Why try anal sex?

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As a straight man that enjoys a dildo in the ass occasionally (self-administered---my wife would die before getting involved in that sort of thing), I'm curious about womens' first experiences with anal sex.

Why did you first decide to try it? Was it some guy that talked you into it? Did it come up in a conversation with a friend? Was it a natural progression from a finger during masturbation? Was it before or after you saw anal-sex porn where the girl liked (or at least pretended to) like it?

I don't know why, but I always knew I liked anal stimulation, even as a lonely teenager. I was terrified to use anything other than a brush handle then because the only thing I could think of was stuff like candles or vegetables, both of which have this terrible problem of breaking off. Amazon basically allowed me to research and buy dildos without any embarrassment which lead to where I am today.

I have this theory that the amount of anal sex happening has exploded since porn became ubiquitous on the internet, and that millennials are more likely to have tried than gen Xers, who are more likely to have tried than boomers. Does this sound true, or is this just something I made up?
 
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People have been Butt-Fuckin since the dawn of time.. I don't know what kind of impact porn had on it. There's records in plenty of ancient cultures (including Pompeii) that describe a VERY sexual society with all the same Kinky things we do today.. including butt-sex.

I always knew I was interested. The 1st time was with my guy I'm with now (the 1st time he put it in my ass was about 8 1/2 years ago) and it was amazing. He just turned me around, spit on my asshole, and started to insert. I didn't ask questions, I just allowed it. I've loved his cock in my ass ever since.

http://www.lpsg.com/members/tight_n...+dicking/740727-he-tore-the-condom-while.html
 
I talked about my first time here, although I didn't actually say it was my first time....

http://www.lpsg.com/358255-have-sex-with-a-gay.html#post4842078

I've always had an interest in it, which is why I was willing to try it when he proposed it. I'm very adventurous, while also being quite submissive. So I think both of those traits contributed to my interest in anal. Once I tried it, I loved it. And I haven't looked back since..... Unless he is doing me up the butt from behind, in which case I might look back hehe ;)
 
I had a guy who was interested. I was pretty hesitant, but I was willing to give it a whirl. We progressed from toys to him, and it went pretty well. Nothing to write home about, but it did not hurt most of the time. We broke up a few months later. Another guy later said he liked it, so I was up for it. THEN I found out how much difference length made for me - phew!!! It was SPECTACULAR. I was not aware I could orgasm from anal only. Vaginal is still a favorite, but anal is always on the menu if the mood strikes.
 
My first husband and I tried to no avail (his idea) but we had no clue what we were doing so it ended quite abruptly and was never tried again.
Fast forward a few years and after being with my current hubby a few times.... While drinking one night we started going at it, he flipped me onto all fours leaned into me and whispered that he wanted every hole in my body! Well me being adventurous I demanded that he take me just like he wanted.... So he smiled ear to ear professed his love to me and then spit onto himself and then proceeded to go for it balls deep (with a warm up of course)! I have never had such an amazing orgasm before that day and from what he says I'm the first woman he met to allow him to try, although I doubt his statement because he was quite good!
So even though it was never "my idea" it didn't take much to talk me into trying it, and now that I've tried it I think I ask for it more often than he thought I would!!