If I'm understanding you right (maybe me, and everyone who has read this, unless OP is able to edit/elaborate more etc.] is misunderstanding you, and have no idea what you're talking about) that is simply not true.
Take me for example. I'm Black, autistic, gay, flamboyant etc. I (and I think 99.9999 percent of people in my category, due to the fact, and because we are at the bowels, and at the bottom of the bottom, rust, nautical sea level below the scale etc.) and I include everyone and treat everyone with respect. Even though I don't get the same treatment, but yeah well. Alas.