Why Don't Women Often Acknowledge That Penis Size Is A Major Factor In Judging Male Attractiveness?

[Rewardheragain148]

Women often state subjective things as attractive like smile, personality , motivation ect

Objective things are usually height, muscle, wealth ect but they skip around penis size.

Living in a culture where American porn has taken influence on American society I think women should feel comfortable keeping it real about this subject.

 

[socalfreak]

Because, as you can read from the thousands of posts here, it's viewed as a secondary/tertiary asset....a "bonus".
Guys place WAY more importance on their size than women.
P.S. porn isn't real life.
Unless you are on either extreme of the size spectrum, it just doesn't matter to them. As long as it's functional & you have a clue as to how to use it, you're fine.
They may brag about it at some point.... But, not until way after the other boxes are checked.

 

[T_Lurch]

It may be because for most of them, penis size isn't at the top of their list. Maybe for the size queens or women looking for just a hook up, but not most. I don't deny it's a desirable trait for most, but it's just not the be all, end all of men for them.

I can only imagine they skip around it because it's a sore subject with many men, and women have answered it on LPSG many times, only to have their answers scoffed at or dismissed. Some have even been chastised harshly for their opinion on it. I don't think they've been anything but honest and forthright on this.

 

[Rewardheragain148]

can only imagine they skip around it because it's a sore subject with many men,[/QUOTE]

yea u bet. Women get to choose the man ; the man doesn’t get to choose the woman.

If women are cherry picking the big ,fat dcks then that means you’re screwed if you didn’t get a big one .


Also what women say online and what they “do and say” in the flesh has been a paradox for me.

So that’s my input.

 

[Motion-of-the-Ocean]

Why do those like you refuse to believe women are telling the truth when they do state penis size is not a major consideration? Maybe if you stopped looking at it through a male-centric view in which the owner of the penis often puts way more emphasis and importance on that part than women you'd have your answer.

As far as porn, not only is it not reflective of real life sexuality, but most of it is made to appeal to men, which includes the fantasy of some men that bigger is better and female actors who are paid to verbally agree.

 

[Rewardheragain148]

Why do those like you refuse to believe women are telling the truth when they do state penis size is not a major consideration? Maybe if you stopped looking at it through a male-centric view in which the owner of the penis often puts way more emphasis and importance on that part than women you'd have your answer.

As far as porn, not only is it not reflective of real life sexuality, but most of it is made to appeal to men, which includes the fantasy of some men that bigger is better and female actors who are paid to verbally agree.

Good statements .

Yeah ; when I watch porn it’s saturated with hung blk males lol.

ridiculous.

 

[T_Lurch]

Good statements .

Yeah ; when I watch porn it’s saturated with hung blk males lol.

ridiculous.

It's worth noting that most women don't watch porn and of those that do, their porn tends to be pretty different from the kind men watch.

The kind of porn you're referring to is largely a part of the zeitgeist; it could very well change in another decade as fashions shift, much like Madison Avenue.

 

[deleted1138933]

Because, as you can read from the thousands of posts here, it's viewed as a secondary/tertiary asset....a "bonus".
Guys place WAY more importance on their size than women.
P.S. porn isn't real life.
Unless you are on either extreme of the size spectrum, it just doesn't matter to them. As long as it's functional & you have a clue as to how to use it, you're fine.
They may brag about it at some point.... But, not until way after the other boxes are checked.

The fact that it is a bonus and/or that extremes affect is proof that it does matter

It may be because for most of them, penis size isn't at the top of their list. Maybe for the size queens or women looking for just a hook up, but not most. I don't deny it's a desirable trait for most, but it's just not the be all, end all of men for them.

I can only imagine they skip around it because it's a sore subject with many men, and women have answered it on LPSG many times, only to have their answers scoffed at or dismissed. Some have even been chastised harshly for their opinion on it. I don't think they've been anything but honest and forthright on this.

Really? NONE have stated that they like small.

