Foreskin First: How I Filter Guys' Hookup Site Profiles

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"Is he hot (to me)?" is the first question I ask
Except that I don't ask it, it's more an instant judgement from looking at his profile picture​

If he takes good physical care of himself, then I proceed to the next question:
"Is he circumcised?"
One of my most common experiences is to find a guy's profile,
then notice he's physically hot,
only to despair to myself

"Oh no, he's circumcised."

At which point I close the profile, never to be looked at again.
This comes from my fixation on foreskin;
The bonding experience of edging while docking with someone I have an emotional connection with is so important that I'm willing to filter my entire dating life through it.
Exploring a man's personality even comes after this, I must admit.
(Though I don't make a habit of having sex before knowing someone well, which presents a challenge: how do I know if a man has the goods without having sex with him until we know each other well?)​

The flipside of my rule is that by being circumcised myself, I risk filtering myself out of my own dating life.
The solution to this is foreskin restoration, and damn, it takes a long time.

The work is worth it though.
To give you all a reason to read this beyond the text, here's a picture of me.
I'm about ~160lbs right now, (25lbs under my previous max).
I lost that weight while dealing with digestive health issues, and I'm nearly ready to start building my way back up and beyond to my ultimate goal of 6'3"/210lbs.
(I'll do a blog series about my bodybuilding challenges in the future, so check back for that in the future.)
Thanks for reading, leave a comment or send a message with your thoughts, photos, or solicitations of friendship!

Until next time...
- Exultis_

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