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When I pressed “play” on that first WhatsApp voice note, I didn’t expect to hear a 20-year-old straight university student confess how his secret gay-focused OnlyFans account had just blown up his quiet life.
Alex (name changed) isn’t a porn star. He’s not famous. He’s just a guy who once...
Once a pioneer of inclusivity and representation in gay dating, Jack’d today stands as both a cautionary tale and a cultural relic. Here’s how an app that once felt like “home” for queer men of color lost its way, and why it still matters.
Introduction: When the Other Apps Didn’t Feel Like...
This one's going to be a bit longer... 😜
On Sniffies there's a discreet sex club in a small industrial park near me. It's been open for about a year. But given my discreet situation, I'm never able to attend as it's usually at night. Well they decided to have a Friday Noon to 4:00 afternoon...
In today’s digital age, the world of gay dating and hookup culture is bigger and more diverse than ever. Apps like Grindr, Scruff, and Hornet dominate the mainstream, while niche platforms continue to emerge, carving out dedicated spaces for men who know exactly what they want. One of the most...
Dating in 2025 is a landscape dominated by apps, and for gay men and LGBTQ+ folks, the digital space has become a vital part of connecting, flirting, and forming relationships. From casual hookups to meaningful partnerships, the right app can make a huge difference. But with so many options out...
Porn has always been quick to adopt new tech. VHS, streaming, camming. The adult world was there first. Now it’s artificial intelligence’s turn, and it’s reshaping not just porn in general, but gay porn and queer fantasies in particular.
We’re seeing AI-generated “virtual boyfriends,” porn...
This post is yet one more in a series addressing ejaculatory performance. It concerns a phenomenon that seems to go unnoticed for several reasons. Interestingly enough, it may not be as exceptional as one would expect. I’m talking of a puzzling aspect of cum ejection: split spurts!
I guess...
This happened in September last year. After many hours of working outside my body was dirty and sweaty but at the same time I felt dangerously excited. In this situation there was only one way out for me - quickly took off all my clothes, sat down in my favorite armchair, and began to...
Attraction is shaped by an interplay of biology, culture, psychology, and socialization. While it is often considered a matter of personal preference, when someone says, “I don’t find people from [specific racial group] attractive,” it raises the question: is this an individual preference, or...
