advice needed

I am an average sized guy and I am interested on how to be able to show a decent bulge through my pants. My dick is a grower not a shower and my balls are somewhat low hangars and medium size. In this context all attempts to show off with a decent bulge failed. One idea that I did not tried...

Right, how do I start this? It aches me bad to say it but I think I might lose hope on having sex. I have always liked men, I’d go as far as say I love men. And it goes beyond just the idea of sex, boys are just so precious and perfect. Fell in love with plenty and the idea of a mlm...

Does having sex after a long break feel like losing your virginity again? Does it hurt? Do you have any advice? Especially if you are 40s or 50s and I especially if you have experience with a larger or very large guy (say 7.5” but not super thick) My wife says so, and says that especially...

Hey everyone. New to posting threads so hopefully I'm doing this right and the story isn't very confusing. The following story is 100% real and I just need some advice and/or opinions on the matter. Straight (no pun intended) to the story. So back in 2021 my best friend (let's call him Peter)...

TW: nothing bad, just a very strange experience How do you deal with rejection from a person with whom you already had sex ? Most guys that I had sex with, when I see them again, it’s an automatic yes, and we go again. However, I see this guy regularly when I go to a cruising bar; we had sex...

Really debated posting this but I feel I have nobody else to talk to about it and it's driving me insane and completely consuming my thoughts. So me and my best friend have known eachother about 18 years now. I'm openly bisexual and have been for a number of years now and he was actually the...

Hey everyone, I'll try to make a long story short. I'm 23M and have been bisexual for as long as I can remember. However, I've only started experimenting with guys about a year ago. Up until January 2023 I had been too scared to try anything with a guy. I'd never dated a guy, romantically liked...

Hey you guys, I'll try to make a long story short. I'm 23M and have been bisexual for as long as I can remember. However, I've only started experimenting with guys about a year ago. Up until January 2023 I had been too scared to try anything with a guy. I'd never dated a guy, romantically liked...

I am 28 years old and in a relationship. Most of the time I'm top, but sometimes when I want to be bottom it just doesn't work for me. I open the hole, but he barely got in. When it comes in, it's like someone is slaughtering me. After sex, which lasts a very short time (it can hardly be...

Has anyone on here ever found themselves being sexually selfish? Hopefully that’s the right term for what I have in mind. But if so, what did you do to overcome it? I have a (bad) habit of wanting to pack up and leave once I meet up with someone and bust one. Prior to us meeting, I’m full of...

I've always been sexually attracted to dudes. I've just never called it "attraction". I went to an all-boys high school, and I would get the butterflies whenever I saw a good-looking classmate of mine. I've never acted on those feelings, because I again I didn't know that it was an attraction...

Hey everyone- I've been trying to start swimming. Since I'm a chubby guy and it's the only sport I like it seemed to be the best option, the only issue is the showers. Besides being a bit fat and dealing with backne (went to the dermathologyst for this and I'm getting treated, so hopefully it'll...

So hypothetically, let's say a friend has been dating someone in secret for a couple months and they finally tell you. They tell you the name and show you a pic. And you were getting a sense of dread at the name but the picture clenches the situation. You know the guy, he's your other friend's...

This is going to sound really stupid and pathetic but i'm just going to be super vulnerable and hope no one laughs. I've been in a constant loop of having crushes on different influencers on both instagram and tiktok. What usually happens is i'll scroll through tiktok, come across a really hot...

I'd like to make a long story short but at the same time, I'd like to explain things as best as possible. Please bare with me. I'm bisexual (24 years old), I've come to accept that. I am DL though. For future reference in this post, I wanna state that I'm genuinely not romantically interested...

I'd like to make a long story short but at the same time, I'd like to explain things as best as possible. Please bare with me. I'm bisexual (24 years old), I've come to accept that. I am DL though. For future reference in this post, I wanna state that I'm genuinely not romantically interested...

PLEASEEE don't judge. I kinda wanted to avoid this but honestly i'm desperate to get this resolved. I tried a different site but there were no responses. So, the upper part of my shlong has like this weird texture. It doesn't feel weird, it just looks weird I guess. It's wrinkly like it has...

I'm mostly if not exclusively a top. The problem is that I'm also most of the time attracted only to other tops. I like to be side with them, but I think I want to top another top even if that means to flip flop. Maybe it's bad, but just thinking about opening for the first time a top ass...

Hi! I’m newer to sex and I’m unsure about a couple of things regarding bottoming My boyfriend and I have been experimenting with a lot of things but for some reason bottoming is strange to me. Is there any way to minimize the pain? My boyfriend and I are on the larger side of things but he...

Hey! I'm a 22 yr old guy, healthy weight for my height. For the past 5+ years I've really struggled with butt acne... which, as you can imagine, is pretty embarrassing. I'm not talking a couple pimples, it covers a lot of my cheeks and I have some scars from previous pimples. I've tried...

So I’ve been messaging this guy from school that I used to have a crush on and now he is even hotter and I want to shoot my shot, problem is, I don’t know if he is gay or not. Can I get some help?

Hey, new here. I usually lurk but thought I'd spark some discussion and ask for advice. Soo pretty much what the title says. I'm 22, I graduated last year, still a virgin. Backstory: I was always pretty overweight and dealt with some insecurities. After I graduated I decided i'd get my shit...

Just like the title says, my cock curves slightly downwards when erect. Is there anything I can do to fix this? I'd like my cock to curve upwards rather than downwards. It's also sensitive around the line that goes up the center of the cock to the tip. Idk if this does anything but I tend to...

Hey, so I was on some dating apps the other day, not looking for anything, just bored, when a really cute guy hit me up. We talked for a while and hit it off, hes my type and he proposed that we could maybe meet and hook up. The thing is, I havent done hookups before, and there is a pretty big...

I’ll try to make a long story short and please forgive any spelling mistakes, I’m typing this from my phone. I’m in my 20s and I told myself that this would be the year I finally try things with a guy. I like girls too but failed relationship after failed relationship has left me wondering what...

whats the best at home way to douche? im gonna try bottoming soon and need help..;)

I’m basically completely fucking straight! But I’m kind of into older/ old men. How do I get them to like me? Where do I find men that might be interested?

It's probably one of the most stupid question I've asked my entire life, but I have a crush on - let's call him a classmate. I'm pretty sure he's straight. He is soooo cute, but unfortunately at first he wasn't ok even with simple flirting (he was super shy) and I was like "ok, that's the...

Hey have a straight roommate I wanna give head. How do I subtly let him know if he ever needs a mouth to hit me up? We aren’t close at all but everytime I hear him fuck a girl she’s loud so I bet it’s worth a try lol.

Hey so I’m I guess in the grand scheme of things newer to sex and usually bottom. The last two partners I’ve had though fucked me really well and I keep having this feeling of feeling like I need to pee when they are fucking me? Like what is this? Are they hitting my prostate or my bladder...