Younger sub guy with major guilt after cumming

[southeastone]

I am a guy in my 60s and recently met up with a guy in his 30s who is bi and has kids. He's split from his girl.

The problem I have with him is he is keen for me to be his 'Daddy' and control him even sharing him out at the sauna but as soon as he cums he immediately gives it the 'WTF am I doing', dresses and runs. He's happy for me and others to fuck him (safe), and he sucks me, he kisses but not tongue and loves his nipples being bitten. I've blindfolded him a couple of times, he's very open minded but still we have the cum and run problem.

Thoughts? Can we get past this problem?

 

[HungBtmVegas]

It sounds like he's governed by his horniness and indulges in things that he hasn't yet accepted about himself. I went through that briefly with one of my biggest kinks. Hopefully he unpacks it soon and learns to enjoy himself before, during, and after.

 

[CUBE]

Perhaps he should be played with but not allowed to get off. Then he can leave with pleasures but break the cycle of shame(?)

 

[southeastone]

Perhaps he should be played with but not allowed to get off. Then he can leave with pleasures but break the cycle of shame(?)

I thought that, not sure how it will play out in reality