advice needed

  1. hung-twink18

    Sex with tight foreskin

    My foreskin is pretty tight and never retracts even when I’m fully hard (see pics below)… It’s never caused me any obvious problems with sex or jerking off and isn’t painful at all so I feel it’s ok to just accept it, but do any other guys have this “problem” and, if so, have you done anything...
  2. Red_Satyr

    Too Old to be Someone's "Son"?

    I'm gay and in my mid 30's and I have a Dad/Son fantasy, however I think I'm a bit unusual since I want to be the "Son" in this situation even even though I'm well past the common age group. Everywhere I go looking for this type of content or for Dads/Daddies it's always 18-20 something year...
  3. H

    Overly Eager Hook-Ups

    I am someone who is not very experienced sexually and so I've relegated myself to a life as a side and a bottom (if ever i hook up which is not very often). I want to try my hand at topping since it aligned more with my sexual nature but I'm running into an issue. Maybe this is a sign of ED or...
  4. J

    Advice for anal

    Hi guys, I’m new posting here although I’ve been navigating in this forum for years. I’d need some advice. I’m currently in a stable gay relationship, and a top. I would like to explore the other way around, but it has always been uncomfortable for me. Furthermore, my boyfriend has no precum...
  5. T

    Is This Fat or Muscle?

    So... I was taking some photos for someone last night and I decided to try to get one from the back. Now, obviously, I can't see my backside all the way, so I had no real idea of what it looked like. Uhm...when I did, I kinda was a bit weirded out by the results. I look kinda like a Renaissance...
  6. T

    How can I be better for my partner?

    Hey guys, I'll try not to type too much. I'm 24(M) in a relationship with another 24(M) for about a month, however, we'd been dating for the last 9 or so months. I'm his first boyfriend, he's my first boyfriend. I've only been experimenting with guys for about a year and some change. Up until...
  7. T

    How can I be better for my partner?

    Hey guys, I'll try not to type too much. I'm 24(M) in a relationship with another 24(M) for about a month, however, we'd been dating for the last 9 or so months. I'm his first boyfriend, he's my first boyfriend. I've only been experimenting with guys for about a year and some change. Up until...
  8. NEMy

    Experiences for gays with medium small dick

    I am an average sized guy and I am interested on how to be able to show a decent bulge through my pants. My dick is a grower not a shower and my balls are somewhat low hangars and medium size. In this context all attempts to show off with a decent bulge failed. One idea that I did not tried...
  9. A

    Losing hope on bottoming, help needed.

    Right, how do I start this? It aches me bad to say it but I think I might lose hope on having sex. I have always liked men, I’d go as far as say I love men. And it goes beyond just the idea of sex, boys are just so precious and perfect. Fell in love with plenty and the idea of a mlm...
  10. T

    sex hurting after a period of abstinence

    Does having sex after a long break feel like losing your virginity again? Does it hurt? Do you have any advice? Especially if you are 40s or 50s and I especially if you have experience with a larger or very large guy (say 7.5” but not super thick) My wife says so, and says that especially...
  11. El2024

    Is my straight friend actually straight?

    Hey everyone. New to posting threads so hopefully I'm doing this right and the story isn't very confusing. The following story is 100% real and I just need some advice and/or opinions on the matter. Straight (no pun intended) to the story. So back in 2021 my best friend (let's call him Peter)...
  12. L

    How do you deal with rejection from someone you already had sex with?

    TW: nothing bad, just a very strange experience How do you deal with rejection from a person with whom you already had sex ? Most guys that I had sex with, when I see them again, it’s an automatic yes, and we go again. However, I see this guy regularly when I go to a cruising bar; we had sex...
  13. I

    Drunk sex with straight best friend - doesn't remember

    Really debated posting this but I feel I have nobody else to talk to about it and it's driving me insane and completely consuming my thoughts. So me and my best friend have known eachother about 18 years now. I'm openly bisexual and have been for a number of years now and he was actually the...
  14. T

    How do I top and then some?

    Hey everyone, I'll try to make a long story short. I'm 23M and have been bisexual for as long as I can remember. However, I've only started experimenting with guys about a year ago. Up until January 2023 I had been too scared to try anything with a guy. I'd never dated a guy, romantically liked...
  15. T

    How do I top and then some?