 

[deleted1138933]

Why do those like you refuse to believe women are telling the truth when they do state penis size is not a major consideration? Maybe if you stopped looking at it through a male-centric view in which the owner of the penis often puts way more emphasis and importance on that part than women you'd have your answer.

As far as porn, not only is it not reflective of real life sexuality, but most of it is made to appeal to men, which includes the fantasy of some men that bigger is better and female actors who are paid to verbally agree.

Major or not, it is a factor

 

[Scarletbegonia]

So you are believing porn, fantasy cinema meant to capture MALE eyes 98 percent of the time, but not women who are living in the real world and not being paid to be all gaga over peen?

 

[deleted1138933]

I am believing what I have experienced and have women say.

 

[socalfreak]

The fact that it is a bonus and/or that extremes affect is proof that it does matter


Really? NONE have stated that they like small.

If you had better reading comprehension, you would have noticed the word "MAJOR" in the title.
Also,I didn't say it wasn't a factor. I very clearly said it was a secondary/tertiary one.

 

[deleted1138933]

If you had better reading comprehension, you would have noticed the word "MAJOR" in the title.
Also,I didn't say it wasn't a factor. I very clearly said it was a secondary/tertiary one.

Then why do women keep saying it does not matter, that it is not a factor, that they have no preference? Point is, it does, and they do care and have a prefeence

 

[T_Lurch]

The fact that it is a bonus and/or that extremes affect is proof that it does matter


Really? NONE have stated that they like small.

I never stated that they like small. I simply stated that large is not their highest priority. As @socalfreak said before, it is a secondary or even tertiary concern for many.

I think you hear only what you like to hear.

 

[socalfreak]

Then why do women keep saying it does not matter, that it is not a factor, that they have no preference? Point is, it does, and they do care and have a prefeence

Point is, you have no relevant point.
The original post asked why it wasn't admitted to being a MAJOR factor.
And, as has been very clearly stated more than once, it isn't. It's a secondary/tertiary one at best.
Jesus, man. Learn to read.
If this is your attempt at trolling, it really sucks.

 

[deleted1138933]

I never stated that they like small. I simply stated that large is not their highest priority. As @socalfreak said before, it is a secondary or even tertiary concern for many.

I think you hear only what you like to hear.

I hear what I hear them say. They do not want small and prefer at least medium.

 

[deleted1138933]

Point is, you have no relevant point.
The original post asked why it wasn't admitted to being a MAJOR factor.
And, as has been very clearly stated more than once, it isn't. It's a secondary/tertiary one at best.
Jesus, man. Learn to read.
If this is your attempt at trolling, it really sucks.

It is not what women say for physical/sexual attractiveness

 

[Player_01]

The better question is, why don't you believe what women say?

 

[deleted1138933]

The better question is, why don't you believe what women say?

I do. And they say they like/prefer bigger. None have ever said they idealize, want small

 

[marriedasian]

most of the women in my life have never had an issue asking for a "bigger" dick. now i must preface that most of them don't want a "big" dick more so wanting a dick that is "big enough". what that big enough number is will vary the entire spectrum. i've heard as small as 4 to as big as 9+. to each their own is my opinion, no judgement from me. one thing i do know for sure is that dick-size obsession is a guy-thing and we are the ones that perpetuate the belief that women care more than men.

to the OP, the reason women don't acknowledge that penis size is a MAJOR factor is because it's not a major factor, period. most women will be more attracted to your overall package or your wallet before they even factor in your dick. remember that a women will judge most men way before ever getting in bed with them. also, depending on what the guy has to offer in overall lifestyle, a woman will not hesitate to overlook a smaller dick. trust me on this, a big dick will not afford women the lifestyle they are seeking from men to provide. a successful man with money and resources can. if a bigger dick is attached to this man then it's a "bonus" and she will hoard this man from all women.

if she's only with you cause you have a big dick then you're gonna have issues. if you're only with her because you have a big dick then you're gonna have issues.