in your first paragraph.

Which begets the real question: "What makes beautiful women think they are worth anything based on being beautiful?"

If that's all the woman has to offer, I hope she gets what she wants before the shelf life ends her one talent tree.

Roxx.

 

[borg1125]

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No, I don't want your number
No, I don't want to give you mine and
No, I don't want to meet you nowhere
No, don't want none of your time
'Cause I'm lookin' like class, and he's lookin' like trash
Can't get with a deadbeat ass, so

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[Markyoung873]

One thing about The very few truly beautiful women I’ve had the pleasure of spending time with is that they are also so nice and down to earth…

Then there’s the try hard with bags of attitude, way too much makeup, fake this and that…