    Hey you guys, I'll try to make a long story short. I'm 23M and have been bisexual for as long as I can remember. However, I've only started experimenting with guys about a year ago. Up until January 2023 I had been too scared to try anything with a guy. I'd never dated a guy, romantically liked...
  16. F

    It hurts

    I am 28 years old and in a relationship. Most of the time I'm top, but sometimes when I want to be bottom it just doesn't work for me. I open the hole, but he barely got in. When it comes in, it's like someone is slaughtering me. After sex, which lasts a very short time (it can hardly be...
  17. T

    Being “sexually selfish”

    Has anyone on here ever found themselves being sexually selfish? Hopefully that’s the right term for what I have in mind. But if so, what did you do to overcome it? I have a (bad) habit of wanting to pack up and leave once I meet up with someone and bust one. Prior to us meeting, I’m full of...
  18. K

    Do you believe in labels? I think I'm bisexual, because gay and straight don't feel right to me.

    I've always been sexually attracted to dudes. I've just never called it "attraction". I went to an all-boys high school, and I would get the butterflies whenever I saw a good-looking classmate of mine. I've never acted on those feelings, because I again I didn't know that it was an attraction...
  19. E

    Self-conscious of my size in the pool showers

    Hey everyone- I've been trying to start swimming. Since I'm a chubby guy and it's the only sport I like it seemed to be the best option, the only issue is the showers. Besides being a bit fat and dealing with backne (went to the dermathologyst for this and I'm getting treated, so hopefully it'll...
  20. Q

    Should I say something?

    So hypothetically, let's say a friend has been dating someone in secret for a couple months and they finally tell you. They tell you the name and show you a pic. And you were getting a sense of dread at the name but the picture clenches the situation. You know the guy, he's your other friend's...
  21. K

    How to avoid Influencer Crushes/Break out of this Loop?

    This is going to sound really stupid and pathetic but i'm just going to be super vulnerable and hope no one laughs. I've been in a constant loop of having crushes on different influencers on both instagram and tiktok. What usually happens is i'll scroll through tiktok, come across a really hot...
  22. U

    Issues with my friend with benefits

    I'd like to make a long story short but at the same time, I'd like to explain things as best as possible. Please bare with me. I'm bisexual (24 years old), I've come to accept that. I am DL though. For future reference in this post, I wanna state that I'm genuinely not romantically interested...
  23. U

    Issue With My Friend With Benefits

    I'd like to make a long story short but at the same time, I'd like to explain things as best as possible. Please bare with me. I'm bisexual (24 years old), I've come to accept that. I am DL though. For future reference in this post, I wanna state that I'm genuinely not romantically interested...
  24. A

    Wrinkly/Scaly Foreskin Texture helpp

    PLEASEEE don't judge. I kinda wanted to avoid this but honestly i'm desperate to get this resolved. I tried a different site but there were no responses. So, the upper part of my shlong has like this weird texture. It doesn't feel weird, it just looks weird I guess. It's wrinkly like it has...
  25. F

    Top for top problem

    I'm mostly if not exclusively a top. The problem is that I'm also most of the time attracted only to other tops. I like to be side with them, but I think I want to top another top even if that means to flip flop. Maybe it's bad, but just thinking about opening for the first time a top ass...
  26. L

    Advice for bottoming

    Hi! I’m newer to sex and I’m unsure about a couple of things regarding bottoming My boyfriend and I have been experimenting with a lot of things but for some reason bottoming is strange to me. Is there any way to minimize the pain? My boyfriend and I are on the larger side of things but he...
  27. P

    Butt Acne/Folluculitis. Help me please!

    Hey! I'm a 22 yr old guy, healthy weight for my height. For the past 5+ years I've really struggled with butt acne... which, as you can imagine, is pretty embarrassing. I'm not talking a couple pimples, it covers a lot of my cheeks and I have some scars from previous pimples. I've tried...
  28. D

    Help Flirting With A Guy

    So I’ve been messaging this guy from school that I used to have a crush on and now he is even hotter and I want to shoot my shot, problem is, I don’t know if he is gay or not. Can I get some help?
  29. K

    22 y/o Gay Virgin (Need Advice/Rant)

    Hey, new here. I usually lurk but thought I'd spark some discussion and ask for advice. Soo pretty much what the title says. I'm 22, I graduated last year, still a virgin. Backstory: I was always pretty overweight and dealt with some insecurities. After I graduated I decided i'd get my shit...
  30. H

    How can i fix my downward curve?

    Just like the title says, my cock curves slightly downwards when erect. Is there anything I can do to fix this? I'd like my cock to curve upwards rather than downwards. It's also sensitive around the line that goes up the center of the cock to the tip. Idk if this does anything but I tend to...