Why Would An Asexual Person Be On This Website?

[4097701]

asexual people on sex websites seems odd... why?

 

[tallacori]

Because they have a large penis and want support from a group

 

[TrueB2]

I like knowing people like my body, and I find the human body disgustingly beautiful. The Human body is like a piece of art. Each curve has a story, each picture hold an emotion unknowingly captured...and I was kind of bored so

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Because of many things.
Personally, I’m demisexual, on the asexual side, but I’m interested with the person I care about. Sort of an extreme monogamy.

I’m also curious about how sexualize people think.

I originally found here looking for advice on handling a partner of gifted proportions. The amazing ladies of LPSG have kept me here.

 

[ronin001]

LPSG, offers cyber and at times real- life companionship. Many members are not here for the pictures , but as a free way to occupy excess time / socialize.

As I am fond of saying, one does not need to have a penis / love penis to enjoy and be a productive member of the site

 

[Guy-jin]

Asexual people are capable of having and even enjoying sex. Being asexual means not experiencing sexual attraction. So, for example, I don’t really have any interest in the photos people share on these sites. I might like to see a friend’s photo and cheer them on or whatever but it doesn’t make me turned on really.

That said, I do have partners and usually they want to have sex and for my part I do enjoy the closeness of physical intimacy as well and want them to feel good. That’s how I originally ended up finding this site long ago, I had questions about what to do when there is a size-related sexual incompatibility.

 

[Enid]

I feel like I could be on the asexual spectrum. While I've experienced some sexual attraction in my life, it has usually been strongly tied to the individual and inherently more mental than physical. And as I've aged, less and less important at all. I firmly know i will never engage in another sexual relationship again -- the concept holds no interest to me.

I am however interested in self love, so the site's topic serves to titillate. Plus, the women (and some of the men! Waves at @Guy-jin ) are badass. I've been here too long, anyway. I'm never going to leave this site.

 

[deleted1025121]

Being asexual doesn't mean you're not attracted to someone. By definition, asexuals:

"asexual individuals may still experience attraction but this attraction doesn't need to be realized in any sexual manner"

Meaning I can still look at naked men and think they are attractive. Or be turned on by guys with really large penises, etc. And maybe even enjoy seeing their sexual experiences. But it doesn't always mean I personally want (or desire) to have sex.

 

[StaringIsCaring]

Asexual men can have big dicks too. It would be logical for them to be here and not have as much sexual attraction and just have questions.

I am not asexual but find myself wishing there was a version of this site without photos as I am here exclusively for information about sexuality etc.

 

[deleted3782]

I like sex in theory, but in reality it just doesn't happen. Here, I can keep updated on theory.

 

[NY2NY]

I've known some people who identify as asexual and they're far from a monolithic group.

Some asexuals have sexual thoughts, desires, feelings, etc., but don't feel the need to fulfill them by having sex with anyone.

If you're a straight guy, then you probably don't have any desire to pursue sex with another guy. An asexual person can have a normal sex drive in the same way, but not have the desire to have sex with either gender.

A male friend of mine figured he was asexual in his early 20s when he tried having sex and each time he just wasn't into it. Normal sex drive but just a general lack of sexual desire for other people.

It's a complex topic and hard to put everyone in a perfect box of what they are.

 

[NickPet]

I actually agree and relate with many comments above.
It should be clearified that asexuality is still a sexuality. Sexuality isn't just about sexual attraction but also includes sexual or social behaviour and self-determination especially around other people. Romantic feelings and aesthetic attraction towards the human body is still very much there for most asexual people. There is a relatively small amount of people who are both asexual and aromantic and haven't felt the need for any form of close human contact.
One way to describe it for me is, when i walk down the street, i dont fantasize about people i walk by, and I instantly and passively friendzone every new person i meet. I have felt romantic attraction to a woman twice before and i've felt aesthetic attraction with guys. But, i'd say that overall the idea of me having sex with someone else is a bit repulsive mainly because i cannot picture them, to have feelings towards first. So, asexuality for me is not like being a wet match, but rather a match that needs a specific type of friction to flare up.
That being said, i appreciate the stories/conditions/anatomical variations forums(and i've learnt a lot) and thus i joined and if i get some cute guy/girl eye candy action here and there thats another small victory for me.

 

[HorseHung40's]

This is a forum that is open to all persons of all sexualities. Please continue to post. I find it refreshing to see other experiences and points of view.

 

[Guy-jin]

@Guy-jin
What if the image was of a partner? Are you interested in visual at all?

Interested yes. Aesthetically interested. Emotionally interested. But not sexually interested. A partner sharing a nude photo, for example, would be an intimate act and have emotional meaning to me.

What you describe in your second paragraph sounds like aesthetic attraction to me.

Also to @Enid’s point (hi @Enid!), I’m largely on this site for fun and to chat with the cool people I’ve met over the years, not to like... post pics of my hog or whatever. Not that I’m against doing so, it’s just my aesthetic requirements for doing so are kind of beyond the average ding dong drop.

 

[Scarletbegonia]

Instead of splaining, try educating yourself.

asexuality is a collection of degrees.
I’m demisexual, or romantisexual, meaning I need a connection to want physical affection.
Some folx are just low desire across the board.
There are folx who are mainly absent of sexual feelings toward other people.

 

[bright-eyes]

Asexuality is a big spectrum and we're all different. For me personally, I'm ace and attracted to guys, as in I see guys I find are hot/cute all the time and get crushes a lot. Dicks do nothing for me though, neither does sex.. I'm pretty sex-averse and repulsed by the thought of actually having sex. I just have absolutely no desire for that stuff and I'd be fine living me whole life without having sex. I do have a fetish though that only pertains to guys, so it's not like I don't have a libido. I'd say I'm actually pretty horny (for an ace person at least).. I masturbate pretty much every day and post nudes online and shit. I'd label myself as homoromantic asexual although sometimes it's easier to just call myself gay even though I don't like sex. I mean, I'm basically gay minus that part lol.

 

[nhguy78]

I am so glad I found this thread. Is there a group for aces or people on the ace spectrum?

I am homo-leaning romantic, more homo-leaning aesthetic asexual. I had difficulty in realizing that my romantic side is not the same as sexual. At one point I thought I was aromantic but I don't think that's true. That's how I started to wonder what's going on. I thought it was my testosterone levels but they're normal (or at least not treatable).

So, my history is one very sexual. I had sex. I tried to like it. It's ok and I can enjoy it but like the memes about aces indicate: lots of things better than sexual intercourse. That said, I'd love to experience a better way of intercourse, perhaps someone who knows what they're doing. Also, asexuals, if they have sex with someone other than self, usually don't for reasons of romance or just to get off.

Just remember, asexuality is about sexual attraction and not behavior.

 

[SizeQueenLola]

asexual cocks need advice too

 

[Scarletbegonia]

I have an acquaintance, completely asexual, and he’s a big dick, soooo.

 

[roryjack]

I've spent some time on asexual forums trying to understand more about how they think and feel. I'm not surprised that some asexuals might want or need to ask some questions here.